Leo Male

i'm a leo with aquarius moon too.

hmm...it sounds like you guys are playing a lot of little games which would drive me nuts but if it works for you then that's cool.

i think that in this relationship the aquarius usually has control, and that works as long as the aquarius doesn't push too far. 'cause i know sometimes you guys like to test people and play devil's advocate and things like that, and if a leo misunderstands that for toying with their emotions, 's baaad news.

i have to say that i don't think you should base your whole relationship around sun signs or astrology, and now that that's out of the way, i think leo and aquarius can find what they want/need in one another, although i'm willing to bet there's definitely gonna be some big conflicts along the road. if his moon really is in aquarius, then you guys could achieve a lot of understanding.

"Wheelhomies your absolutely right, I sense the games also, so me being very mental, had to decide not to be so reactive to certain situations, communicate my feelings and let it go. I would love to hear more about your experiences, maybe you could email me and we could chat, just a suggestion/invitation. From your experiences what would be a good way to not indulge in those behaviors? Honestly I'm not a person who plays games but he will do something and I will react and the wheels start turning."

i've never dated an aquarius. i have seen the dynamics of the relationship, though, because i knew an aquarius female/leo male couple. i'd be happy to offer some observations and whatnot, and i don't need to do it privately unless you prefer it that way. (part of me hates giving advice though, 'cause it can always come back to bite you in the ass 😛).

"WH--Your right about the control issue, I had to mentally tell myself not to play games with his emotions becuase of the imbalance of our relationship, meaning he's more into me and it's taking me longer because I'm more focused on developing a friendship, whereas he's more focused on trying to win my approval and love."

ugh, i know the feeling 😉. before i was into astrology, i was really into aquarius guys (that at the time i didn't even know were aquarians - you guys are like magnets to me). looking back, i made a lot of (typically leo) mistakes in trying to win them over...which is why i failed... 😛

"Can you elaborate on push too far? I'm interested in how I could push him, not that I would, I don't want to swim upstream in that area so to speak."

what i meant by that is that leo takes things personally (as is our nature). let's say you make a remark you know might not go over well just to get a reaction - to you, it's just a little amusement/testing, but for a leo, it could be a big deal (most definitely if he really cares about you). especially if it's something that might wound his ego.

"What I can say is yes it's true, he has that I wanna please everyone Leo attribute, big warm cuddly heart, if a girl cries he's right there, very sympathetic, I feel like a robot compared to his emotions, just an all around emotional, vibrant, LOUD, artistic guy. We are total opposites but we seem to gel as one, he's not smothering me atleast not yet and if he is and I bring it up, he will back off a bit.

ugh so many questions...thanks for feedback (:"

yeah, leos and aquarians are polar opposites, the basics of your being are so different. that either makes for an extremely complementary match full of mutual admiration (as well as compromise 😉) or an extreme mismatch where the two butt heads constantly. a lot of it really depends on how well the two communicate.

and, seriously, if this guy has aquarius moon, the chances of success are so much better.

"time will tell if we compliment each other, either way i think it will be a mutual longterm friendship if not anything else, he's an awesome person, by no means perfect but i definitely enjoy the attention."

and aqua and leo are great as friends, at least in my experience.

"Also do you think by my moon being in leo the tendency to be jealous comes up?"

YES! but just try to keep it under control and it should be alright, i think you can handle it if you rationalize your way through it 😛. coming from a female leo sun aqua moon (and this is just between you and me), i don't mind a little jealousy and possessiveness. i find it pretty amusing and it shows you must like me for some reason 😉.

so you have leo moon, huh? chances are you can understand some of his leo tendencies better than a full-fledged aquarius could. hmm...i think this same situation came up a while ago with another dxper (she was an aqua with leo moon and he was a leo with aqua moon), and i'm pretty sure that didn't work out. generally speaking, though, this really shows a lot of potential for you two to understand one another.

as for the rest of your charts, i'm not qualified to say much about that 😛. from my point of view there's no red flags or anything too startling though.