Ok. So I dated this guy for almost 4 months and because it's not easy for me to be intimate outside of monogamy I felt that it wasn't fair to keep giving up the "goods" without an official commitment with him. He told me I was the only person he was taking seriously and that he needs at least 6 months to get to know a woman before being committed(he's been hurt before by his ex who cheated). I thought that was bullcrap because "how does someone know how long getting to know someone takes?" . Anyway, I felt like we were getting closer because I would spend the night and he would take me to breakfast and we'd spend the day together once a week. He thought that we should've spent at least 2-3 days a week together(to get 2 know each other). I couldn't see him twicor more a week because of work though.
After almost 4 months of dating, I told him I couldn't do this anymore because he wasn't ready for a relationship. He said "I'll miss you" but didn't even respond to the relationship part. Strangely, I think I hurt him because I think he feels I "gave up" on him.
I know my story sounds complicated but can any Leo men or someone with a similar experience give some advice?! Will he ever come back or at least keep in contact? Will he really miss me like he said? What should I do?
The fact that he didn't even try to explain himself and keep you around shows that he didn't really give a damn. Just a waste of damn time. Such a typical Leo trait. He probably had some other chick around that he wasn't telling you about. That's ALSO a typical Leo trait. You did the right thing. Take it from me girl, don't waste your time. He told you he wasn't ready for a relationship (which i think is bs) so that's all you needed to know. So move on. It's gonna hurt at first, but you will get over him.
My bad. I read it wrong. So he didn't tell you that he wasn't ready for a relationship but his actions are showing you that he's not. So you did the right thing. And to answer your question, YES. He will definitely come back around. As soon as that other chick in his life cut him off like you just did, he'll get bored and lonely and try to hit you up like nothing happened. Leo men need their egos stroked at all times and they hop from woman to woman tryna get it. Thats what they do. Save yourself the heart ache and pain my fellow Pisces sister and try your best to move on. Be strong! xo
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After almost 4 months of dating, I told him I couldn't do this anymore because he wasn't ready for a relationship. He said "I'll miss you" but didn't even respond to the relationship part. Strangely, I think I hurt him because I think he feels I "gave up" on him.
I know my story sounds complicated but can any Leo men or someone with a similar experience give some advice?! Will he ever come back or at least keep in contact? Will he really miss me like he said? What should I do?