Leo Man has not date me out, should i worry?

Hi All,

I have been talking to this Leo Man for a month now, i have directly and indirectly tell him that I want to see him.. and tell him that he needs to spend time with me to know the real me..

However, he would just ignore those questions and remarks.. and i get no answer if he wants to meet me.. He told me he likes me, find me attractive and yeah i did tell him i like him too.. but he always say i would not want him if i see him, but i assure him i will definitely still likes him.. i told him i find him good looking..

I read that Leos are very straightforward and will take actions fast, but this leo is only sweet talking to me through text and not wanting to meet me as of now..

I dont understand this, as in should i worry that he's only spending his free time texting me when he's bored or he needs time to evaluate the whole situation and i need to give him time and space or he's testing me to see if i would go away if he doesnt meet me?

Will he ever ask to meet me? loool..

Oh girl this leo are pain in the asss

Posted by Yeli04
Oh girl this leo are pain in the asss

hi yeli04, why do you say so, please enlighten me.. 🙂

below is his birth chart if its help.
Zodiac in degrees 0.00
Sun Leo 11.01
Moon Libra 28.48
Mercury Virgo 8.06
Venus Leo 24.17
Mars Scorpio 22.50
Jupiter Capricorn 4.14 R
Saturn Scorpio 10.04
Uranus Sagittarius 9.38 R
Neptune Sagittarius 29.02 R
Pluto Libra 29.30
Lilith Pisces 26.14
Asc nodeGemini 4.10

Posted by Impulsv
Have u confirmed he's not married

he says his last relationship is 1 year ago..
i really doubt he's married, though i can do a check..
i never suspect that he's married..

how do i ask him this now? omg.. loool..

Posted by bullbullgirl

Posted by Impulsv
Have u confirmed he's not married

he says his last relationship is 1 year ago..
i really doubt he's married, though i can do a check..
i never suspect that he's married..

how do i ask him this now? omg.. loool..

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Ask, "Are you married?"

Posted by Jynja
Noooooo!!!!!!!!! Don't ask him if he is married. That will just make him recoil more.

You have the rare Leo man who is shy, unsure and worried. Maybe he is even a bit insecure too, but that worry he is expressing of not being right for you comes from a battle weary lion who may just be looking to settle down.

He sounds like an evolved Leo. He will need someone who is very patient to work with him, and draw him out of his comfort zone. He doesn't want to hurt you or be hurt, so he is taking things slow.

Aren't you a Taurus? Why the haste?

hi, Jynja..

the things you say are rather true... as in he ask before if he will be my last guy.. i say i hope it turns out that way.. and yes, he's insecure as he says he dont trust much on love after past failed rs.. he also get insecure if he knows i'm out.. looool.. so now i wont let him know i'm out.

of course i'm patient.. only if i know he just needs time and space.. and not stringing me along..

i have guys asking me out, asking me to be their girls, but my feelings are with this leo..

if ever this leo knows that i dating other guys at the same time while waiting for him, i'm very sure he will just drop me and disappear straightaway...

i'm loyal once i know i have the other person's heart, but before that, i can't wait for him forever.. if you know what i mean..

'You have the rare Leo man who is shy, unsure and worried.' this suit him well in this situation.. i have to reassure him every now and then..

he had a very happening times when he's much younger but now he's more stable now..

i will be patient with him, i think he's worth it🙂

Posted by Jynja
Oh yes, ask for confirmation pics. Always ask for another picture to confirm.

yup, he did send me some pictures of him every now and then and i know those picture are the real him.. for instance, he would tell me he's watching a match and send me a pic.. and the match is ongoing.. so i know he took the picture at the very moment.. though he's very shy to take pictures.. he's so shy and cute at the same time... but direct in telling me he likes me, though i'm not sure if i can believe 100% in this..

Posted by Jynja
Yeah, when a Leo wants you, you know.

Let me suggest something. If you know a place to hangout that is close by his home, you can say you'll be hanging out there with a friend. A girl will be preferred. And then tell him because it is near his home, you think it would be nice to meet. Or, at least, he can just come and see if he would like to meet you.

Then assure him if he comes around and doesn't want to see you, you won't hold it against him.

But, you need to remind him that he has to treat you like a lady, because you are worth being treated like a lady. Meeting for a coffee to encourage you is gentlemanly. :-)

he will be travelling for business soon.. i will give him more time and give it a try after that.. and of course, i will bring a girl.. and i will push/rush for anything..

he tells me i have the body figure that he likes.. and i tell him, he has to like me for who i am first!

other than iniviting him for a coffee.. how else can i remind him to treat me like a lady, as in i know i'm worth it.. but how to 'remind' him.. best is to make him want to see me so much that he wants to meet me.. always telling me he missed me, how great would it be if it's combined with some actions.

sorry.. i'm a noob in all these..

Posted by RainDancer88
LOL... "make sure he is not married"


Leo man - simple.

Loyalty. Work on your ambitions, tell him about it. Let him come to you because he likes who you are. Maybe open up because either way youll lay it all out. That is to be respected.

Loyalty. I'm super loyal to people i accepted. So far, he has not done anything disrespectful. He will just get mooody if i did not reply him in time, but he always disappear himself and come back much later, i never questions him on this..

what you mean by open up? now i'm just trying different topics to chat with him to see which interests him..

Posted by Jynja
Just tell him.

Say, hey, I'm a lady. I deserve to be treated as one.

Tell him how you feel about this, what you want, and let him know you like and respect him but you want someone who wants you back.

Its been just a month though. And he is a Scorpio mars man with very very strong emotions that probably scare him. He is afraid he will scare you off if he comes on too strong.

Libra moon indecision.

'let him know you like and respect him but you want someone who wants you back.' i tell him these before and he will always reply.. 'i likes you' loool

in fact he's the one who express interests first, it's only after ahwile, i know maybe he wants more than flirting and i response to him, he asked me, 'you really like me?' i assure him yes.

i know it's only a month, but normally if a guy is interested in me, they will ask to see me within 2 weeks and i'm the one pushing it back.. but for him it's like i directly/indirectly tell him, he just ignore it. loool. and because he's a leo, based on the horoscope i read, knowing that they will move fast..

of course, i'm patient with him... if his words can be trusted, i will just 101% focus on him..
but man are actions based right? loool..

Libra moon indecision.. meaning he still deciding if he wants me or to invest to know me.. hmmm..

Posted by Jynja
Are you very sure his moon is not Scorpio?

Cause, from your other thread, he seems very sure. That doesn't fit with this chart. I'm a water moon Leo. I see more water in this guy than libra.

Cause if he is a Scorpio moon, you could tell him you like your men ugly/not attractive/whatever he said you won't like, so to bring his ass over so you can scare people at the club together. It should make him laugh. Scorpio moons enjoy self deprecating stuff like that.

And then get ready, cause I would bet money he will try to seduce you on your very first meeting.

yeah, i just double check, he's a libra moon. loool.
what you mean by he seems very sure? sorry if i sound very stupid..

'I would bet money he will try to seduce you on your very first meeting' looool.. you will win the bet. he did mention that he has strong sex drive, something along that line. i upfront directly tells him, if only i'm his girlfriend..

there's once he ask me to show his pic to my friends to tell them he's my guy, i say no, incase he's not and i need to explain myself to them, he repy saying he will sure be my guy. if words can be trusted... loool.

Posted by Jynja
Hmmm... He is looking more Scorpio moonish to me now. The talk about liking his women compliant and staying at home. The jealousy about hanging out, the shyness and worry.

So, his shyness is him standing back to assess his chances and to understand you fully. He will learn everything about you by the time he is ready to meet you. Next thing you know, he will be using these things to mold you into the kind of woman he wants. When you meet, he would already have owned you.

Why didn't I see this from the start?! Damn, he is like a Scorpio living in a lion's skin. The forthrightness, honesty, -- i would dare to risk guessing his ascendant is in Scorpio. Or, Taurus. Most likely Scorpio, which is why he is cautious about taking pictures.

He knows what he is doing. Has probably planned it all and is just waiting for the right opportunity.

If my guess is right and he is a Scorpio moon, then really don't ask to meet him. Just let him know what you have told us here - including not being able to wait forever. Then wait. He probably won't say anything immediately, so you will have to wait. When he comes to a decision, you'll know.

And then you will really need to wear iron panties if he decides to meet up. 😉

omg!! that sound scary..

but based on the birthchart, his ascendant is in Gemini, he only has Scorpio in Mars and Saturn, unless his birthdate is false. loool..

okay.. i guess i will change my approach in telling him.. i will tell him i'm 'not being able to wait forever' and if he really wants me he should do something as man's action speak louder than words.. but i will not tell him now.. maybe when he gets more comfortable with me first.

his ascendant is in Gemini.. i only know his birthdate but not birthtime.

Posted by Jynja
Yeah, BullBull, you are the interest of the ultimate hunter.

The Leo Scorpio who has refined the art of hunting.

Just... I don't know... Good luck.

These men can be scarily intense. Super possessive. Alpha males. They have the confidence of Leos, the magnetism of Scorpios, and yours has all these in stark relief.

I married one of these creatures. Only, mine is a Scorpio Leo. Everyday, I feel like queen.

'Just... I don't know... Good luck.' that doesnt sound good or positive.. looool..

'BullBull, you are the interest of the ultimate hunter.' i'm 'trained' by a virgo to be who i am today with guys..

'Super possessive', i can sense this in the leo.. but most of my good friends are girls, so i should be safe in this matter.. lool..

Posted by Jynja

Posted by bullbullgirl
his ascendant is in Gemini.. i only know his birthdate but not birthtime.

Yeah. His birthtime could change everything. If he was born later that same day, he will be the Scorpio moon I'm talking about. And his ascendant will move too.

No problem though. I'm not one to insist, but this man smells so Scorpio moon, it reeks in here. LOL

😄

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ahhh.. i see.. i thought birthdate will determine.. and birthtime is the degree, though i dont understand much on it.. ooops.. i can't ask about his bithtime.. it's just so weird..

let's just assume he's a scorpio moon.. as it seems more complicated than a libra moon..
looool..

Posted by Jynja

Posted by bullbullgirl

Posted by Jynja
Yeah, BullBull, you are the interest of the ultimate hunter.

The Leo Scorpio who has refined the art of hunting.

Just... I don't know... Good luck.

These men can be scarily intense. Super possessive. Alpha males. They have the confidence of Leos, the magnetism of Scorpios, and yours has all these in stark relief.

I married one of these creatures. Only, mine is a Scorpio Leo. Everyday, I feel like queen.

'Just... I don't know... Good luck.' that doesnt sound good or positive.. looool..

'BullBull, you are the interest of the ultimate hunter.' i'm 'trained' by a virgo to be who i am today with guys..

'Super possessive', i can sense this in the leo.. but most of my good friends are girls, so i should be safe in this matter.. lool..

LOL Don't let me scare you. I'm a Scorpio Mars native as well. Just with a Cancer moon and asc. It's not bad or negative. It's just really really intense with us. That is all. 🙂

The men are real teddy bears though. And they tend to spoil their gfs rotten 🙂

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dont worry, it's always good to learn more.. i guess he wont be as bad as a virgo with heavy virgo placements.. ooops.. hope no virgo in this thread. loool..

'they tend to spoil their gfs rotten'.. i read about this too.. hopefully it's true if i'm fated with him.. so far he's such a sweet one..

i still not very good at reading/ analyse birthchart.

this is mine if it helps:
Sun Taurus
Moon Cancer
Mercury Gemini
Venus Cancer
Mars Aquarius
Jupiter Taurus
Saturn Capricorn
Uranus Capricorn
Neptune Capricorn
Pluto Scorpio
Lilith Virgo
Asc nodePisces

Posted by Jynja
Cancer moon sister!!!


The best place for the moon to be. In your heart of hearts, i think you already know if he's lying to you or not. You are able to see through his lies. If he lies.

hihi cancer moon sister!! 🙂

cancer moon, so intense..

infact, i trust easily, as in i dont really doubt what people say unless they give me reasons to.
maybe you are right, i would have know or feel it if he's lying to me..

and when he wants attention, he really wants it right at the moment, and when he gets it, he went off.
i guess it's normal for leo to behave like this?
Am i doing the right thing to feed his attention?

I would advice you if I knew what exactly they are feeling but for now I know they are at least nice guys and do not like too much flattery

Posted by Jynja
Yeah, I think that if he is feeling okay about getting your attention, then it is okay to give it to him. Just stay within reason.

If you need to hide in your shell too, do it. He doesn't owe you anything, and he will appreciate you being true to yourself.

🙂

i dont smoother him.. i just tell him or let him know that, hey i'm here.. and then he's okay with it.. it's like he needs assurance to know that i'm still there when he needs it..

Posted by Sunshine4
I would advice you if I knew what exactly they are feeling but for now I know they are at least nice guys and do not like too much flattery

yeah.. i also feel that he's a nice and sweet guy as of now.. i dont really give him too much flattery, just assure him that i like him as he keeps saying that he feels that i wont like him when i see him..

now we are on the topic of me always going out /staying out late..

though he say it's okay, but i know he minds..

and i have tell him people i hang out with are girls which are true..and all we do is eat.. i dont smoke nor drink..

i just need him to give me the freedom on this..

how should i approach this topic?