Leo man makes me confused

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I've been seeing a Leo man for 7 months, we have talked about the relationship but he said that he doesn't think he is ready for it as he had hurt by someone deeply befor and he got this emotional problem and not sure if he can give me the love I deserve. ( As I know, his ex cheated on him while he was very focus on his school work)

He told me that he does care about me and want me to be happy. We hang twice a week and act just like couples, I've met his friend and he's met mine as well.

I'm so confused about everything now as I really wanna be in a relationship with him and I can feel he likes me but I have no idea how long should I keep seeing him.
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I've been seeing a Leo man for 7 months, we have talked about the relationship but he said that he doesn't think he is ready for it as he had hurt by someone deeply befor and he got this emotional problem and not sure if he can give me the love I deserve. ( As I know, his ex cheated on him while he was very focus on his school work)

He told me that he does care about me and want me to be happy. We hang twice a week and act just like couples, I've met his friend and he's met mine as well.

I'm so confused about everything now as I really wanna be in a relationship with him and I can feel he likes me but I have no idea how long should I keep seeing him.


What's there to talk about? He says he's not ready for a relationship. So if that's important for you there isn't anything more to be said.
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I've been seeing a Leo man for 7 months, we have talked about the relationship but he said that he doesn't think he is ready for it as he had hurt by someone deeply befor and he got this emotional problem and not sure if he can give me the love I deserve. ( As I know, his ex cheated on him while he was very focus on his school work)

He told me that he does care about me and want me to be happy. We hang twice a week and act just like couples, I've met his friend and he's met mine as well.

I'm so confused about everything now as I really wanna be in a relationship with him and I can feel he likes me but I have no idea how long should I keep seeing him.


What's there to talk about? He says he's not ready for a relationship. So if that's important for you there isn't anything more to be said.
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I understand, just I don't want to stay in this situation forever....
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I've been seeing a Leo man for 7 months, we have talked about the relationship but he said that he doesn't think he is ready for it as he had hurt by someone deeply befor and he got this emotional problem and not sure if he can give me the love I deserve. ( As I know, his ex cheated on him while he was very focus on his school work)

He told me that he does care about me and want me to be happy. We hang twice a week and act just like couples, I've met his friend and he's met mine as well.

I'm so confused about everything now as I really wanna be in a relationship with him and I can feel he likes me but I have no idea how long should I keep seeing him.


What's there to talk about? He says he's not ready for a relationship. So if that's important for you there isn't anything more to be said.


I understand, just I don't want to stay in this situation forever....
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The only one keeping you there is yourself. He was upfront with you. He's not gonna do a relationship. So you can't cry foul if you waste anymore time on him...its on you.



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@Sagakhuri well.. I don't wanna keep giving him the pressure about this and also i'm so afraid to loose him.


You've already lost him. He's not going to be in a relationship with you now nor in the future so if you can function that way with him then at the very least you'll have companionship friends with benefits.

You should let him know he cannot have you all for himself because being in a monogamous commitment is important to you therefore you are willing to be sexually exclusive with him but will continue to leave your option to date others open.

Being afraid to lose him gives him power over you and your happiness because your happiness depends on being with him and him being with you. You love someone then let them go.

He can't have his cake and eat it too.
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Backstory sounds like a Leo I know...hmmm... what's his name?
MMMM his name is not the real point lol
What's your sun sign btw

It could be his age too that makes him hesitant to form a relationship. Maybe he just wants to play the field a bit.
I'm a Libra girl, he is 27 and I'm 25
If you happen to know his moon sign you'd get a better understanding of his emotions. I know Leos take a while to commit especially if they have a moon sign that's known to take their time committing.

I know a Leo who has Scorp moon. Same problem. Very hard to commit after what happened in his last relationship. His ex-gf cheated on him too. Now he's afraid to jump into a new relationship (which I know he yearns for). So he's being weary of who he lets in now.

Leos (and all fixed signs) take a while to commit because we need to know you'll be there till the end. When we do, and we get cheated on, it makes us even more weary to commit down the line. Just be patient with him and don't pressure him as that will put him off and you will end up with the opposite effect.

It could also be that he's still mourning his previous relationship and hasn't gotten over her or the trauma.
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I'm not sure his moon sign, just I still got the problem that he is being hot and cold to me. I got his message first and then when I replied him, he just unread it or not replying.. I mean this really confused me as if you don't want to talk to me then why would you message me? This totally makes no sense, does it ?

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Lol yeah hell do that. I've read up on the Leo on my Sextrology book and it goes into detail as to why hell do that. Hes just subconsciously getting rid of anyone is too clingy or too detached. Leo's, although loving, will want to stay with that one who will be there through thick and thin. It also sounds to me like he's testing your boundaries. Libras tend to be really passive agressive. Leo's like straightforward people and don't even mind someone who'll call them up on their bullshit. I've learned this from the Leo in my life. He might not like it but he appreciates it and it shows character. Which has is something a Leo craves. A woman whose hard on the outside but vulnerable and soft only to him.
Wow, u just defined me to a T.