Leo man, pisces girl relationship experience??

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Well, I knew him for a long time when we started dating. At first he was nice, sweet, cute, caring.
I was in a really bad condition when we started to go out. I was lonely and had a lot of problems.
And he came, shiny, loud, protective, dominant.... I felt like he was sent to save me.
He called every day, wanted to hang out all the time, and spent a lot of time together and I loved it.
We started a relationship and in the beginning it was awsome. I love Leos, I admire them. Theire confidence, their conversations, intelligence...
And I loved that he was crazy about hanging out and spending time together. But with the time problems started to occur.
I know I said I like to spent time with him but he wanted my attention 7/24. He got angry easily, he shout a lot. When he was angry he got really really mean. And no matter what happened I was always the one who was guilty. Never was he.
But I was madly in Love so I tried to do anything to please him. He was complaining about everyhthing I did. I call him he told me to stop, I didnt call he called me and asked why I wasnt calling. I sleep early he is mad because he wanted to talk. Whatever I did, it was wrong. I tried everything but I never pleased him enough. And that was depressing.
He wanted my attention all the time and didnt understand when i needed time on my own. He called at 3 am just because he was bored and was mad when i was tired and not in the mood to chat because I had to ge tup early the enxt morning.

In the beginnign I liked his being so adventorous in bed. But it got annoying with time. He wanted too much from me. I couldnt give him what he wanted. And i tried really hard. For example he liked dirty talk, and I am not a fan of talking in bed, and I hate dirty talking. He was dominant whats a nice thing, I liked that but he wouldn listen to what I wanted and I am not good at shouting or telling someone. I think I was too silent, too sensitive. I need the emotional balance and he couldnt provide this. He was really sexual and even though i really like being with him, I always felt like what I give him wasnt enough. I was guilty, always. Our sexual chemistry wasnt the best, but it was the best point in our relationship.
Talking wasnt really good. I couldnt tell him what I was thinking about or feeling because He wasnt really interested.
I need someone to share my drams and he wasnt right for that. He wouldnt listen and soon I started to feel that I couldnt be myself around him.
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LOL Typical male lion behavior, lovable lions demand the love he KNOW he deserves, either give it to him or move on, he'll calm down if you're not swimming up stream and take time show him love consistently.

I read somewhere Pisce females feelings get hurt too quickly with Leo males, not sure if that's true or not, one things for sure if the sexual chemistry isn't on point it's a wrap, something has to spark up or the relationship will fizzle out fast.

Appears you were being a selfish lover and that just won't work with a Leo because they give so much of themselves to a relationship thus they expect the same reciprocity. If you're too busy daydreaming in your head, living in your thoughts like a true Pisces and not SHARING your thoughts and your dreams of course he'll grow discontent with you and make you feel the way he's feeling, I don't think you picked up on that in a positive way, leo males are not hard to please, for me it is one of the easiest signs to please because a display of love and affection warms a lion right up and he'll forget all about the bad stuff, they really do get over things quickly of course I'm not speaking for all male Leo's, I have male lions in my family as well as had personal experiences with em. Consistent displays of love, attention and affection, some lions can be high maintenance, will growl at selfish behavior.
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I was anything but selfish. I tried really hard but he never seemed to see hat I was doing to make him happy. I did things I didn want just because I knew he liked it or it would make him happy. The selfish one was him. He wouldnt listen, he didnt even care when i told him something.
You know I love to make other people happy and it was the same with him. I loved to please him but it was never enough.
Sexuality is just one example. If he wanted it I would never say no, because I knew it made him happy. But If I asked him to jsut cuddle or hug me he wouldnt understand. I tried to talk, to explain and to share everything I was thinking and feeling but he didnt sound interested at all. He didnt really care about what was important for me. And so I started to give up on my own wishes to make this relationship work.
But thats not how relationships work. You dont let go of all you want and long for just to make the other person happy. You can do that for a couple of month, maybe a year but it gets so exhausting. And it made me unahppy. But I loved him too much to give up on it.
I surely wasnt selfish, I did everything he wanted just to make him happy even it wasnt what would make me happy. And I wouldnt tell him. I know that was my fault, but i tried and he wouldnt listen.
Its like this he was loud, roaring, shouting. And I cant shout or roar. I would whisper and he wouldnt hear me. I tried to "shout" but after a couple of tries and nothign changing I gave up on this.
I loved him. And I really wanted this to work but it didnt. And in the end I was hurt (when ge got angry he really really hurt me with what he said and I am easily hurt anyway) and exhausted, totally silent (silence isnt always a good thing), and unhappy.

I do miss him but I dont want him back. I know its over and its better this way (we kept on breaking up and comming back together) but he was different for me.
I had a short relationship with a confused pisces guy lately and I noticed I missed my Leos dominant behaviour sometimes.
I read a lot about Pisces female, Leo male relationships and that it normaly doesnt work well. That the pisces girl is easily hurt etc. and all this happened in my relationship with a Leo. We werent a good match. I am just wondering if it can be different or if other had the same problems.
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To be clear I actually believe you, I believe you did everything you could to make it work, some lions (less evolved) can be high maintenance and throw temper tantrums, I'm sure you did your best but for him it wasn't good enough. I remember one leo male friend said his Pisces put out his fire (whatever that means).

I was curious and Googled Leo & Pisces...

"It is most uncommon that these two individuals would become attracted to each other. They may discover when they unite, that there is a lack of compatibility between them. Pisces requires a mate who is kind, gentle and romantic. Leo can possess strength of character, which will appeal to Pisces, but little else will make the sparks fly between them. Pisces needs to put all their faith and trust in a mate, one who will help with decisions, lighting a path for them to follow. Pisces can become very sacrificial considering mate's desires. They prefer dropping what they are doing in order to please their mate when the occasion arises. Leo often puts their own desires first, and will be there to assist only after their needs have been met. Leo must be aware that Pisces may take offense, causing them to feel rejected or slighted. Leo should use their expressive charm to reassure Pisces, cushion and comfort them.

Keep in mind that Leo is passionate, Pisces is romantic. Anything too enthusiastically displayed may cause Pisces to retreat, shy away, or resort to their fantasy dream world if reality becomes too harsh for them to handle. Pisces operates best in a tranquil atmosphere, While Leo has an affinity for gaiety and pomp.

Leo will get quite a workout trying to figure out Pisces confusion when they try sorting out Pisces moods. Leo may loose patience if Pisces can't keep up with Leo??s faster pace."




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Appears you were being a selfish lover and that just won't work with a Leo because they give so much of themselves to a relationship thus they expect the same reciprocity. If you're too busy daydreaming in your head, living in your thoughts like a true Pisces and not SHARING your thoughts and your dreams of course he'll grow discontent with you and make you feel the way he's feeling, I don't think you picked up on that in a positive way, leo males are not hard to please, for me it is one of the easiest signs to please because a display of love and affection warms a lion right up and he'll forget all about the bad stuff, they really do get over things quickly of course I'm not speaking for all male Leo's, I have male lions in my family as well as had personal experiences with em. Consistent displays of love, attention and affection, some lions can be high maintenance, will growl at selfish behavior.



ROFL...so your suggestion is that she should turn herself into a $ 20 hooker so she can please him otherwise she is a "selfish lover". Amazing! that was very insightful. Basically the guy can carry on being a prick and not listen or care for the feelings of his lady love but that's fine because leos are entitled. LOLOLOLOLOL....

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Posted by tiki33
"Leo often puts their own desires first, and will be there to assist only after their needs have been met."

From what you described his behavior is in alignment with the above statement.



Essentially attention whoring and selfishness? Wow....I have leo friends and have had relationships with leo women but I am yet to come across who has no self awareness the way you are making them out to be.
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@4fish, where were you a few years ago when I was obsessed about Pisces chicks? lol

Anyway, welcome to the Leo board, the friendliest corner of DXP. We've got some great male specimens in here, like Seraph..... I don't know if he's single but he's Canadian. 🙂

It seems that your Leo suffers from a typical case of immaturity. You give him a pinky and he grabs for the whole arm. The more you give him the more he will expect of you, and the more he expects the more you give in just to keep that temper of his under control. Pisces chicks do generally have a hard time drawing a line and sticking to it, which in turn makes the Leo act like an elephant in a porcelain shop. Pussycats this size are best kept on a leash!

You say "Our sexual chemistry wasnt the best, but it was the best point in our relationship." That doesen't sound too good.


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Appears you were being a selfish lover and that just won't work with a Leo because they give so much of themselves to a relationship thus they expect the same reciprocity. If you're too busy daydreaming in your head, living in your thoughts like a true Pisces and not SHARING your thoughts and your dreams of course he'll grow discontent with you and make you feel the way he's feeling, I don't think you picked up on that in a positive way, leo males are not hard to please, for me it is one of the easiest signs to please because a display of love and affection warms a lion right up and he'll forget all about the bad stuff, they really do get over things quickly of course I'm not speaking for all male Leo's, I have male lions in my family as well as had personal experiences with em. Consistent displays of love, attention and affection, some lions can be high maintenance, will growl at selfish behavior.



ROFL...so your suggestion is that she should turn herself into a $ 20 hooker so she can please him otherwise she is a "selfish lover". Amazing! that was very insightful. Basically the guy can carry on being a prick and not listen or care for the feelings of his lady love but that's fine because leos are entitled. LOLOLOLOLOL....

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LOL Funny!

I actually clarified my statement regarding his selfishness.
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@4fish, where were you a few years ago when I was obsessed about Pisces chicks? lol

Anyway, welcome to the Leo board, the friendliest corner of DXP. We've got some great male specimens in here, like Seraph..... I don't know if he's single but he's Canadian. 🙂

It seems that your Leo suffers from a typical case of immaturity. You give him a pinky and he grabs for the whole arm. The more you give him the more he will expect of you, and the more he expects the more you give in just to keep that temper of his under control. Pisces chicks do generally have a hard time drawing a line and sticking to it, which in turn makes the Leo act like an elephant in a porcelain shop. Pussycats this size are best kept on a leash!

You say "Our sexual chemistry wasnt the best, but it was the best point in our relationship." That doesen't sound too good.




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Appears you were being a selfish lover and that just won't work with a Leo because they give so much of themselves to a relationship thus they expect the same reciprocity. If you're too busy daydreaming in your head, living in your thoughts like a true Pisces and not SHARING your thoughts and your dreams of course he'll grow discontent with you and make you feel the way he's feeling, I don't think you picked up on that in a positive way, leo males are not hard to please, for me it is one of the easiest signs to please because a display of love and affection warms a lion right up and he'll forget all about the bad stuff, they really do get over things quickly of course I'm not speaking for all male Leo's, I have male lions in my family as well as had personal experiences with em. Consistent displays of love, attention and affection, some lions can be high maintenance, will growl at selfish behavior.



ROFL...so your suggestion is that she should turn herself into a $ 20 hooker so she can please him otherwise she is a "selfish lover". Amazing! that was very insightful. Basically the guy can carry on being a prick and not listen or care for the feelings of his lady love but that's fine because leos are entitled. LOLOLOLOLOL....



LOL Funny!

I actually clarified my statement regarding his selfishness.
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Aight, no offence meant. I just didn't think that the poor girl deserved the "selfish" tag. So sup lioness 😉
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Posted by tiki33
I remember one leo male friend said his Pisces put out his fire (whatever that means).






I was with my Pisces ex for 17 years, this is exactly how I explain it but its hard to say what it means unless you've lived, its just something that I felt for most of that time - totally dampened down, not myself. A while ago, following my separation, my sister (pisces 🙂) told me, "I used to introduce you to my friends "as the one with the personality, then I could only say the pretty one, now I can say what you really are becuase you are back so I say again the one with the personality" ".

The biggest thing between us was his victim mentality, I can tolerate that from my siblings (two pisces) and even find it endearing, but when you have to live with a martyr 24/7 it takes its toll. Pisces and Leo should be, and can be, friends but nothing more IMO
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@enfant: haha damn, I would say bad timing 🙂) " You give him a pinky and he grabs for the whole arm" thats sooo true. And it made it really hard to make im happy. Because after he took your whole arm you had nothing more to give and he would be unsatisfied and angry.
Besides he wouldnt take "no" for an answer. Never. I think thats a really bad thing. In any relationship, you have to respect a "no". But he wouldnt. You can say yes all day long , but when you just said one "no" he would be soo angry. And in the end, I was the one apologizing for saying no. And end up doing something I didnt want to do, so he would stop being mad at me.
And thats stupid, you shouldnt do that. And I knew I shouldnt but like you said "Pisces chicks do generally have a hard time drawing a line and sticking to it".

@88Pisces:
Thats sounds soo familiar.
At the beginning I wasnt in Love either. But in the end I was so much in Love with him it felt impossible to leave him.
He made me need him. I needed him to be around. When he broke up with me I would cry for days, than he would come back and I would hold onto him... so afraid that he would leave me again. And I think he knew. I missed our fights, I missed him being around, I missed him waking me up.
And I felt so empty without him.
You are right, they make you wait at home, waiting.. and waiting. I would get mad because I was waiting for him btu he wouldnt come, wouldnt answer my calls... but when he finally came, I would forget about everything. And he would jsut kiss me and say "lets forget about this". And everytime we forgot about it and moved on like before.
And he made me feel pretty, beautiful, sexy and wanted. I was scared to loose him because I thought I would be nothing of that without him. Or no one else would recognize...

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@Seraph "fix yourself a coffee and deal with it." Haha true. he said something like that a couple of times. And I dont think he said it to hurt me, but easily hurt as I am I would feel even worse and missunderstood.
Hmm so to make a relationship like this work it needs a lot of work and understanding from both sides I guess.
But I am scared to try a combination like this again...

@LeoVirgoGirl:
YOu are right if I call someone at 3am it is because I really appreciate them. But his was different. I am not talking about the times when he called me because he was feeling down and needed someone to listen. I loved that.
But when he was mad because of nothing, shout all day, and ignored me afterwards, than calls me in the middle of the night and is angry because I am asleep thats what I meant. That was not a gesture to show me he loved me it was just him making clear he was the boss. If I sleep you can sleep, If I dont you dont. If I am bored you entertain me, if I want to be alone go away...
At least it felt like this.


@88Pisces:
My Leo had an Aquarious moon to. I dont know his rising sign (dont know his birth time) but I have an Scorpio moon and an Aries rising. Not a good match I guess 😄


Thx for your nice and friendly replies 🙂
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Oooo I see you have a cancer moon too, very nice. Dignified sun and moon - can it get any better? Nice cancer venus too, I love that placement.

BTW your pictures are awesome. Love the kitty-fish love, the lion in the train and the lion with the two girlies! His facial expression cracks me up, kind of like he simultaneously both expects this level of adoration but still isn't sure it's "enough". LOL



Wow I always assumed you were a Lioness! So how long have you been with your Leo? 🙂

Yes I have made my profile all homey and comfy with the pics and the quotes... Everything is personal, nothing left to chance. How Moon in Cancer of me, right? lol

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What's DC short for? I assume it's the 7th House, didn't know it was the house of 'open enemies' as well. Honestly I haven't made any enemies among the famele Scorps in my life. I feel that no matter how much "we" hurt and disappoint eachother, there's always room for understanding and forgivness. But it is rarely that we actually clash, it's one of the few signs if not the only one, that I'm fully comfortable around. They bring out the "me" in me.

About the ex, I feel that I have stung her more than she's stung me so if anything SHE could use your sympathy. 😢 lol
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No, I didn't take it as patronizing, I just wanted to make it clear that there was nothing wrong with her Pisces mushyness or her Scorp stinger... it was me all along with my Cancerian fuckery: I fall in love, I fall out of love, I wait a couple of years to break it off despite knowing it's over as far as I'm conerned. Yeah I pretty much suck at making up my mind and getting things done. Kind of unheard of for a Mars in Leo individual.

Anyway I'll take all the empathy I can get, Cancer mooners are like vampires for empathy... or parasites, if you ask an Air person. lol

Wow really? How the hell did Marriage, Partnerships and Open Enemies end up in the same House? Kind of makes you think.


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Well that's true... but to me the word "enemy" is reserved for people who intentionally want to hurt me one way or the other. Hopefully that's not what you meant by "openly hostile with me"?

Does your boyfriend do this too, like when you are in your best mood he acts all cranky, but when you're all moody he's happy as can be? It's so silly because if I finally manage to cheer her up, I would get cranky within minutes and she would get all "Why are you on the rag, its a beautiful day. " LOL

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I'm in a relationship right now with a LEO woman. So far she's really great in bed lol. It inspired me to have a LEO girl since I get a glimpse of how they are in the relationship. Before I had a real LEO girlfriend, i tried dating with different girls from Apricot with different star signs to give me an idea of what really fits my personality, but what most attracts me are LEO girls. They are passionate and naughty in bed, most especially loyal to their partners even tho they like going out with friends.

There is one time when she liked someone but she said, she's not looking around but she likes going out with him (since it's her old time friend) Well, yes, we did argue but anyway, we are still together and working things out. Hoping for more years to come.