leo man sag women

,hello and thank you,I've never been on a form before or blog chat ever I would never even ask the question other than ....I'm entirely dumbfounded by the recent situation I am in ,,, dating a married Leo man that also has an additional woman situation. I also have a out of the country husband we both have businesses and kids we meet around 5 months ago through mutual friends,

for long times it my life I practice Abstinence seeing my husband lives out the country I don't aim for relationships and I love my freedom however this Leo stroll into my life with his very Charming very witty educated well-traveled hard worker great caretaker we both have an abundance Of kids my oldest late twenties his oldest mid thirties his youngest 15 and 3 everybody is provided for we have so much in common I respect his living situation although I am not actively seeing my husband because of distance he respects my situation things are going great for the first 3 months we basically spending 70% of our time together running errands living in And out of hotels weekly spending tons of money and then we were both like this is going to be expensive we need to chill let's grab a place!!!!! Meanwhile my original plan just to head out of the country to my husband blah blah blah detour I grab this place gotta lease and decided I'm willing to explore if this could be a great situation for me also he's very helpful with my business and I'm very helpful with his that was a side note .....since I signed the lease and we got the place)))) than life happens emergency happens he hasn't really been here that much and the best part is i see a big change he is not answering the calls like he use to although I know he's very busy he'll tell me he may come Over , or yes im coming not show up, I'm not the one to sit and wait but I do find myself sitting and waiting SO I understand a few times Just fell asleep which is understandable I do it too ,However we're both night owls so I pretty much know his routine because we used to run them together Only time he doesn't answer his phone is When sleeping or YouKnow NOTSLEEPING he's 10 years older than me Not bad,,, we both look young for our age so the Sag that I am which brings me to my question how are Leo men with ultimatums?wouldn't want to lose his friendship we both do good business together but there's certain things I just won't tolerate I don't care if you got abducted by aliens you better show up with one At the door so, I was going to have a talk with him very nice to tell him he either a needs to do something Say something to really help me understand if he wants to go further or he just wants to be friends , he tells me a lot I tell him a lot he never lied to me about his other stuff but now that we got this place and things are changing he's leaving me in the dark I'm very ready to slap A for rent sign on this place and leave a country for a minute. we've known each other now for 5 months

I'm not after his heart that has to come naturally he has 10 different baby mamas and a pretty good relationship with them the last one that holds the three year old is like the concern for me not because of her just because he seems like he has issues letting go of other relationships as far as his living goes which I consider his wife they're not going anywhere for a few years and that doesn't bother me I see my husband maybe 3 times a year , my leo has 11 kids my kids are pretty much older and are maintained I'm more interested in honesty and respect in his eyes he feels there's no need to tell the truth because the truth may hurt someone and my eyes I feel you should tell the truth and let others decide not cheating on my husband I did tell him