I posted this on the scorpio board and was hoping from some insight from some Leo guys. Any help here is appreciated.
I met a Leo guy a couple of months ago. I was not overly attracted to him, but he had something about him that got me. Got to know him, we had so much fun. Told me he loved me way to early in the getting to know you stage. We are both over 40, so we are not young, not that that makes us smarter...lol.
Thought things were going good and about the time I decided I would try the relationship thing with him he pulled back.
He told me of issues in his past, divorce, drinking, DUI's, problems problems problems. Says he has to square his life away before he can get in to a committed relationship. His words, not mine. Says he has a two year plan to get back on his feet, wants to own a home and be able to support his partner before getting in to a relationship. I don't want to be a friend with benefits, I am too old and that is just not where I am with my life.
I think I need to give him the boot and move on. Wrong guy at the wrong time. Interested in hearing what others say.
Kate
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I met a Leo guy a couple of months ago. I was not overly attracted to him, but he had something about him that got me. Got to know him, we had so much fun. Told me he loved me way to early in the getting to know you stage. We are both over 40, so we are not young, not that that makes us smarter...lol.
Thought things were going good and about the time I decided I would try the relationship thing with him he pulled back.
He told me of issues in his past, divorce, drinking, DUI's, problems problems problems. Says he has to square his life away before he can get in to a committed relationship. His words, not mine. Says he has a two year plan to get back on his feet, wants to own a home and be able to support his partner before getting in to a relationship. I don't want to be a friend with benefits, I am too old and that is just not where I am with my life.
I think I need to give him the boot and move on. Wrong guy at the wrong time. Interested in hearing what others say.
Kate