Leo man separated

I've a Virgo woman and I've been dating a Leo man for 14 months. He's separated from his wife due to her cheating. They have 3 teens together. When were started dating it was more of a friendship with benefits but he asked to make it monogamous so I did. I'm very close with his family and became friends with his sisters. A few months ago he pulled away from me so he could figure out himself and his marriage. He said that he loved me but that he had never lived on his own and he wanted to have his own place instead of moving in with me. I can respect that. But I wasn't used to how he pulled away and I'd go a month without seeing him although he'd call or message almost everyday. I accused him of cheating and he denies it. He says I'm still the one but he's getting over the fact that his wife wants to end the marriage. We started arguing a lot verbally because his words of love weren't matching his lack of actions. Not to mention it's been 4 months since we've had sex and he's going through some serious financial struggles right now.

In a moment of weakness I confided in his sister a few things going on in our relationship and of course she went back to him to discuss it. He was furious with me and said he will no longer confide in me. I told him I know he hates me and I'm sorry but all of what he's going thru and how it's affected our relationship made me drop my self esteem. I told him I was wrong. He says he doesn't hate me he just dislikes my ways.

I haven't heard from him in 2 days and the last thing I said is we shouldn't be together if we're going to argue so much. I told him I would stay away and said sorry again. I received no response. We always disagree but I've never betrayed his trust before and I'm scared he's gone for good. I love him and I know he loves me but I'm not sure if he will forgive me this time.

I make him accountable when his behavior or treatment of me is not acceptable and he does the same for me. Things were great until feelings developed then it got crazy with his and my emotions.

Should I just wait it out? Is it over or is it not over until he tells me it is?

Patient Virgo