Leo Man & Taurus Woman...what is our status?!!!

I can see this is going to be a little up and down and give and take and push and pull...I can handle that. I enjoy the excitement and am strong enough to take time to myself and enjoy time apart. HOWEVER, we've been dating 5 months now and just came back from a 2 week vacation together in Hawaii. We had a wonderful time a few odd and imperfect times, but I have a hard time understanding where I stand. I'm old fashioned so I haven't said the L word, but totally felt I wanted to. But then at times I felt like I was just a travel partner with benefits and other times he's kissing me on forehead and holding my hand. I don't even know if I'm his gf. He's 42 I'm 35. We've both come out of long relationships, so I know we both don't want our hearts broken. :S

Do I just have to come out with bold questions to know what his intentions are? How are these Leo men wired with that?

Posted by taurusgoddess
I can see this is going to be a little up and down and give and take and push and pull...I can handle that. I enjoy the excitement and am strong enough to take time to myself and enjoy time apart. HOWEVER, we've been dating 5 months now and just came back from a 2 week vacation together in Hawaii. We had a wonderful time a few odd and imperfect times, but I have a hard time understanding where I stand. I'm old fashioned so I haven't said the L word, but totally felt I wanted to. But then at times I felt like I was just a travel partner with benefits and other times he's kissing me on forehead and holding my hand. I don't even know if I'm his gf. He's 42 I'm 35. We've both come out of long relationships, so I know we both don't want our hearts broken. :S

Do I just have to come out with bold questions to know what his intentions are? How are these Leo men wired with that?

Jesus Girl, if that was me going to Hawaii with a MAN (regardless of his zodiac sign) I'd be happy as a lark! It doesn't take much for me to be "happy" and I am sprinkling "happy dust" your way! Does five months constitute being his girlfriend and vice versa? I thought it was when the guy introduces you to his "friends/co-workers, family, etc" that he will give you a "label". I'd be happy with the "relationship" ya'll have with one another than to be labeled. I mean, you didn't see him with another woman at that trip but yourself, right? You didn't see him "flirt" with another woman did you? Or he didn't leave you for a long extended period of time (to go check his cell phone) did he? No, I don't think he did.

I thought Taurus women are "patient". Hmmmmmmmmmmm. Let me put it to you this way (and I am older than you; so I understand how men are). Men + woman = relationship = divorce or bad breakup. The women did them bad (cheated on them, lied to them, stole from them, are looking for "sugar daddies", etc) and poof! Men leave them (while they are still in LOVE WITH THESE WOMEN! I don't understand why, but they do) and THEN they meet someone like you and I who are ready for a commitment and guess what?! The guy we are dating does NOT! They like went to SCHOOL OF HARD KNOCKS and they learned from their past bad relationship(s) that this time around they will do things differently! And we get the short end of the stick! Be patient, have fun with your "relationship" and don't label it. Wait. Time will tell. Be patient little Taurus.

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Awesome response, TP. You are so right and that kinda kicked my head in the proper way! lol I should be focusing on the happiness and positive times as that will only lead to more. The guy is a true gem so patience with this should be worth it.

Posted by taurusgoddess
Awesome response, TP. You are so right and that kinda kicked my head in the proper way! lol I should be focusing on the happiness and positive times as that will only lead to more. The guy is a true gem so patience with this should be worth it.

Oh, little "Sister" it will be! ("this should be worth it.")

Man! I wanna go to Hawaii!!! Been to Alaska and that would be a dream come true! 😉