Leo man untypical - RESERVED!

Hi hi!

i'm a leo woman, (16/08/88) and i've met recently a leo man (beginning of aug) who is 25. we hit it off very well, bouncing off each other flirting innocently and all and then things got closer by the day. but he isn't a typical leo at all, as far as i know him, he seems really reserved, calm, nearly quiet next to me and collected always. i am a lot more bubbly enthusiastic and open. i could say that we do have different tempos.
i guess i want to understand as much as possible about untypical leo men, and how to deal with them.

he says that he's enjoying my company and we get along very well, but it always seem like he's holding his cards very close to his chest. we are holding hands and cuddling every so often but then he also seems to be holding back a lot: i thought that leo men would really let you know that they like you, no holding bards, and would court you openly, but he doesn't seem to be open and generous as such (which does hurt a little, one wants to be treated nicely right?) wouldn't buy me a drink in the bar - could that be just because he doesn't drink— And leaving me on my own for quite some time to talk to friends on the other side of the room.
basically i thought i'd be made to feel special. but he doesn't call much. although he does respond to missed calls. i don't like the feeling that i'm nudging him all the time!

i don't like feeling as if i'm needy! but i do like him, very much!

what are your thoughts at the matter? is he into me or is he not so much/unsure?

thanks

ohhh come on, NOBODY can give me some advice—?

Posted by LenLeo
but he doesn't seem to be open and generous as such (which does hurt a little, one wants to be treated nicely right?) wouldn't buy me a drink in the bar -

—??

Posted by LenLeo
And leaving me on my own for quite some time to talk to friends on the other side of the room.

Did you not know anybody else there to talk too? Could you have talked to other people too?

Posted by LenLeo
but he doesn't call much. although he does respond to missed calls.

I think that speaks for itself...if somebody wants to talk to you or see you, they make time for you no matter how busy they are.

Posted by LenLeo
i don't like the feeling that i'm nudging him all the time!

i don't like feeling as if i'm needy! but i do like him, very much!

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Just based on reading those snippets, in my humble opinion, it doesn't sound like he is as deeply into you as you are into him. Sorry, just my take on what YOU wrote. I would see other people (if I were you) if you are already aren't.

that should be, "if you already aren't."

hello and thank you guys,

well i was in a batchata dance club, and everybody was dancing intensely. the thing is, i DIDN'T want to talk to other ppl, i came to see HIM after work. 2 guys in a space of 5 min asked me to dance with them (nor i or him know how to dance to that music) and i said 'no' coz i thought it is really inappropriate on a second date to not be with him! yet he didnt mind dancing with one of his friends..... —?!!!!

i have to think about this. we're going to have a chat at lunch, lets see if i could squeeze an emotional answer from him. he's a mathematician,,,, very unusual for leos who like the more creative stuff.

all in all thanks for the replies!