leo sun, pisces moon, venus virgo man

confused the hell out me! we were seeing each other for 2 months but i broke it off because he never hinted about being exclusive and i'm patient as hell. wat pisses me off but i love it sometimes is that he's still ice to me, like we get along very well sometimes i think its because we never had sex but everytime that we've seen eacth other (after the break up) we've had the most heated make out sessions but still no attempts from him to have sex, and im a girl that likes to follow so i never made a sex attempt either. it's a shame because he understood me so well emotionally and intellectually, like i neva had to explain what i meant when talking to him, communication was a breeze unless it was about feelings or lack thereof (from his side) the man never showed 'em, i waited until my defenses skyrocketed (im a cancer sun).

not really looking for advise since iv decided that this year, im closing that chapter, closing the book and buying another book. just thought i'd share.

i was not trying to control the relationship with sex. in fact the fact that he never made any attempt was cool, it made me like him even more since ALL the guys i met before and after him last were only after sex. what confused me is that we were seeing each other for 2 months, he had enough time to decide if he liked me or not, w3anted to just use me for sex or watever without sex confusing things (or lack of it)...or maybe he didn't like me as a gilfriend but he did like me as a person and he enjoyed the make out sessions. i mean im wondering if that was it

Posted by tiziani
I think women often get confused when the thought dawns on them that they cannot control a relationship with sex but that's just the way it goes.

Mind=blown. I've been doing this wrong for years

no he didn't, my insercurities (sometimes he wuldn't make contact for 2 days, i felt like i was the one who initiated dates, and egos i guess, as much as i hate to admit it. i must have thought "this man had 2 months to get to know that im awesome. he hasn't committed so that must mean he's seeing other people" its only logical explaination i have for my actions. insecurity + ego = disaster, i guess.

Posted by clingyKarens
confused the hell out me! we were seeing each other for 2 months but i broke it off because he never hinted about being exclusive and i'm patient as hell.

wat pisses me off but i love it sometimes is that he's still ice to me, like we get along very well sometimes i think its because we never had sex but everytime that we've seen eacth other (after the break up) we've had the most heated make out sessions but still no attempts from him to have sex, and im a girl that likes to follow so i never made a sex attempt either. it's a shame because he understood me so well emotionally and intellectually, like i neva had to explain what i meant when talking to him, communication was a breeze unless it was about feelings or lack thereof (from his side) the man never showed 'em, i waited until my defenses skyrocketed (im a cancer sun).

not really looking for advise since iv decided that this year, im closing that chapter, closing the book and buying another book. just thought i'd share.

Wow-- I have all these placements, but I'm not a man-- so they probably affect me differently.


But I'm curious

Why didn't you just ask if he was seeing other people?

I don't think that's a weird thing to do; I think it's perfectly reasonable.

I did ask him once "what is it that we're doing" and he said we'd talk about it face to face butwhen we got together after work that day, he didn't bring it up so i didn't either (due t fear of seeming desperate) and we never touched the subject again. well until recently when i just had to get some answers from him and he told me that, that he didn't know what i wanted, he was having fun just going with flow and didn't want to ruin things buy asking to be serious. meh. and now our time has passed 😢

btw Montgomery how well do you get along with sag moons or sun cancer, emotionally?

Posted by clingyKarens
I did ask him once "what is it that we're doing" and he said we'd talk about it face to face butwhen we got together after work that day, he didn't bring it up so i didn't either (due t fear of seeming desperate) and we never touched the subject again. well until recently when i just had to get some answers from him and he told me that, that he didn't know what i wanted, he was having fun just going with flow and didn't want to ruin things buy asking to be serious. meh. and now our time has passed 😢

btw Montgomery how well do you get along with sag moons or sun cancer, emotionally?

Ummmm

I have found that it just depends-- I thought that cancers naturally didn't like me and the feeling was mutual.

However, I met a cancer sun/pisces moon, recently-- and he was one of the nicest, coolest, most down to earth people I've met.

Can't say enough good things-- so I'm keeping an open mind, there.

As for sag moon-- I've really only know one well, but he was a Virgo, and there were times that he was TOO blunt.

Very pessimistic, too-- but sag is usually pretty optimistic, so *shrugs*


It seems like Cancer/Sag might be good with LEO/Pisces-- because Cancer CARES lol

But you may want the opinion of someone with a leeetle more experience on that.

Did you say where your Virgo was?

*looking*

* I meant to say

Did you say where your Venus was?

😄

Posted by Montgomery


Did you say where your Virgo was?

*looking*

Probably at home doing dishes 😛

hmm.. the leo I was with was a Leo sun and venus and Virgo and he wanted to be exclusive right away, not sure if his Scorpio rising and Gemini moon had anything to do with it though...

Posted by Jynja
I love Leo Suns with Pisces Moons!!!!!!
It's my favorite combo ever!!!!

They are really not as meek as they appear. I love that nothing I say or do ever shocks them and there is no judgement. Most of all, I could spend days and nights building worlds in yonder with this combo.

I love Pisces moons in general, but Leo Sun Pisces moons have yet to find competition in my heart 🙂

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*Sorry OP, since you said you didn't want advice...

Water moons.

Its ok Jynja (about the advice) i can always use it in future.

my venus is in cancer btw.

*i'll learn how to quote soon people.

btw thank you everyone for the responses, it sure has brought some light into the situation. i have now accepted though that it wasn't meant to be. we're actually friends now and he wants to see me "for the first time is 2014".

@CrabPrincess, i just had to steal that pic on your profile!!!