Leo, Trust & pisces (Page 3)

omg i LOVE baggage reclaim. check it out amber. read some of the stuff on there and it will prevent you making a fool of yourself. he sounds like a typical emotionally unavailable man and they really don't wind up with anyone special until they deal with their issues...the just use, abuse and move on...its not even deliberate or malicious..they just can't help themselves.

it's an issue the guy has to deal with themselves OUTSIDE of a relationship. you can't fix him. no-one can make him commit to a woman emotionally because it's just not in his makeup and all the time he has women to fill all the gaps he feels he has in his life, he will never change.

too much dependancy on an ex is a sign. if they can't let them go, they will have nothing to offer you because they are still emotionally invested elsewhere.

this is not acceptable for us ladies. plus, the way these guys can make you feel about yourself is just not worth whatever you have with them.

if i'm with a man, i want him to communicate with ME...to talk about his day with ME and not his ex. the leo i was seeing would call his ex every five damn minutes...arrangements for social things...just heard a song on the radio they both used to love...heard a joke she would find funny. she even has a new partner and has had for a few years although he's a younger man and i wonder if that's why he puts up with her relationship with her ex...shows a lack of balls if you ask me.

naaaaaaah....i won't ever share a man with an ex. not saying they can't be friends, especially if there are kids involved but when they still have a relationship with each other that is everything but the sex....what is the point of getting involved??

I haven't had taken the time to thoroughly look, but the site seems definitively interesting!

However, the ex he's apparently with, is not the one he's hung up on - it's the one before, a girls with whom he'd been for several years and really loved. He told me a bit about her and had moved on, there were just some remains - he was just not 100% over her but didn't hold on to it.
The ex he's spending the 2 winter months with and is another story and just convenient: he's not alone, she's got money and is apparently good in bed. I know he didn't love her and probably still doesn't - but she's offering comfort, he likes being cared for.
When he's back on the island, in addition to that one, the tourists will start flying in (and as he told his friend 'he wants to f... every girl that walks by), so all the gaps are filled.

I know for a fact that he'll only be faithful when in love, not when 'just being' with someone - he admitted that himself.

All his BS seems like a parallel world now, I want to part in it - because unless he himself changes, he'll just continue that way. It's just sad for him.

In the meantime I still seem to be on his 'political newsletter list' and get my daily link with political info 😉 - I know this will die down eventually and am okay with it