Leo with Libra moon, Merc/Venus in Virgo

I have been dating long-distance this really sweet younger Leo guy. He is great in many ways but sometimes I feel like he is a bit inconsistent. He takes ages to reply to texts (said he is like this with everyone) and is generally slow in his reactions to things in his life. However, when we are together in person he is wonderful. My question is, going by his chart, what does he crave from me to make him come out of his shell and be more involved with me? Since I am older than him by a few years, sometimes I get the feeling that I intimidate him (I've seen him shaking when he talks to me) but that he also seems to want a woman who takes the lead. What do you think?

Our charts are:

Guy Me

Sun - Leo Sun - Libra

Moon - Libra Moon - Sag

Merc - Virgo Merc - Libra

Venus - Virgo Venus - Libra

Mars - Virgo Mars - Sag

Jupiter - Leo Jupiter - Scorp

Saturn - Aquarius Saturn - Libra

Uranus - Cap Uranus - Sag

Neptune - Cap Neptune - Sag

Pluto - Scorpio Pluto - Libra

ASC - Unknown ASC - Virgo

Posted by clay
Leo+Libra=Perfection

Especially since his Moon conjunct my Sun and my Moon trine his sun. 🙂