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brianafay
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19 Years25,000+ PostsSagittarius

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Is this a common trait?
Acting flashy, to test the other person/ see if they will get jealous.

For example: you like someone, but you're not sure if they like you back or you're not getting the attention/reassurance you want from them.... so you talk to/flirt with someone else in front of them just so you can see if they will be jealous or not.?



Just wondering.
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ninjamu
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16 Years1,000+ PostsLeo

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nope. not my thing. i have caught myself talking about another guy's attention towards me to my SO but that's about as far as i go. i don't even like it when i see myself doing that so i try to be conscious of it.

it might be related to a minor insecurity but it's more or less that i want my lover to see me as the most special woman (other than the women in his family) in his life. i admit it... i want him to adore me. it's only because i adore him and i want reciprocation. equal intensity love. the thing with me is that i don't care what anyone else thinks of me. however, i care far too much about what those closest to me think... especially my partner. i'm thinking it might stem from past abandonment issues. it's rather silly though so i try to practice more self-containment.