Mind games?

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I have this Leo friend. We hit it off the day we met, and become close very fast. We got together one drunken night but unfortunately has a girl friend. (Neither of us are proud of this) He was devastated, and felt really bad, so much so that he never told her. Now he never speaks to me, and is extremely distant from me (which is totally understandable). However, we see each other occasionally at parties, at the beginning we keep our distance, but we always end up chatting and our chats usually last for a while. (we have such a connection) At the end of the night, always, without a doubt he will find me to say goodbye. He will hug me so tightly and for much longer than your average goodbye hug, and he kisses me on the forehead. Why would he do this? Mind games? Or is he being genuine and its just harmless? It certainly doesn't feel harmless! But I know that he is quite touchy with everybody... am I reading too much in to it? Hmmmmmm
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Posted by TheLioness79
I think he really likes you.

He is dealing with the guilt and shame of his act. Yet, I sense he has this wildly strong attraction to you. Staying away from you is safe.



I'm trying very hard not to be selfish in my actions and stay well away from him too, I'm doing pretty well but aaarrrggh is it frustrating haha. I guess I should try a bit harder and avoid all contact. Hmph 😢
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Posted by dontgetmewrong
Yes he likes you a lot. Sags and Leos have an unbelievable connection. We're both laid back and fun, but we also connect on a deeper level as well. On the other hand, he does have a girlfriend that he probably cares for as well and is mad at himself that he was weak with you..but there's this gravitational pull that he also can't ignore. So Yes it's best to keep a distance.



I'm not a Sag, I'm an Aries. 🙂 He does care for her a lot and I've met her once or twice and she's really nice, which makes me feel really bad. I think she's a Gemini actually. But yeah, it's very hard to stay away because we have the same friends.Maybe I should make some new friends haha