Moon effect and working with it

Hey all, my Virgo still isn't out of the picture, so much for me and my strength, but we have been talking for the last couple of weeks. He knows i'm not going to him and that he has to come to me but he has a lot going on at the moment, anywho, I have noticed during our interactions that when I am emotional with him he responds, heavily. When I try to do "to cool for school" not bothered type of thing (which really isn't me and which they say you're supposed to do with men) he is non-responsive. He has a cancer moon and so do I. Reflecting on it today I know I need emotion from people, cold hard facts are pretty meaningless without it, he is obviously the same and craves emotion and having to deal with it. I was always emotional with him in the past and pretty much whenever I showed it, during stressful times, he manned right up and wasn't afraid of it - but I just didn't notice it before or pay much heed to it - he wasn't scared of my emotions, the trouble came when he got scared of his own. So i'm going to do the very un-21st century non-pc thing and just hit him with them from now on and we shall see where it takes us, i shall just be my very emotional self. God i love that man, I just have no idea how I am preventing myself from driving over to his house, untying my Mac (which will be my only item of clothing), dropping to my knees and showing him just how much - har har har (snort) 😉

Oh My! A knee drop...!!

I have a cancer venus/scorp moon so I know all about emotions. I applaud your honesty and zest for emotional truth. Im for emotional honesty when its mutual and both sides are getting real. At the end of the day, I have to remember dont give more than Im getting. always stay in reality and not place theman on a pedastal.

I so so hope it works. Have you seen him since that Weds night you were supposed to meet?

Posted by BigGirlPanties
Oh My! A knee drop...!!

I have a cancer venus/scorp moon so I know all about emotions. I applaud your honesty and zest for emotional truth. Im for emotional honesty when its mutual and both sides are getting real. At the end of the day, I have to remember dont give more than Im getting. always stay in reality and not place theman on a pedastal.

I so so hope it works. Have you seen him since that Weds night you were supposed to meet?

No he's not on a pedestal BGP, the only man I made that mistake with was the Aries. He feels like my equal, havn't seen him since that wednesday night and we went a week without contact, but has been back in touch and we are talking, getting real with it all now, but not from a place of neediness. The only thing I am watching and being careful about is co-dependency now. But I am going to hit him full on with what I feel and if he can handle it great, if not, then its not for me. I have to be real to myself first and foremost, and the most liberating thing is knowing that I can go forward without him, I no longer need him, I merely Want him. Going foward will hurt but it won't be devastating.

that is spot on CL. very much the message of the retro too. it's all about being true to yourself particularly in relationships where in the past you may not have been able to be. it doesn't mean that relationships revisited have to end or be moved on from either...it's just the universe giving us the chance to do things the right way the second time around. as with everything though, it takes us as individuals to see those chances and make our own decision about whether to adapt or walk away. unfortunately, the universe only goes so far in assisting our development which is a nightmare for the spiritually lazy like me, lol.

you're getting real. that's ACE!!! love the mac idea too. nothing says 'i'm yours' to a man more than a surprise blowjob.

Yes he has your moon too 25th, you're practically astrological twins - beautiful bods and all 🙂

Well I won't give a blow by blow account, but lets just say there were blows delivered, and hours (and hours) of everything else. We're taking things slowly despite our emo cancer moons, and both know what we want now, a much calmer and more settled try at going forward.

Codependency is MY numner one issue to manage. Getting to that place where you state your needs and enforce boudaries to protect them, and being ok if the other person needs to leave IS the most important place. Good for you, take it slow and enjoy the process.

Then come back and tell us allllll about the bj's. 😛