My Leo/Virgo cusp woman

I met a Leo Virgo cusp woman (August 21 1985) Sun in Leo moon in Scorpio Aquarius rising..... I was born in me I'm a Taurus sun Gemini moon Gemini rising.. We met online and I fell in love with her almost instantly because she is so magnetic I felt like she drug her feet about meeting me so I backed off about seven years later I reconnect with her and we started a relationship she was everything I wanted in a woman she was classy beautiful respectful and submissive. SHe went out of her way to make me feel loved she wrote me Poems created paintings and even wrote mini love letters every morning I woke up I expected them to me she was perfect I trusted her completely. Every once in a while she complained that I didn't set aside special time with her I'm a busy man I work two jobs when I get free time I want to go hang out with my friends or go out and have drinks..... She was pretty easy-going with it for a while and then she started asking me to set aside special time for her which in my mind I was going to do but never quite got around to it...... Now were two years in and she doesn't reply to me quickly.... She doesn't initiate contact she doesn't write me poetry .....she has gone cold on me. She did tell me many times to show her that she was worth my time and I thought I did.... But I think back and I really did spend most of my free time with my friends and my family and I just fit her in between all of that.....she's my dream woman. We were long distance The times that she flew here to see me I would go out at night and wouldn't return until two or 3 o'clock in the morning and it wasn't on purpose but I know it bothered her because she told me I did but I didn't see the big deal .........now she has moved to my state and has grown indifferent...Is it possible for me to get her back? She says she loves me but she doesn't do the little things she's done and when I go hang out with my friends and family she's aloof and indifferent how do I get my woman back I hate not having control

...I think if you want some constructive responses around here, you could have ended that
monologue a little differently.

But, that being said, and it's purely my point of view on that one so we can leave it as is-
I don't think it sounds good to be honest.
They say the opposite of love is indifference, not hate.
She sounds like she may have headed in that direction already... Leo's tend to stick to their guns once their hearts are taken out of the equation (which, being all heart is pretty fucking hard to do) and personally if I was behaving like she is it would mean curtains at some point in the near future.
What was right or wrong about your relationship I refrain from dissecting. That's your call.

just last month she had stars in her eyes we were talking about marriage. It's like she flipped a switch. I saw her looking at flights yesterday back home. Then she made my favorite dinner. I Assumed that she would never leave I Assumed I had time actually change my routine to make more time for her. I didn't know people could switch that fast Thank you for your input sir.

Sounds like you're pretty good at making assumptions.
Maybe that's part of the issue. Good luck either way.


And it's ma'am actually- just for future reference lol

I apologize I saw the male aviator. I see the kindness in her the warm way she treats others makes me love her even more. It kills me that I don't feel her warmth. She's with me physically but she's not there mentally and I can tell . Thank you ma'am I appreciate you for reading my long paragraph and providing me with your input.

She didn't switch that fast, clearly she has addressed with you her unhappiness at your actions for nearly 2 years now, Leo's are as fixed as Taurus and will hang in there putting effort into their relationship, we will speak up when there is a problem so if you choose to bury your head Taurus style then you slowly dug the grave for the relationship. She gave you 2 years pre-warning and many chances to fix things, now it looks like she is done with doing all the work. It would be very hard to win her back now that she has made the decision.

Posted by Thebull516
just last month she had stars in her eyes we were talking about marriage. It's like she flipped a switch. I saw her looking at flights yesterday back home. Then she made my favorite dinner. I Assumed that she would never leave I Assumed I had time actually change my routine to make more time for her. I didn't know people could switch that fast Thank you for your input sir.