Need tips on how to keep a Leo’s interest

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Dressa2008
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I knew Leo man a few years now and a few dates throughout the years but nothing stuck. Recently we’ve been seeing each other way more for the last 3-4 weeks and chemistry has def built. We can hold conversations for hours talking about politics, race, religion, relationship and more. He mentally stimulates this Aquarius woman. But the thing is he never calls and only text. But responds quick when I text and I would say initiating text has been equal. So can anyone give me tips on how to keep his interest? Showing my emotionally side is difficult so any tips on when expressing my like for him would be too soon? How can I get him to step up on calling me? Honesty any times and making it work with Leo guy would be great because I really really like him! He’s very mature, we have similar goals, outlook on life and can talk for hours and making out is intense.
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Well honestly if a Leo guy is texting you quickly that's a good sign. Usually the common complaint about Leos is that we never text. If you want the Leo to call you, then say that. He's not a mind reader (no man is in fact). He might think that you prefer texts and is doing so to appease you. Also do you know much about his personal life? Leos tend to be workaholics, so it's possible that text is the best he can do if he's constantly working but still near his phone.

Leos are all about reciprocation. The more you open up, the more he'll open up. We don't really run away from emotion or passion, unless we are genuinely uninterested. It doesn't sound like that's the concern here. If you're feeling bold, ask him out. That'll snap up his attention pretty quick. A woman who shows determination toward us will easily bump her way up our priority list (again, as long as the Leo is interested, which appears to be the case). This all sounds good though.
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Dressa2008
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Yes he is kinda busy due to his profession. He’s a doctor and finished his residency. So thanks a lot that might be the reason he can’t during the day but I’m sure he has to have some time off? But I might randomly call during the evening to see if he’ll answer.

He’s really into wild life and there’s a place in my area that allows you to feed tigers. The tickets will be about 200 $ total for the both of us. Would that be a bit much too soon? Would that scare him off like I’m not allowing him to chase me? Or make him feel less of a man? I really like him and I like pleasing those that I like. Is that something I should wait on until we’re official (if we even make it that far)?? Or should I just get him like a nice bottle of wine as a house warming gift since he just bought a house? He’s already been treating me out and the perfect gentleman when I’m around him so I just want to show him the same gratitude.
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Yes he is kinda busy due to his profession. He’s a doctor and finished his residency. So thanks a lot that might be the reason he can’t during the day but I’m sure he has to have some time off? But I might randomly call during the evening to see if he’ll answer.



He’s really into wild life and there’s a place in my area that allows you to feed tigers. The tickets will be about 200 $ total for the both of us. Would that be a bit much too soon? Would that scare him off like I’m not allowing him to chase me? Or make him feel less of a man? I really like him and I like pleasing those that I like. Is that something I should wait on until we’re official (if we even make it that far)?? Or should I just get him like a nice bottle of wine as a house warming gift since he just bought a house? He’s already been treating me out and the perfect gentleman when I’m around him so I just want to show him the same gratitude.
He isn't kinda busy. If he's a doctor who just finished his residency, he IS busy. He probably now has more free time than he did before, but he's still going to have a solid schedule depending on what his focus is. I'm assuming that he's not at the point where he's running his own practice, which means his schedule may not be his own yet. You'll need to be patient as a result.

Also please unlearn that myth that men need to chase to feel like men. What makes a man feel like a man is handling his purpose in life, which he is apparently doing. So that base is covered. I recommend asking him his schedule first if you plan on surprising him. Don't just drop $ 200 on tickets if you don't even know when he'll actually be available. A nice bottle of wine would be easier on your pocketbook (or the same amount depending on the bottle), so leave that up to your own discretion.
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Dressa2008
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Well I thought things were going great but maybe I was ignoring signals or something from him because I asked him his intentions with me and he changed the subject. I just wanted to make sure he wasn’t just trying to sleep with me. Well the next week I asked him in a different format and he replied I think we’re really good friends and I enjoy conversations with you and your company.”

I think I’ve been friendzoned....

That’s exactly what I say when I friend zone men