needed some advise

ived been going steady with a leo male for about 3 years now, my only problem with him is that he keeps this "disappearing act" once in a while (if im not mistaken in our 3 years 2gether, he'd done it for 3 times) sometimes 10 days, sometimes 3 weeks and the last time a whole month without any word from him. and the funny thing is he will just show himself and act as if i just saw him yesterday, when he shows up, hes always telling me what hes been up 2 those times i dont saw him and be extra sweet to me... im confuse, dunno if i have 2 stop seeing coz im really afraid that he's gonna be like this everytime and im gonna end up hurt all the time.

Where does he say he is going? And, does he tell you when this is going to happen?

I'm figuring no since you're calling it a disappearing act. If that's the case then that's kinda (extremely) rude. I don't blame you for feeling hurt. Have you explained to him that it bothers you? If you have and he still continues to do it then it's something that is out of your control and entirely up to you as to how you want to handle it. If you have decided to stay all this time even though he still does it then you don't want to leave. And no amount of advice is going to convince you otherwise. Make sense?

I'm not trying to sound mean. It's just the harsh truth.

thanks for the reply purrrfect, i know it will be hard 4 me 2 leave him, but ur right, enough is enough, i think im just gonna talk with him and tell him about my concerns and afterwards, if he do it again, then im out the scene... without any words or explanation, i will let him taste his own medicine...

thanks for the reply purrrfect, i know it will be hard 4 me 2 leave him, but ur right, enough is enough, i think im just gonna talk with him and tell him about my concerns and afterwards, if he do it again, then im out the scene... without any words or explanation, i will let him taste his own medicine...

You're welcome.