no protection sex

Me and my leo been together for while now and all of the sudden one night he did not pull out .. mind you we dont use protection .. yes i know its bad idea but lets not focus on that topic now..but any ways anyother time he will pull out this night we didtn worry about it ,and he asked me in the morning why do i let him come in side of me if we have trust issues and how he is nt ready for a child ,. THIS made me lost because hello not using protection has a higher risk .. he is confusing me and making me feel like he dont want to be with me

I'm sorry, but in order for me to be able to focus on the subject I'd have to get pass your stupidity. No wonder the world is getting stupider by the day when it's populated by the offspring of people like you two.

You have to deal with the consequences of him pulling or not pulling out, I really cant understand why any woman would subject herself to that? It's like you have no respect for your body!

Lol. This is awesome. 😄

(It is aquarius moon cusp, scorpio sun, sag mars, trining gemini jupiter day, with loads of neptune love)

What are you doing woman? Take CONTROL. Either go on the pill or make him put something on the end! Especially if you're even having doubts about this guy. It's too much of a risk. It's not fair to put his pleasure above anything else. Lack of respect.

She said lets not focus on the lack of protection and she knows its a bad idea.

She then says shes confused. She feels that he doesnt wanna be with with her because of his rather eloquent response of not wanting fatherhood.

Hmmm....How can that be? We always have unprotected sex? Whats really going on here?

If he gives her a baby then that means he loves her and wants to be with her. Your can rationalize this because he knows having unprotected sex can lead to pregnancy. But hes having it and not wanting the pregnancy.... So using none means he SECRETELY wants her to bear his children and be his. Hes not protesting that darn much.

To sum it up......

Shes just a little confused because he engages in unprotected sex but actually really Doesnt want a child.This would confuse anyone. How can this be? hmmmmm....

So..... she knows he must know the risks, as she says its more risky the other way, so she doesnt know what all his fussing is really about. This must mean he secretely doesnt wanna be with her.

Posted by DeeGee
You both have a responsibility to own up to, if you don't want children.

If he chooses to come inside you then he's just as much to blame...

In theory, yes.

But it is your body and only you can set the boundaries, meaning YOU have the main responsibility. Not the guy. If you don't respect your own body enough to take responsibility for it, why should I?

Sorry, all you feminists out there.

'My' Leo lover has had a vasectomy and has still never cum inside me (well... not my vaj... I do swallow for him now). I told him once before we started having sex that I have never let anyone cum inside me... not sure if that has anything to do with him pulling out every time, or what... I am somewhat curious as to why he just pulls out on his own.

Firstly, Im not saying its good rationalization, but the theory is there. In her head shes probably thinking....why doesnt he want to have a baby with me? Im good enough for sex but not good enough to bear his child? Im thinking thats why she feels he doesnt want her.



Secondly, she never said that she didnt want a baby. She said he didnt want one. I bet if he came home all ready to get this family started she wouldnt object. Wether she would want a baby now or in the near furture, I bet she wants to have his child.

No...stay.

Im not saying I agree with any of this, Im just saying what I feel shes expressing in her post. When I relate to people and their situations I try to see things as they see them and so on and so forth. I try not to look at it through my eyes but rather theirs. This does not mean I agree with their way of thinking, but it just helps me understand how and why they feel the way they feel.

Here you have someone opening up a thread about unprotected sex and ending it with...she feels he doesnt want her. Everything in between talks of him not wanting a baby. You know unprotected sex leads to a baby. He said he didnt want the baby...not, he didnt want her. Yet at the end of the posts she feels he doesnt want her. Maybe Im too deep on this.

Carry on.

Pulling out? Are you people serious—

ROFLMFAO

Posted by ellessque
he obviously doesn't respect his own body just as much as she doesn't respect hers.
just because we are the receivers and you are the givers.....doesn't make it default to only her responsibility.

That is exactly what it makes it - her responsibility - because it's her body and she's the guardian of it! Being the givers of birth, women have naturally the main responsibiliy for what enters and what leaves their bodies. A man cannot force you to concieve, in that case it's rape and full responsibility shifts to the male!

Financially speaking they are both responsible for the child, yes. I'm not questioning that.

Let's put it this way - who has a bigger reason to act responsibly, the man who just needs to stick it in a blow his load, or the woman who has to carry it around for nine months and give birth to it? You tell me, who's more stupid for not using protection?

I don't know why that makes so much sense to me but not anyone else. She gives birth, so she's the guardian of that temple. How about that? He on the other hand, has nothing to guard, he's the sticker-in-'er. Does it make more sense when I put it in mythological terms?

And what do you mean 'he obviousely doesent respect his own body either'? The only thing he doesent respect by having unprotected sex is his bank account... for the next 18 years or so.