One night stand with a Leo

Hey guys!

Been lurking for a while and am in a impossible, and pretty sticky situation. Feel free to chime in.

I'm a Libran woman who used to live in City X. I went back to City X for a one week vacation last week - and decided to activate my OkCupid account just for kicks. I was staying in a gorgeous apartment filled with lots of champagne! This guy on OkC said hi to me at about 1am, and I texted him to come over and hang out. (I have a strong ability to not sleep with men if I don't want to. I can say no, so I didn't worry about him trying to pressure me into it.) Anyways, at first he was totally for it - and then I think he got scared that I might be insane and demanded that we Skype, so I did, whilst egging him on to come over, but it was 2am and he had work at 7am so he decided not to. (He also doesn't speak the language of City X and isn't the best at getting around.) I was feeling annoyed, especially after seeing him on Skype and realising he was incredibly hot, so I told him not to text me again if he wasn't coming over.

The next day, he sends all these texts telling me how beautiful and funny I am, and that he'd really like to take me out instead of just popping over for a few hours. We finally make a time for him to come over (I couldn't do dinner/drinks because my schedule was absolutely packed.) But my phone died - and he'd been waiting for maybe an hour to hear back from me. So he demanded that I go over to his and I was like okay, new area in City X, might as well check it out.

I reached and he was a super gentleman and crazy hot. We were talking for a bit and he kept telling me how funny and "stunning" I was.. And I told him I wasn't sure if I was into him. (Because honestly, I do take some time to warm up and I have never had sex on a first date, much less hours after meeting a dude.) But we ended up having a pretty amazing time, I guess Leos like the sort of crazy direct teasing that I enjoy doing. Anyway, he was late for work the next day, and told me multiple times that he'd really like to see me again, and that if I came back to City X I could stay with him. He texted me to check if I got home safe, and I told him that he should keep up the YOLO and see me somewhere else - to which he texted "Just ended work??_." after a 14 hour long day after I kept him up all night.. I've only said "Bravo" to that.

I've seen returned to my home (which is a six-hour flight from him). AND I'd really like to see him again, but don't see a

Posted by samnora
I was feeling annoyed, especially after seeing him on Skype and realising he was incredibly hot, so I told him not to text me again if he wasn't coming over.

Posted by samnora

... and he was a super gentleman and crazy hot. We were talking for a bit and he kept telling me how funny and "stunning" I was..
And I told him I wasn't sure if I was into him.

click to expand

I'm confused. Did your cervix need tending or were you just out to cocktease?

Libras and their "respectable lady" -act. Yawn.