Pisces Man... Leos could this work?

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le0babii
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15 Years

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Me: Leo Lady.. Him: Pisces [Long.Distance.Courtship] one minute he's into me, next minute nope.. continuous cycle

K.. soo i am confused & not exactly sure what i should do! Here's the story briefly: I met him in February when i was visiting a friend in her city one night, we exchanged numbers and he contacted me right away. I kinda blew him off at first cuz I live and 1hr 30mins away from him so i figured its not gonna work. but he was consistent so i figured why not so i started talkin to him. we talked/text everyday. In march i went back to visit my friend again and went and seen him for the first time in a month, we hung out and it was all good. I was coming back to his town the following week again, so he insisted i stay with him for the weekend. I did and again everything was all good. Then about 3 weeks ,we would talk/text not everyday like b4 but still quite often, he comes to my city this time his friends were with him there was an event going on so they all stayed at my place with my roommate and I and it was AGAIN all good...

Now its June i havent seen him since April (i have no vehicle) We still talk/text but now its days in between now. its like out of the blue he's becoming distant. But here's the thing he tells me he misses me blah blah blah etc. etc. and one of these coming weekends he wants to visit or come get me and have me stay with him for awhile.

Basically my question is why is he saying all these nice sweet things and making plans but when it comes to communication he barely talks/text so i just dont talk/text him. Or let him know that its bothering me.

Idk what should i do? Does he like me,doesn't he like me? Should i continue to not talk/text him? should i start? How often? Should i just let him be and have him come to me? Should i just move on? Is there a reason he's acting differently now? Are Pisces men normally wishy washy like this? Is he just playing a game with me?

*Sorry if this sounds a bit confusing let me know if i need to make something clear & HELP ME OUT PLEASE.. first pisces i've ever dealt with i don't know these men's style s! lol btw we are both 20yr old college students 🙂
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aleolady
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15 YearsLeo

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pisces IS definitely wishy washy. i somehow manage to always end up with this sign and it's come to a point where i think i must be crazy..afterall, what kind of a cat falls in love with a fish.. aka: food.
anyway.. pisces works like this; they suck you in with movie style romance (beautiful lines and long walks on the beach and all that romantic fluff you told yourself you weren't into but really actually are) then you become really interested and they get overwhelmed and withdrawl because they are sensitive (ahem, primarily to themselves) and fragile and they don't want to get hurt. or, they withdrawl because they need to recharge due to something else going on around them overwhelming them. pisces has a habit of being empathic to a point of self-damage.. they feel too much of what other people feel and don't have enough of a filter.. so when anything seems a little too much they have to take time away to come back to themselves.
some fish do that more than others though..
i had one ex that when we'd have a mild argument, would disappear for a week and call me like nothing happened. or the opposite where things were amazing and then he'd disappear for a week and then come back asking me to go out to dinner. POINT IS, if you look at the pisces sign you'll see two fish right? well, those fish are placed in opposite directions.. constantly contradicting themselves, two different people unsure where to go, at war with themselves and their surroundings. in a way they're worse than gemini..(atleast the twins are standing side by side) these two fish can't even agree on one direction.
it's not that pisces isn't into you.. in fact he probably really does like you.. it's just one fish is a dreamer and a romantic and wants to swim in your ocean and love you no matter what the odds and the other is afraid to go in your ocean because there could be sharks and fishermen and (in the real world.. the hardships of long distance).
the dreamer and lover in him is totally all about you.. the practical self protective pansy in him is scared shitless. so you're going to get back and forth behavior. also not to make you upset or anything but that fish is probably searching for something that'll make his little heart flutter around the block but somehow it's not working in his favor (because long distance tragic romance is still winning more brownie points).
it never gets easier and they'll always be in and out.. if you love them though you grit your teeth and deal 😢
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lovelyleo
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I agree with leolady. I knew a pices that just drives me wild, but on the flipside he cannot make a decision and stick with it, that drives me crazy. The leo pisces can work and it will be fun and intense. But I would caution that the wishy washy will drive us crazy.

We leos make decisions for very sound reasons, once we make our choice thats it most of the time, for better or worse. The fish folk don't believe that at all. The feel like change is always an option. I would say move on but if you like him then you have to deal with the madness and just prepare yourself for a lifetime of going back and forth.

Me I decided that I would rather move on to another person, it makes life easier and we cats like the simple life