Peebles
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Pisces Women and Leo Men?
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love you jynja x
love you jynja x
@Jynja... I hear ya loud and clear. In fact, i agree with you completely. Actually, that is why i am so confused and posted here in the first place.
If i were him i would be long gone...i would have had my fun and then run off! Harsh i know but, hey, i am a pisces 🙂 (says with a smile).
Anyways, despite the on and off behavior and communication, he is still around and he does still want to see me. Its like he is proceeding with caution, ya know? Which is totally rad for me but leaves me wondering what his motives are? I give him mad respect for sticking around despite my circumstances but it is just to have some fun in the sheets or is he sticking around and waiting for me to get seperated?
*also, i have 2 kids (toddlers) and he seems to actually really like the fact that im a mom. He compliments me all the time on how great a mother i am. Either he is the sweetest man out there or he should win an oscar for his games!
@Seraph...thank you for your insight! This actually has helped me a lot! 🙂
If i were him i would be long gone...i would have had my fun and then run off! Harsh i know but, hey, i am a pisces 🙂 (says with a smile).
Anyways, despite the on and off behavior and communication, he is still around and he does still want to see me. Its like he is proceeding with caution, ya know? Which is totally rad for me but leaves me wondering what his motives are? I give him mad respect for sticking around despite my circumstances but it is just to have some fun in the sheets or is he sticking around and waiting for me to get seperated?
*also, i have 2 kids (toddlers) and he seems to actually really like the fact that im a mom. He compliments me all the time on how great a mother i am. Either he is the sweetest man out there or he should win an oscar for his games!
@Seraph...thank you for your insight! This actually has helped me a lot! 🙂
sorry to say this peebles sweetie, but i find it absolutely incredible that this leo is still on the scene. you not only live in the same house as your 'ex' husband and are going through a divorce but you have two children of very young age—??
personally....as a single mother of 2 teenagers, I would not be putting myself on the market in that situation. in fact, i didn't put myself on the market for four years after my divorce for EXACTLY that reason and my kids are old enough to understand more.
one leo i know who has been happily married for several years told me that when he first me his wife, she was just coming out of a marriage and hadn't even started divorce proceedings. he said that the minute he knew he wanted this woman in his life, he went down to the courthouse to get all the applications for her divorce rolling. he told me that he couldn't even bear that she had HIS name as her surname still.
i don't think you're being very fair to this leo....OR to yourself, your kids and your ex husband. let's face it, and i mean this with empathy cos i've been where you are...you are currently in a MESS!!! it's not right to expect any man to take that on regardless of his sign.
i don't understand how you can live in the same house when the marriage is over. even if for financial reasons. one thing i respect about my ex husband (aries) is that even though he didn't want the marriage to be over, he stayed away from the marital home. we live in a different country and so there was no family for him to live with but his own male pride was such that he couldn't be in the family home where he knew he wasn't wanted (wow....that upset me writing that a bit cos he's a good man 😢 )
finally. i would just say that the way you behave and the things you do and say are creating memories for your kids. you and your husband represent 'normal' to them and so the way you conduct yourself becomes like the benchmark for their own relationships when they're older. i KNOW they are toddlers but please don't think they are too young to understand. kids understand way more than we know and what they don't understand, they lodge in their minds with an attached emotional response.
it's unfortunately that as a mother, when you go through divorce, you have no choice but to put your own emotional needs on the backburner until you have restored some routine INDEPENDENTLY of your ex-husband.
wow...sorry for the length!!
personally....as a single mother of 2 teenagers, I would not be putting myself on the market in that situation. in fact, i didn't put myself on the market for four years after my divorce for EXACTLY that reason and my kids are old enough to understand more.
one leo i know who has been happily married for several years told me that when he first me his wife, she was just coming out of a marriage and hadn't even started divorce proceedings. he said that the minute he knew he wanted this woman in his life, he went down to the courthouse to get all the applications for her divorce rolling. he told me that he couldn't even bear that she had HIS name as her surname still.
i don't think you're being very fair to this leo....OR to yourself, your kids and your ex husband. let's face it, and i mean this with empathy cos i've been where you are...you are currently in a MESS!!! it's not right to expect any man to take that on regardless of his sign.
i don't understand how you can live in the same house when the marriage is over. even if for financial reasons. one thing i respect about my ex husband (aries) is that even though he didn't want the marriage to be over, he stayed away from the marital home. we live in a different country and so there was no family for him to live with but his own male pride was such that he couldn't be in the family home where he knew he wasn't wanted (wow....that upset me writing that a bit cos he's a good man 😢 )
finally. i would just say that the way you behave and the things you do and say are creating memories for your kids. you and your husband represent 'normal' to them and so the way you conduct yourself becomes like the benchmark for their own relationships when they're older. i KNOW they are toddlers but please don't think they are too young to understand. kids understand way more than we know and what they don't understand, they lodge in their minds with an attached emotional response.
it's unfortunately that as a mother, when you go through divorce, you have no choice but to put your own emotional needs on the backburner until you have restored some routine INDEPENDENTLY of your ex-husband.
wow...sorry for the length!!
Pisces/Leo - LOL, stay away from him if you love him, you will drown him with your negativity, baggage and needing to be taken care of - no problem to a leo, we'll take well care of you for the longest time, until one day he will wake up and realise that ya just didn't have a backbone and didn't take care of him the very very few times that he really needed it, and while he will forgive and forgive, and even forget most of it, in the end it will drown him, cause that's what pisces do and Leo's need to know when the chips are down you have their back (equals), because we have yours all of the time. Pisces bring out the maternal instinct in leo (male or females), the protective instinct, which is great because we love nothing more than to rawr for our people, trouble is pisces don't recognise when it needs to be given back nor stroke the leo pride by telling others what has been done for them (slightly egotistical 😉).
oh and the whole situation you are in, perfect for a leo, bring on as much to take care of as possible and we'll show you how well we can take care of you, the more shite the better just so you know how much we love you - reciprocation is the fall down of the pisces. Believe it or not, Leo's do need to be taken care of, pisces just can't do that.
@Seraph... Thank you so much for the link to the article...it was very enlightening. (as a psychoanalyst i found it refreshingly analytical!) Also, me and my leo have discussed my "situation" numerous times and he definately is not thrilled that i am still living with my husband. He is always offering suggestions and even told me that me and my two girls could move in with him if i just needed to get out of my house. But then he goes all cold again and makes me wonder if he really meant it. As a psychoanalyst i have a very logical side (and virgo rising) but since i have sun and moon in pisces its like my emotional side trumps my logic. Make sense?
@Celtic...thank you for your opinion. Im not sure if i should take offense or not! lol... I hold a masters degree and am very self sufficient. I would never expect a man to take care of me or even accept it...i was raised better than that. Also, i hear what you are saying about my situation being perfect for my leo...in fact, it is perfect for any man, really! But my intuition is telling me that he does care for me and so that is why i was seeking some advice. Thanks for yours... 🙂
@Celtic...thank you for your opinion. Im not sure if i should take offense or not! lol... I hold a masters degree and am very self sufficient. I would never expect a man to take care of me or even accept it...i was raised better than that. Also, i hear what you are saying about my situation being perfect for my leo...in fact, it is perfect for any man, really! But my intuition is telling me that he does care for me and so that is why i was seeking some advice. Thanks for yours... 🙂
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@Celtic...thank you for your opinion. Im not sure if i should take offense or not! lol... I hold a masters degree and am very self sufficient. I would never expect a man to take care of me or even accept it...i was raised better than that. Also, i hear what you are saying about my situation being perfect for my leo...in fact, it is perfect for any man, really! But my intuition is telling me that he does care for me and so that is why i was seeking some advice. Thanks for yours... 🙂
No Please don't take offense as its not meant to be offensive, its just the way I see it having been married to a pisces man for 15 years and the sister of a pisces brother and pisces sister for 44 😉. Being taken care of financially is not something a pisces needs, on an emotional level though, in my experience, its a whole different story. Already your Leo is opening his heart via his home to you, he's giving and giving as only a Leo can and it feeds his need to show strength and love, and will continue to do so until he realises nothing is coming back just when he needs it the most, if that point is never reached, if he never needs for you to "have his back", to show someone that he is yours and you will be front and centre for him whipping away with your fish tail, to reciprocate at the same level with the protection, care and love that he will do for you, then you may not have any real problems. If that point is reached, and being an emotionally stronger sign you fail to see that he needs the world to see what you really mean to him, then he will wither.
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