Relationship Paraphernalia

I have a question.

What do you do with the trinkets and gifts given to you by an ex?

Is it acceptable to still wear them?

Should you get angry if your new boo/fwb/man/woman/lover or whatever still wears the watch given to them by their last boo/fwb/man/woman/lover?

I have some nice gifts and such and I feel funny wearing them. When asked oh that's nice ...where did you get that... what do I say?

It's horrible because I would go ape shit crazy if my dude told me the nice leather jacket he was rocking was a gift from um Amanda. I am telling you it would be WW III. I shouldn't even care right?

wouldn't care less, i'd wear 'em if I wanted to and he could wear what he wanted, if he had a problem with it then he'd have to grow the fuck up really quickly, the gifts don't matter, i'd have the man 🙂

I personally don't keep anything either but it's upto you some people like the memories of good times and the sentimental value Me I get rid of it . If I sell it i give the money to a charity this way I don't want to profit from from the gift trinket or sometimes I give it away. What they do with the gifts I bought them is upto them. I never ask for anything back or have any expectations because the relationship has ended

No E you are not odd at all. In fact, I feel the exact same way. Perhaps it's the Scorp Moon. I want to never look at or wear the stuff.

However, the LEO in me will not allow the Scorp in me to throw away anything expensive. It's like spoils of war. I've earned these "things".

As it stands now though, they are currently sitting in jewelry boxes.

My boyfriend could not wear ANYTHING given to him by another woman. Period. It is non-negotiable. He better lie to me and tell me he bought them or a family member. Yes I am encouraging half-truths.

nah....i don't keep stuff. even my platinum wedding band, diamond engagement ring and ruby and diamond 'eternity' ring (LOL @ eternity). they were sold to the lowest bidder, lol!

one thing i have kept was a wood carving of adonis given to me by a scorp last christmas. it's kinda sexy and i like rubbing it like i do my buddha's belly....'cept i aint rubbing it's belly 😛

apart from the wedding jewellery, the most expensive thing i ever gave away was a car bought for me by a leo a couple of years ago. i wasn't even dating him cos he was married but he got the hots for me bad. it all ended on a sour note when i told him to leave me alone and go back to his wife. i didn't actually want to hurt the guy but he was hurting her and their kids and i wanted no part of it.

it was a very conspicuous red sports car and i was worried his wife was gonna fiddle with the brakes or something...they came from northern ireland and you don't fuck with the men OR the women from that part of the world...so i sold it for next to nothing before anything bad could happen.

i thought i had the wrong thread then for a second!!!