Story: We dated a few years ago, he got into trouble for drinking and driving and went to jail. I tried calling and emailing, no response because he was away. Well I move on with my life get married have a family. A year later he messages me and is like I was away and I thought about you the whole time and want to marry you. I had to break it to him that I was pregnant and married. He still tried to talk to me and because I was married I didn't respond. I have been married 4 years to a pieces man, I'm wasn't happy with him so instead of dragging him along we decided to split. I finally get the courage to contact the Leo, he's In a weird place in his life right now, doesn't have a job or a car and is living with his mom. He asks what happened, I said we weren't happy. He replies back with what if I can't make you happy? He is very hot and cold in texting like we talked for a week hearts and kisses then no texting and then kinda sweet talking again . I'm not going to give my all if you aren't though. Or spill my feelings if you don't feel the same. So I'm just sitting here with bottled up feelings and frustration. We went out for a date yesterday split check because no job of course he was pouring his heart out about how he hates his life, he wants to move to CO And be with nature. He's sick of life and how we are all robots under control. He asked if he was scaring me and I said no, because I feel the same. He wants to get his own place and ect. After dinner he picks a flower off of a tree and says a pretty for a pretty. We pull up to my house and asks for kisses I give him one and he said more. I leave and don't text until this morning. Asking if we can go out, he asks if I am okay, I said no. We plan to attempt to hang out I said I'd let him know. I get it figured out, he replies I don't know when I will be free I'm going to be cleaning and having family visit. Like you didn't know that 2 hours ago? I replied "oh okay, well I tried." I am generally the one to initiate the texts after a few days. I give space and hate feeling clingy or needy. I got a new phone and changed my number, posted on fb that I have a new phone and number and if anyone needs it ask. He messages me did you get a new number? "yeah." Okay? can I have it? This is all very frustrating to me obviously if he really wanted me I would know, he's just hot and cold. I don't have time for it with everything I'm dealing with. I just feel like maybe I shouldn't give up. I'm pretty impatient , I am very independent, I have my own life and things to worry about. Just would like some advice as to should I disappear or is there anything I need to do to initiate things. Thanks .
