I had a profile on match.com where my leo guy first showed interest, he then found me on Facebook and friend requested me. We started talking there which lead to texting. We hung out a couple times also meeting 1 of 3 of his kids and he met mine. A week went buy with no contact so I sent him a text on a Friday asking if he was still interested in getting to know me if not that was ok too. He responded right away and asked to come over. When he got here he asked me to go away with him for the weekend on a trip he had planned already but his sibling backed out so he would be going alone now if I didn't go we were to leave at 3am. Plans worked out and we went, meeting another sibling and his gf there. It was an amazing weekend. We did become sexual during the trip. Following his body language and actions I opened up to the idea it could be more as I didn't take him as a guy to allow the situation to be more if he didn't want it. On the way home we were talking about our lives a situations. He has been married twice now in the process of divorce from the second which just ended July last yr. I also am seperated and getting divorced but have been seperated for over a year. While talking he tells me that it was very hard to be with me the first time as I'm the first girl since his wife and it made him realize he isn't ready for a relationship. I asked if he wanted to date still and he said it's not that I'm not interested, I just think I need some time. He won't answer rather he wants to remain speaking but has not made an effort to contact me either unless I initiate contact first. I'm curious as to your take on things and how to proceed. I'd like to remain talking and have stated that but that is respect his need for time. Do I walk away or try to keep contact but keep it simple?
