Sagittarius woman and Leo man

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Leanae
@Leanae
8 Years

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I've been having a casual relationship with Leo man for 6 months. During this time he has mentioned getting me pregnant and moving in together and getting married. I've never brought up any of these things. These conversations took place after we had been sleeping together a couple months and are never directly after sex. He actually calls or text me these things. he has indicated that he has been so hurt in the past that it's hard for him to give anyone a chance. His last relationship was 4 years ago and he was in a 4 year relationship. He wanted to marry the girl and she wanted to be with someone else. He hasn't had a relationship since. He's constantly hot and cold with me. When I ask about it he says sometimes he just needs his space. I told him that we weren't having enough sex and he said that's because I get emotional and he doesn't want to get me pregnant. Despite the fact that he has mentioned starting a family with me in the future. He told me that he is not ready for a baby at the moment which is fine. I wouldn't have a baby and we aren't even in a Committed relationship. I'm also on birth control. We have recently had a couple disagreements about his behavior. I've suggested that we stop seeing each other and he told me to relax and that I'm overthinking.He always comes back to me. I think he likes that I can be stern and express myself without totally flipping out on him. He's a good looking guy, best sex I've ever had, well traveled, professional etc so he can definitely find another person to sleep with. Some days I think he really likes me and others say I'm not sure. He gets jealous if he thinks I'm on a date or has someone else.is this normal for a leo??
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Nameless Nemean
@Chuckcem
14 Years5,000+ Posts

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Sounds like he doesn't know what he wants and is afraid of getting hurt (at least on the surface). In reality you've allowed yourself to be a friend with benefits, which means he can have you sexually without any of the real emotional responsibilites that come with being in a relationship. It's possible he's simple not ready to seriously date anyone. If that works for you, cool. Seems like you want more though, otherwise you wouldn't be questioning any of this.

My question is are you two exclusively dating/hooking up or can you see other people? Sounds like the relationship is open, no? You've mentioned what the Leo wants, but what is it that YOU want? Do you just want more sex live you've said? He may not think you're capable of anything deeper and is protecting his heart as a result.

From personal experience a Sag woman has always needed to make her intentions known to me before I moved forward. With Leos the direct approach is best. We'll hold on to our freedom and options until we know someone is truly serious and loyal to us. Someone who is unafraid to be frank with us is hard to ignore. A smart Leo man will not let an honest Sag woman go so easily. It's possible he's acting wishy-washy because he's unsure of your intentions (which you're of course mirroring back to him).
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Leanae
@Leanae
8 Years

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We can see other people. I don't think he would like it if I was because he gets a little jealous but he has never asked for exclusivity. Initially I thought we were dating to be in a relationship but then he told me that he was not going to get serious because he's moving. At that point I already liked him. If he text me and I tell him that I'm out or at a certain place he will ask if I'm on a date. He recently thought I didn't want to sleep with him because I had someone else. In reality I was just tired. I told myself that if it was going to just be a sexual relationship then I should be having frequent sex. He feels like I get too emotionally attached. I don't know what to do with Leo man. I thought if I mirrored his behavior that would work. Apparently not. When I ask him what he wants from me he told me that he couldn't answer that right now. Idk if I'm supposed to be trying to show him that I'm committed to ease his fears or walk away. I would like a relationship