Shy leo?

Ok so this is really the first time that i'm dating a leo male, i usually date virgo men but i am fast realizing that they are soo different. Now I've heard that leos are supremely confident etc..but with me leo appears to be shy. for the first thing, he didnt ask me out directly, i had to and then when we got on our date he didnt do the whole macho guy thing. he waited until i sat but he didnt like "lead" me like a virgo would--dunno if that makes sense. then we were in his car and he made a comment and i said "kiss me then" and he did, but i feel like i had to initiate it. we were making out in his car outside of my house for like an hour and he was not aggressive, he just sit there and kissed me back. I like all these things about him, but i can't read him lol! with other males, you definitely know that they're soo into you because they hold your hand or initiate physical contact. i had to be the one to hold his hand. he did pay for everything, and went along with everything i suggested. So how dooo u know if a leo guy likes you?? and what do they think about kissing on the first date??

Thanks Aquila for replying 🙂. Lol! u are right, he just about said the same thing about liking me a whole lot. I asked him upfront why I had to be the one to ask him out and he said that he was scared because he doesn't want to be annoying by coming on too strong. I have no idea why he would be shy though, he has a whole lot going for him. But what i notice is that he may be a little scared of me because I seem to be cool and detached- maybe it's the gemini in me. But for sure though, how do you know if/when a leo is serious about u as opposed to just wanting a fling? He doesn't seem to have any trouble in the romance department and he seems highly sexed.

Yeah but what does it mean to them? Is it just fun, a good lay--or when u lions think about doing the deed with someone you like you envision it being more serious like how a virgo would ? :p This leo basically told me that he's been with countless women--he can't even count how many women he's been with. He has this lazy attitude toward sex, although he explained to me that he really doesn't take it casually, and that if i came to him and said let's have sex he wouldn't say no. so what's to stop him from doing this will the tonnes of girls that throw themselves at him??

Yes, he did say that he likes me a whole lot and that he thinks of me being longterm. I guess it's my own insecurities rising. Previously I was with a virgo and because he was popular lots of girls were running him down. Now Mr. Leo is veeery popular and he's rich so many women run him down as well. Ahh well, I do want to see how this goes--it's early days yet. Oh and Aquila, I'm a gemini not a leo. It still baffles me though if he's soo into me, why is he not pursuing me like other males do. Are leos known to be clingy? He speaks to me nonstop throughout the day and calls me several times a day. This morning he asked if I was dead just because I had been awake for a few hours and didn't message him. At this stage, I like him alot but I want to hold back and take things slow, but it seems that he wants me to be constantly attentive to him, and although I can be, I think it's a little early to be devoted ^_^

ha! yeah, we leos crave constant attention. just not always in the way ppl perceive. i could care less about strangers noticing me but i want my significant other to be my biggest fan!

anyway, even though i'm a leo i've never been attracted to leo males. it's weird. they've been known to like me though. i've always found them to be more reserved and less showy than their female counterparts. the leo guys i've ever run into are quite elusive and can easily fall under the radar. they may be popular amongst their group but they're not as loud or gregarious as the women.

i became quite close to one leo male and this is how i knew he was into me:
- he contacted me often.
- he wanted to be around me a lot.
- he would always buy me gifts even if he couldn't afford it.
- he would stare at me a lot with eyes glazed over.
- he would always find ways to touch me.

he wasn't aggressive. hell, he wasn't even assertive (cancer moon anyone?) and he didn't confess his feelings for me until after finding out about me being attached to my cancer. then he was all butt hurt and said he had some "getting over to do". wow. i'm with a very cancer-y crab and he took more initiative than my leo friend. the lionesses on the other hand... complete opposite most of the time. not as aggressive as aries but you'll usually know. feisty ladies.

Whoa Ninjamu..U're a leo with a cancer? I would have said that is a feat that cannot be accomplished. But then again you leos love constant attention and admiration and cancers are clingy. Me on the other hand, can't do the clingy thing. I love the fact that this leo guy is constantly wanting to talk to me and hear from me because I also love the attention, but then they expect you to reciprocate, and well--I'm so not into being all devoted and lovestruck at his feet. Especially not this soon. I haven't been finding it hard being all sweet and attentive in some ways to him but I just wonder if he's going to want more and more and more. Also I notice a selfish quality in him--though i'm not sure if he's a male and just doesn't get it, but I spoke to him about a little scenario--I went to a new male doctor and he seemed to be a little inappropriate with me. I told leo and he just said don't let that bother you hon and that was the end of the conversation. Bleh!


This leo i know likes me because he's been very direct verbally about it. He made no attempt to beat around the bush. But I have always watched actions more than words and so the non-assertive thing when it comes unto pursuing me was a little confusing. Another thing is that he doesn't "touch" me affectionately, I only notice that he'll want to kiss me because I'll feel the tension and I'll see him looking at me, or when I look at him he'll smile and dart his eyes away stuff like that. But to actually touch me affectionately I haven't noticed anything like that. Hmm but is that pushing the shy thing too far? I am very responsive to touch and affection. We've only been out twice so maybe it takes a little time.