slept w/a leo 2 soon but he calls me evryday—

This topic was created in the Leo forum by libra_lis on Friday, March 7, 2008 and has 5 replies.

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@libra_lis
19 YearsLibra

so i met this guy at a club and we talkd on the phone a lot...then after 2weeks we finally hang out...we watched a movie at his house then we had a few drinks and we ended up having sex...anyways i felt really bad the next day and left i had class and he had to work then he called me like 10 min. after i left...now he still calls me pretty much every day but he acts like a total immature dick head but and insists hes just jokn...im ready to ignore his calls all together but he's frikken hot....i know i cant reverse the 'damage' of appearing ez but is there a way to put this on a better track?? should i go along w/ his dum jokes which are always sexual in nature and not appear buttt hurt as he puts it?

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@libra_lis
19 YearsLibra

ya last nite i hung up waay earlier than usual bcuz he was bugging me i told him bye ur being dum...so today we talkd and i told him it buggs me how he talks then he said hes just messn w/me cuz he knows im frustrated that i slept w/him 2 fast and that im 2 sensitive to basically lighten up...WATEVR im not putting up w/it lets see what happens

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@little_sparrow
21 Years5,000+ Posts

libra

It is all part of the leoman ummmm .... charm. He is doing all this cause he really likes you. My ex who I was with for 5 years was a Leo/Virgo cusp but more Leo ... he use to bug and bug and bug me. I just gave it right back to him. They like that. *shrug*

After 5 years, I realized I meant some of the stuff I was saying and really couldn't take it anymore. lol!

I think he genuinely likes you and wants to make you smile about the situation and realize it isn't that big of a deal. Leos don't seem to do the whole you slept with me too fast thing. I have never known one who was hung up on sex. Sex happens.

He isn't worried about it and if you want to get a long with him .... don't you worry about it either.

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@little_sparrow
21 Years5,000+ Posts

Don't be afraid to sass him back. i.e. he teases you about sleeping with him too fast because he is so hot. You just say ... well, it was dark and we all make mistakes.

Teasing, seemingly, is part of leoman foreplay.

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@libra_lis
19 YearsLibra

thank u little sparrow...ihope so... he's just soo weird..i dont know what to do sometimes RRRRR lol