Telling a Leo how you feel about him?

Good idea/bad idea?... if the outcome could go either way, I'd go for it but the outcome unfortunately can only go one way, as he is taken.

I know what you're all thinking, leave it alone, he's taken!

But the situation is a bit more complicated than that. We don't really talk much about it but it feels like the feeling is very mutual and being such a forward person it's really hard to not let my feelings out! I feel anxious with not knowing what the story is.

Do you think I should discuss it... or just carry on with this weird mutual feeling in silence?

Ugh. It's so frustrating... He's so ok with us remaining friends though, but I don't think that I can do that. But I'd feel bad if I just stopped talking to him and if I did I have a feeling he'd pull me up on it. :/

If a Leo male isn't professing his love it's most likely not a mutual feeling. Now this does not mean he won't flirt, send out positive energy towards you, chase you, cats love a good chase but if he's not the one saying how he feels he most likely is not that into you (enough) and you're going to get your feelings hurt when he does not reciprocate mutual attraction towards you in the way you want/need him to so unless you can be okay with that I'd say leave it alone.

You're right, it does need to be left well alone. I have tried, don't get me wrong... He cheated on his gf with me a year ago and this is how long it's been going on, since then... I thought I was good at letting go, apparently not. -__-

I dunno what I want to be honest, I guess it's just really confusing. Any other time I would be gone... but I've been friends with him for a while and he's actually one of the nicest people I know.

There was that sense of adventure and excitement in it I guess. I'll admit to that... but it's not just that anymore. I will not get with him again while he is in a relationship though, let's get that clear.

I think that what I'm trying to get at is, I've already made up my mind that I can no longer be friends with him anymore, I can walk away without saying anything, but I have this need to make sure we both know what is going on, that's why I want to tell him how I feel... but then if I do I might just be causing unnecessary drama... if that makes sense.

I'll be seeing him this weekend anyway, no doubt. Mutual friend is having a party. Hopefully I can stay sober long enough. 😛

Nooooooo!

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Posted by JROI
Nooooooo!

You sure?

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LOL @ Ssupes -playing proxy Leo wingman...?

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Posted by JROI
Nooooooo!

You sure?

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-__-

Well, I decided not to say anything. I was friendly with him but we were both a little distant... I think the message is clear enough now without having to say anymore.

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Nooooooo!

You sure?

LOL @ Ssupes -playing proxy Leo wingman...?

Nope, Just saying shes attracted to him and obviously likes him. If she gets drunk and expresses feelings......he will take her in the bathroom and put it on her. He's already cheated with her.....he would do it again and she would prob let him.

This is just how I see it.

IF I was single, at a party and half lit and a woman I had feelings for expressed them back to me. Damn straight I would take her to a back room or bathroom.

WHATS UP NOW?

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I honestly don't think that he would again, I've been known to be a little naive sometimes but I still think he's a nice person and I'm gonna leave thinking that.... makes me feel better.