The Leo Girl that I like... What happened?

I don't know what happened to me and the LEO GIRL that I like. First, I tried to be all around her then decided to distance myself from her(LEO). So at first she would message me and all, it was all good and she told me she liked the presents and all... then I tried to now be in contact with her for 4 days and when I talked to her again I told her I was going to a party. She asked me what time I was going and then I said I've changed my mind I'm going to a concert because someone invited me... She told me to take care of myself because I'm still far to wherever I was supposed to go... she didn't know where my destination was until I told her that I was going to this certain place... a far away province just to watch a concert... then she stopped replying... and I tried to message her she never replied to me still... 😢 it's been 2 days now... I don't know if she's playing games...

Then my friend told me that he tried to ask her for advice about the girl he likes and her(My Leo Girl) advice was "sometimes you're the one who's pursuing so you have to do the first move."

😢 I just don't know what happened... she replies to my friend and others but me... no...

She's playing games because you aren't lavishing her with the tons of attention she so thinks she deserves.

That, and she probably threw a tantrum that you decided to ditch the party and go somewhere else. If she was going to the same party, she may have gotten all up in arms about it.

Who knows. Whenever I hear about these chicks go on about their dating woes, they cause a lot of their own problems with how they react to the guy. It's pretty stupid.

If she's willing to ditch you/play games over the fact that your plans changed that night, eff it. She sounds immature and childish.

But like the others said, actually call her and see what happens then. It'll clear up any confusion on your part.

I'm gonna try to call her later. I already texted her and message her she never replied to me. 😢 but she replies to her friends and my friend.

I'm a sagittarius

Posted by size zero superhero

OP, perhaps give her some time & resume later. Or, if you suspect she's taking advantage of your attention/material generosity yet meanwhile won't let you off the hook over minor mistakes...maybe it's a good time to go back to the drawing board & re-evaluate your interest in this girl.

+1

Pending on what happens if he calls her, I wouldn't be surprised by this. A lot of the ones I've known are always looking for problems in their relationships/guys that they date. They nitpick and use some pretty stupid reasons to not be with the guy or find him adequate enough. It's self sabotaging to a bit of an extreme. It's like they never want to be happy and are always creating ridiculous standards. One minor mistake sends them down the "omg he's terrible, how dare he!!" road.

Like I said, it's absolutely maddening to listen to them talk about their problems because of what they do. So when I hear the other side, I'm not the least bit surprised when the guy is "WTF??" about everything. Some Leo women pull out all the female stereotypes in dating. :/

Hope this guy gets his answers if she decides to be an adult and actually talk to him.

Posted by tiziani
Leo Women don't usually open up if you keep moving the goalposts. One minute you're there, next minute you're elsewhere. It's not reassuring behaviour for them.

Quite true.