the lonely lioness.

Posted by ninjafish
Hmm I think you need to deal with building your own self esteem up first. You don't "need" anyone by your side. I know I'm neither male nor leo, but I'm pretty certain your neediness would turn a lot of people off. I think you should try to strengthen internal elements first.

i would love to do that. i am unsure of how to.

". i try so hard, "

You're not trying so hard, you're trying to hard - its give off a vibe, stop trying and live and enjoy your life.

"i have so much hope to being saved."

You're looking for someone to save you, no-one can save you, you must have saved yourself first so that you are a whole and complete, happy, human being. No man is looking for someone who is so needy that they need to be saved - no-one deserves that much pressure put on them by another.

"i need a king, a lion by my side"

You don't need a king, you deserve one, but you won't get one until you truly believe this first.

"but seems turned off when i am too anxious"

This is because he smells your neediness.

"sometimes he doesn't even reply. what does this mean?"

It means he does not want you to be texting him, you wouldn't have to resort to this if he wanted you as he would be coming after you already. Desparation and neediness comes off very easily, whether its face to face or over the internet on those online dating sites etc. And its a huge turnoff for most people.

You need to build up your self esteem and self respect, get some pride back in your life and learn to be happy on your own and with yourself, everything will just fall into place after that, but you won't learn it until you back off from this man and other men for a while, and learn about yourself and where you are coming from. When you stop needing a man to save you and only need yourself you will be a strong person.

"do i really need a lion by my side?"

No you don't, you need an equal by your side, as does everyone.

Posted by WoundedLeo
Hello and welcome! Can you give us your full chart and also your age? You sound alot like me, but I don't want to project so let's see what you've got 🙂

Sun in Leo 10 degrees
Moon in Cancer 28 degrees
Mercury in Virgo 7 degrees
Venus in Virgo 11 degrees
Mars in Libra 22 degrees
Jupiter in Aquarius 18 degrees
Saturn in Aries 20 degrees
Uranus in Aquarius 6 degrees
Neptune in Capricorn 28 degrees
Pluto in Sagittarius 3 degrees
Ascending node in Virgo 20 degrees
Lilith in Virgo 15 degrees (what is lilith?)
i'd rather keep age to myself. thank you for the help.

her sun and moon are domiciled.. she's probably a wholesome person.

it's the other people that are lacking 😉

Gandalf I don't know why you keep attacking leonine.. she has 3 domiciled planets (sun, moon merc), she's actually a very wholesome person. It's the other that is lacking, not her.. lol! Look at her pic, she is a larger than life Leo!

Hahaha Gandalf, I have no reply to your stance for libra and cancer weaklings.. but in this case it might be a matter of perspective... 😛

Posted by Gandalf
I am sorry i have no libra in my chart i can't be dishonest.

hahaha you're funny 😛

Posted by everevolvingepithet

Posted by spica

Posted by Gandalf
I am sorry i have no libra in my chart i can't be dishonest.

hahaha you're funny 😛

Pff that;s every other sign but Libra!
Now where did I put my bag of 'truth, light, justice, etc' quotes? they always go down well lol

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Lol
+1.99

Posted by Gandalf
shit i lied. My mid heaven is in libra. aw man........

Isn't that a good thing! The MC makes you appear diplomatic. Even though you sound mean, you have no bite.. it must be the MC.. lol!

Posted by Jynja
Of course, I had to learn to consciously separate the two when I realized my life was a jumble of good people turned bad.

Yes, exactly.. positive VS negative..
The negative Leo facet, I must say is very bad.. but leonine (OP) here has the good side of Leo

Posted by ninjafish
Hmm I think you need to deal with building your own self esteem up first. You don't "need" anyone by your side. I know I'm neither male nor leo, but I'm pretty certain your neediness would turn a lot of people off. I think you should try to strengthen internal elements first.

You said you want to but you are unsure how to?... the best way to build self esteem is to do things you WANT to do, but have been too scared, too busy, to ANYTHING to do....

One of the FIRST things I can think of that helped build my self esteem was being in marching band. (WHAT— You were in marching band and you BUILT self esteem—).... YES....

Imaging having to carry a heavy trumpet, play it correctly, step and march at the right times and right moves all in front of a HUGE stadium full of people. I did not care what people thought because I LOVED the feeling of playing and performing and marching. It felt like a cohesive unit of people and I was part of it. (I should've joined the military)....

The second time I got a HUGEEEE self esteem boost when I was TERRIFIED of learning how to ride a motorcycle, afraid I'd make a fool of myself.... so I forced myself into the lessons and came out in my class as one of the best riders.... not to mention I achieved getting my motorcycle license! 🙂

Go out and do your own thang. Find your own interests and hobbies and IMMERSE yourself in them. The more you immerse yourself in what you love the more people will be drawn to you for DOING what you love!

Posted by Gandalf
ofcourse i have no bite! Also i am not mean just trying to help even though i know it seems nasty.

To bite means to have intention of real harm which i don't and besides i know how to play the law of karma and that's not to my best interst.


my fav placment ?

My sag rising! It gives me faith even in the worst situations and my ascendant lord i Jupiter who is a pretty cool dude 🙂

+1
Definitely ups the vibrant, goodwill quotient

Posted by Gandalf
So you have a bite huh spica? We are all to dumb to see it ? well have fun biting😛

I have no clue what this means!

Posted by Gandalf
Though as much as i love my jupiter i do have a weird issue. See my ascendant lord is jupiter but my Jupiter is placed in gemini which is in determinent .

You see spica? I just have no luck😢

u take things too literally! lol
if your jupiter is placed in the 7th house, that means that's where your luck is 😉

The girl makes one post and disappears never to be heard from again whilst others argue about how "correct" they are. I love these threads.

thank you nynjafish, celticlioness, gandalf, spica, jynja, wounded leo and all others. despite some quite hurtful comments, which are very useful too, you have all helped me very much. though i don't magically feel all better just yet, i will work hard to better myself. though i'm weak now, i will find my strength. i wish you all the best, thank you.