First plz don't judge me. But the libra guy I know has a gf. I am a Leo girl. I dealt with him for three months last year until I couldn't take being the side girl any longer. He constantly gave me the....I'm going to leave her or give me some time. I tried and yes he is a cheater and I am wrong as well. But I can't help the feelings I had for him. We finally stopped and it was messy. We wasn't speaking to one another for months. I finally in January talked to him face to face to tell him how hurt I was by this situation and seemed to have understood but he hates any type of conflict and would rather avoid at all cost. When we talked from then on he would have this best buddy disposition like nothing was wrong and it made me more mad. At some point we just stopped talking that much because it was too hard for me. Sometime this summer we started speaking again and eventually having sex once. It didn't seem like it was a big deal to either one of us but we started getting closer again and he was going through a lot so I was his sounding board. For some reason he wanted to see me more and their have been times where we wouldn't have sex. But I'm the relationship type and he knows it so seeing every few weeks was killing me and I would miss him more and more. He said he was moving out, although I don't believe him but he claims he's trying to find the right way to leave. I felt like I can handle the situation this go round because I'm not going to get emotional attached......how wrong I was. This man knows I have feelings for him and I feel like he uses that to his advantage. Whenever I want to talk about feelings he gets upset and say not now. It's not the right time. I can't say how I feel or ask him how he feels. I feel so stupid and wish I could stop. I told him last night we can no longer have sex but can remain friends and he never responded to my text. I IM him to ask was he upset because I wanted to be friends and he seemed so irritated between ignoring me. Idk what to do...guess its nothing to do but it hurts because I've always been there and I thought I meant more to him than some *** to him. Maybe I'm being naive but he used to be so very sweet in the beginning and still can be but he can be so cold and distance. Ppl can logically tell u to get over someone until your feelings are invested its difficult.
