Unforgettable?

This topic was created in the Leo forum by LeoWithCapAndAnnoyed on Monday, September 11, 2006 and has 19 replies.

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@LeoWithCapAndAnnoyed
20 Years500+ Posts

Do any of you fellow Leos receive phone calls, emails, texts, etc. from ex-loves and friends alike that can't seem to erase you from your memory as you have them? Is that the magnetism that Leos are supposed have? No, I'm not trying to have a board that's filled with conceited topics a la Scorpio board but I'm curious...

At this point, it's a joke with me and my friends but seriously, I can be really mean to a person or verbally express my displeasure with them followed by a statement promising to eradicate them from my life...yet for the most part, they all come back.

What gives? Tell me that you all experience the same! 😄

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@wheelhomies
20 Years10,000+ Posts

I hope I don't seem conceited, but, yes, people do have a very hard time letting me go. One of ex-boyfriends had a couple "relationships" after we broke up and months later he called me and told me he still had feelings for me...others have just disappeared and then a few weeks later they suddenly contact me again. It's weird because I honestly don't understand...like, it doesn't seem like I do anything in particular that would make me "unforgettable" 😛.

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@balsley
20 Years

A big yes to that!!!!!! Last Wednesday an ex-boyfriend who btw is now married started sending me text messages in the AM and it lasted for 6 hours. It was a different number and I thought it was someone else.

Then, 3 days later another ex up and calls, didn't leave a message. Don't know what that was all about. What gives—

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@purrrfect
20 Years1,000+ Posts

aw LWC. Good to see you.

.....Do any of you fellow Leos receive phone calls, emails, texts, etc. from ex-loves and friends alike that can't seem to erase you from your memory as you have them?......

My scorp and I have both threatened eradication before but neither one of us seem to go away. We both find each other in one way or another.

As for others, it used to happen and I would do my best detachment work. But now I am completely impossible to find so I wouldn't know anymore lol

...I can be really mean to a person or verbally express my displeasure with them followed by a statement promising to eradicate them from my life...yet for the most part, they all come back.....

They obviously like abuse. Try being nice and see if it scares them. 🙂

Do you have an ex stalking you right now?

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@balsley
20 Years

Nice. Oh no. I don't think that would work at all. Would It?

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@purrrfect
20 Years1,000+ Posts

...Some people are naturally masichistic, with a subconscious desire to be abused....

Yeah, why is that? I think for an ex of mine it was a need for sympathy and attention from others. I have valid reasons for going this route but I wish it didn't have to be that way.

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@viejagloria
20 Years

i must admit, usually it is I who has the more difficult time letting go, but occasionally, there is the ex- or the other that won't let me go, of which i currently have one of . it's a nice, ego expanding experience . 🙂

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@purrrfect
20 Years1,000+ Posts

....usually it is I who has the more difficult time letting go,....

vg, same here. I think this could be a leo trait. This was once a topic that was brought up a lot. About leos not being able to let go.

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@balsley
20 Years

Do you think it's really a Leo trait? There's only been one that I still think about. I don't call or harass him though.

I don't get the still calling thing. I think overall people have a more difficult time letting go of us Leos. And who can blame them?!

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@purrrfect
20 Years1,000+ Posts

balsley, I think in general it could be. We had a full thread a couple months ago about leos who couldn't let go. It seemed to be a common theme. I'm the first to admit people are different though and doesn't apply to everyone.

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@LisforLeo
20 YearsLeo

i have that problem with ex boyfriends..not even kidding. in extreme examples i once had an ex get a job at the same place i did (and later admit that it was because he had hopes in getting me back.) or there was one ex that showed up at my house after a year and telling me he hadn't stopped think about us. so i say...hell yes to our leo magnetism..we are the femme fatales of the zodiac.

people have told me that while sometimes i've been outspoken, or hard to deal with..ultimately, i was loyal, had a big heart, and had this raw energy that just drew people in (basically all the leo traits here)

leos. can live with us. can't live without us.

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@LisforLeo
20 YearsLeo

oh also, check that person's sign..maybe you hurt their ego or pride by letting them go so they'll do whatever to restore that.

..i have trouble with that..when i let go of someone i do miss them..and after awhile if it was a strong connection that was completely severed i'll look back again for them for friendship. AND mostly, oh yes MOSTLY..when i'm the one who gets kicked to the curb..i'm right back there because that makes it even harder..i really struggle letting go in those situations...i've even turned to minor revenges of sorts (but not so much any more..now i just turn to good old ice cream and wait for the next bus.)

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@msleo1
20 YearsLeo

Yes, I have to agree that Leo's are unforgettable!!! We can't help it! I had a guy that I was seeing also contacted me a whole year later and what made it so bad I had moved backed home and he figured out where I was at!!!My goal back then was to see if I could whip him; I didn't think I did until he came back looking for me in the daytime with a flashlight a year later!! Then I was like, "Damn, I good"!! 🙂

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@little_sparrow
21 Years5,000+ Posts

everytime I see this thread all I can think is

unforgettable .... that's what you are .....
unforgettable .... in everyway ....

🙂

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@balsley
20 Years

I can relate to that Lis. I try to be friends with them and go from there. Sometimes it works out and sometimes it doesn't. Just depends on the situation too.

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@tight-ass
20 Years

i always treat ppl mean and it sure aint to keep em keen but they keep comin back
GOD HELP ME !!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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@leoSCORPIOrising
20 Years

YES!! my ex still emails me and ALWAYS tries to set up a date (LIKE TODAY), too late i'm with scorpio man. i think it's the fact that we are still nice to them even though they might be TRASH, yet we forgive them *but do we leos forget?..* N. O.