Virgos... What do I do?

I seem to be surrounded by Virgos, and their natural ease in passing judgement always makes me feel completely shut down. I met one virgo though a while back who completely stole my heart! we broke up, and now he is going to be a father. I congratulated him and hoped to keep some kind of contact but I'm wondering if he might view it as me holding on to some hope in getting back together... this is certainly NOT the case, I just want to be a positive, supportive friend.

also since the breakup we occasionally would catch up, like once a month some form of contact, but I worry that now he might be ready to cut me loose for good as a person in his life because he has so much going on in his own

I get it if he needs to figure out his life right now... but our contact has been so minimal that now I regret not being more there for him

we agreed that we wanted to stay friends but it seems to be falling apart

regardless of whats going on for him, I don't want to lose him as a friend

I miss him 😢

what do I do? am I crazy!?

(also... some background info... we share a moon in pisces that may be responsible for our constant attempt at humility and reconciliation despite the fact that we know its completely over)

Oh if only I could always be strong enough to see it that way, but you're absolutely right. If there is one thing I can learn from virgos its how to gracefully accept criticism instead of harboring it. A lesson that is tough for us leos 😉

It's entirely possible to remain friends with a virgo ex. I think they are the type that really value people that came into their lives, even if you two are no longer together. My virgo ex that I dated for almost 10 years and I only talk every few weeks now, just to see how each other is doing. We have made it clear we want to remain friends and be there for each other after breakup. If you want to be there for him, just communicate with him, show him you are there for him if he needs, without all the gushy emotions. I don't know if you have moved on already, but I wasn't able to really "be friends" with him until I have let go and moved on, understand the communication certainly won't be as intense and frequent as it was before.

thanks! I mean I feel like I've already embarrassed myself enough already with the last time I talked to him... kind of just had a lot to say and went into way more detail about my life than he probably wanted... Im not too worried anymore really, if we stay it touch, we stay in touch but for now I'm going to take my bruised ego home, just see what the future holds I guess...