what is the deal?

I have a crush on a Leo that used to work with me and transfered to a new job. We bonded strongly and text each other a lot, but now since he got this new job, he disappeared. I wish him a happy birthday via text, nothing. Got him a gift sent over to his place, nothing. I have to text him a few days later to make sure he got it and said, "Oh yeah! Got it! Thank you 😄" like that kinda hurt that. i feel like we're distancing. Is it just he's adjusting to his new schedule? Doesn't care for me since he's in a new environment? This lasted for 2 weeks. I'm not sure if I should try a few times before I either drop him or try to talk to him about it. His placement is Leo sun, Cancer Moon, Mercury, venus and mars in Virgo

Oh yeah. You would think he'll be mushy mushy or needy because of his placements, but his virgo placements made hhim solid. I know his schedule and basically asked me for mine so we can hang out, but nothing. Is it a testt that he wants me to be the one to go after him?

Venus, Merc, and Mars in Virgo make him nearly more Virgo than Leo IMO.

I''d advise you to also present this on the Virgo forum because his vehavior sounds more like a Virgo than like a Leo.

Thanks! Will do!

Posted by 9waterlion9
As a leo I'd sy it sounds like he's just not interested...but regardless of sign, people do what they want to do...if he was into you, he would make time for you regardless of how busy he was. And the not saying thank you for the gift was pretty insensitive & careless, if you were really into someone who got you a gift you don't just forget to say "thank you"...

I wished he didn't confess to me that he liked me. People ssay I like you like it doesn't mean anything anymore. My instinct told me not to open up, but seeing how kind he was and made me smile, I trusted him and now he abandoned me. Last time I'll look like a fool :/

I honestly wish I can poke at him for being a shithead. I opened up to him for nothing, gave him my attention for nothing and overall, wasted time on him. Yes, I'm a little bitter.

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Posted by 9waterlion9
As a leo I'd sy it sounds like he's just not interested...but regardless of sign, people do what they want to do...if he was into you, he would make time for you regardless of how busy he was. And the not saying thank you for the gift was pretty insensitive & careless, if you were really into someone who got you a gift you don't just forget to say "thank you"...

I wished he didn't confess to me that he liked me. People ssay I like you like it doesn't mean anything anymore. My instinct told me not to open up, but seeing how kind he was and made me smile, I trusted him and now he abandoned me. Last time I'll look like a fool :/

Honestly, the best advice I can give you is to take EVERYONES words with a grain of salt until their actions prove them true. It will save you a lot of dissapointment. Like I said, people do what they want, and when someone really likes you, you will know! Espescially a leo. Lol

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Did I mentioned that he kissed me and embraced me with long hugs? I guess that's as obvious as it gets I guess.

I'm confused. Why do you keep censoring your own comment? And to answer your question, I guess? Modern dating has got to shit. Anyways, thanks for putting your input. I'll just move on.

Lol! It just made me curious what you wrote 😛 I agree!

Posted by 9waterlion9
But I'm sorry, I feel like maybe I sounded a little insensitive, I really hope you feel better and find someone better who doesn't forget basic courtesies 😉

No worries! 🙂 I've been dealing with a lot of things. This is one of them. Being dropped out of nowhere just tortures me like "why?" And since I know why, that mystery is solved! 🙂

Thank you for taking the time to help me out. It means a lot!

I just mentioned this behavior on the Cancer forum.

He is a typical Leo sun, Cancer moon.

Something caused him to go into his shell. You can either shock him out of it or wait till he has resolved whatever it is to get back to you.

For Cancer moons, coming from one place where we were settled to another place of uncertainty is a major big deal. I think he's adjusting and so has built a wall around himself so he won't be hurt by the move.

Do you know if he's doing this to everybody else around him?

Posted by Capricorn124
I honestly wish I can poke at him for being a shithead. I opened up to him for nothing, gave him my attention for nothing and overall, wasted time on him. Yes, I'm a little bitter.

You Caps are so....

Give us one minute to adjust.

Whew.


😄

We ♥ you guys tho. lol

Oh.

I just read the thread.

Good luck then.

Posted by 037
For Cancer moons, coming from one place where we were settled to another place of uncertainty is a major big deal. I think he's adjusting and so has built a wall around himself so he won't be hurt by the move.

Do you know if he's doing this to everybody else around him?

You sure the Virgo placements don't involve? When were texting back and forth, I asked about his new job and he ignored it and talked about something else. >.> a coworker from his home store(he came to my store because we were low staffed) told me he was going to visit and has yet to go by. Strange. Come back 037! You.might havr the answer!!!

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For Cancer moons, coming from one place where we were settled to another place of uncertainty is a major big deal. I think he's adjusting and so has built a wall around himself so he won't be hurt by the move.

Do you know if he's doing this to everybody else around him?

You sure the Virgo placements don't involve? When were texting back and forth, I asked about his new job and he ignored it and talked about something else. >.> a coworker from his home store(he came to my store because we were low staffed) told me he was going to visit and has yet to go by. Strange. Come back 037! You.might havr the answer!!!

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Well, I have only one Virgo placement in Mercury, but this guy seems like me.

When I move from some place of comfort to a place I can't be sure about, I become even more self - absorbed. It takes a while to settle down.

Did he say he liked you... You know? In that way?

Yes he did! He even held my hand and right before he left, he gave me a.long embrace and gave me a kiss.on the cheek :/

yeah, he must be dealing with nostalgia and insecurity and stuff.

You seem like a cool Cap. You can draw him out of it. Ask him if he misses home.

If he is avoiding talking about work, it could mean he doesn't want to think about what he left behind.

Posted by 037
yeah, he must be dealing with nostalgia and insecurity and stuff.

You seem like a cool Cap. You can draw him out of it. Ask him if he misses home.

If he is avoiding talking about work, it could mean he doesn't want to think about what he left behind.

I hope so. I mean, I might leave him be for a few more days and see what happens. I text him 4 days ago to help proofread a paper for work and has yet to reply. Who knows, I hope you're right.

Is he usually lax with these documents?

But, yeah, leaving him to it a while might be the solution too.

Posted by 037
Is he usually lax with these documents?

But, yeah, leaving him to it a while might be the solution too.

He's usually replies and says sure. This time I didn't get anything :/