@NYLeo
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Hiyeeee!
I am new I have been reading this forum quite a bit. I appreciate how informative everyone is and hope that I could get some help with what I view as a small issue. I posted this in the Cap section too, but no replies yet.
Background story
I visit different locations for my job and in one location there is a Capricorn guy that I eventually started to text. He told me he liked me and wanted to do various sexual things to me. He begged me to go out with him the first and second time. Since then he has been begging for kisses and to come by my house. When we have hung out and he was all over me I had to literally do a spin move to get away. The guy has a girlfriend and I have a boyfriend and to make things worse he said he values his fish tank over his current girlfriend. I told him I wasn't interested and he said it was going to happen anyway (sexual stuff). He contacted me initially on May 25th and we have texted everyday since and then said he was no longer interested just then yesterday June 21st evening after I told him I don't think it is a good idea for us to do anything and still wasn't interested??_perhaps one rejection too many for him. Funny thing is I have told him off and told him no repeatedly.
The straw that broke the camels back for me was: He said he did not want to have sex with me just yet and only wanted to experience me orally (who says you can choose, I don't even want to!). I laughed at him (what nerve) and told him no.
I told him that I would not text him anymore and respected his decision I also said I did not intend to offend him and did not like that he tried to make that type of a decision for me. I also said that I am not into no strings attached sex. Then erased his contact info from my phone and deleted him from FB.
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Now I still have to go into that location for work in which he is one of the managers...is it gonna be ignore city with him now? Or worse yet is he going to try to be mean or vengeful to me in some way? I would just like to be prepared for what I may be walking into.
Thank any and all in advance who reply