Whats a prideful Leo to do?

I like a guy, let call him Sam... because that's his name

Hes a libra, we've hung out a little bit, we don't talk unless we find each other at mutual friends gatherings etc.

regardless we have had some amazing moments... But I have read that libra can sometimes enjoy testing their potential lovers, playing hard to get.. making sure that they commit to someone whos worth it i guess?

now...I'm not saying i expect a proposal, But!

as a Leo, and we are talking textbook leo, I initially and outwardly just want to walk away. I mean.. excuse me? I am a Queen and will be treated as such

But my Moon is in Aquarius and as per, i find myself gravitating toward him. regardless of what I tell myself, who I meet and what I do around him i

a) can't keep his attention which is infuriating and

b) find myself with all of his attention when ever we are alone

please send a girl some advice...

thanks youuu xoxox

Hello

This actually sounds like the flip-side of my current problem (even down to the whole 'not talking unless we encounter each other in certain scenarios'), which is (as a Libra) how to interact with a Leo girl, so perhaps I can try to give some insight into the other side!

For me (allowing for the fact that we aren't always aware of subconscious motivations etc), it's less about wanting to put the other person through any kind of test or other unpleasant situation to manipulate them, and more that I question everything about our previous interactions which leaves me questioning whether or not I've just read more into the situation than the other person might perceive there to be. I'm sure, though, that with a lot of Libras it can be a case of 'not wanting to commit to someone they're not sure about'; the only problem arises with when the Libra DOES really like the other person BUT is desperately trying to think of a not-incredibly-lame way of approaching them and, in a way, reinforcing the relationship.

In my case, the Leo girl is clearly very self-possessed and has a strong (not in any bad way) personality, but perhaps there's some kind of shyness there also; from what you say it might be more that she's annoyed I'm not seeming at all invested in interacting with her- which is only because she doesn't know the pathetic amount of time I've spent mulling it over and thinking about how much I'd like to talk to her, but feel like I don't know what to say! It's one thing to get along great when you both find yourself in the same place; I can do that OK (even if I'm actually really nervous), but it's finding an 'excuse' to talk about nothing in particular. Would a Leo like yourself think it weird to get a 'pointless' message for no real reason, or would they be more likely to be thinking 'why the heck is this jerk not paying any attention to me?'; perhaps that would all depend on how much the Leo liked the other person, though? Or is it the case that a Leo would be OK with just an acquaintance they like well enough talking to them/ would be annoyed by that same acquaintance seemingly not putting in any effort to be friends?

I guess I haven't been that much help, so I will just say that if this Libra is anything like me, and likes you like I like 'my' Leo, he'd be ecstatic if you sent him a message because it'd save him um-ing and ah-ing over the matter (even if his response doesn't clearly indicate exactly how happy he is to get your message because, once he got it, he'd still have to dither about exactly what wording to use to seem receptive but not 'OH MY GOD I LOVE YOU SO MUCH' because that might make you uncomfortable, and so on and so forth... actually, it seems like Libras are mainly the problem in dealing with the apparently much more honest and straightforward Leo!