Which chart is more compatible for this Leo

This topic was created in the Leo forum by Heartsss on Tuesday, October 16, 2012 and has 14 replies.

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@Heartsss
13 Years

The Leo (unknown time of birth):
Sun 13??45' Leo
Moon 26??46' Gemini
Mercury 5??50' Virgo
Venus 6??47' –? Virgo
Mars 13??47' Virgo
Jupiter 22??04' Leo
Saturn 2??43' –? Aquarius
Uranus 10??35' –? Capricorn
Neptune 14??37' –? Capricorn
Pluto 17??35' Scorpio
Chiron 2??56' Leo
Ceres 1??44' Scorpio
Pallas 3??21' Libra
Juno 21??13' –? Capricorn
Vesta 1??17' Leo
Node 18??48' Capricorn
Lilith 0??47' –? Aquarius
Fortune 14??47' Virgo
AS 1??47' Scorpio
MC 6??04' Leo

Co-worker's chart (known time of birth):

Sun 14??19' Libra
Moon 25??21' Aquarius
Mercury 29??52' Libra
Venus 14??54' Scorpio
Mars 13??09' Cancer
Jupiter 29??19' Virgo
Saturn 11??53' –? Aquarius
Uranus 14??08' Capricorn
Neptune 16??12' Capricorn
Pluto 21??24' Scorpio
Chiron 21??47' Leo
Ceres 28??18' Capricorn
Pallas 27??43' Sagittarius
Juno 8??36' Cancer
Vesta 13??57' Scorpio
Node 24??28' –? Sagittarius
Lilith 24??10' Aquarius
Fortune 23??08' Aries
AS 4??10' Virgo
MC 1??40' Gemini

My chart (unknown time of birth):
Sun 1??37' Taurus
Moon 28??40' Aries
Mercury 8??54' Aries
Venus 3??45' –? Aries
Mars 27??05' Cancer
Jupiter 7??05' –? Libra
Saturn 28??24' Aquarius
Uranus 22??11' Capricorn
Neptune 21??09' Capricorn
Pluto 24??46' –? Scorpio
Chiron 18??36' Leo
Ceres 3??28' Aries
Pallas 2??11' Pisces
Juno 20??58' Cancer
Vesta 25??02' Aquarius
Node 12??44' –? Sagittarius
Lilith 21??05' Pisces
Fortune 6??10' Leo
AS 9??06' Leo
MC 26??34' Aries

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@Heartsss
13 Years

Posted by ninjafish
On a glance, the co-worker's chart. But don't let that hold you back. My leo and I have a ton of difficult aspects.

I don't fully understand these charts, but how did you determine my co-worker would be a better match?

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@ninjamu
17 Years1,000+ PostsLeo

I would have to agree with the co-worker's chart being more compatible by just looking the chart given (there's a LOT more to it than just planetary aspects). Co-worker's sun makes a tight sextile to Leo's sun, their moons make a pretty tight trine, her venus and his mars are also a close sextile.

Don't worry. Too much "harmonizing" often make for platonic friendships. It's actually good to have a little bit of tension from challenging aspects.

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@Heartsss
13 Years

Posted by ninjamu
I would have to agree with the co-worker's chart being more compatible by just looking the chart given (there's a LOT more to it than just planetary aspects). Co-worker's sun makes a tight sextile to Leo's sun, their moons make a pretty tight trine, her venus and his mars are also a close sextile.

Don't worry. Too much "harmonizing" often make for platonic friendships. It's actually good to have a little bit of tension from challenging aspects.

So you think I could still be a good match for him also?

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@R1g0rM0rT1s
14 Years1,000+ Posts

surely the question should be is HE a good match for YOU?!?!?!?!

i don't get this competitive business at all. to actually do a chart on someone else in the running indicates you have some insecurities going on here.

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@Nala13
14 Years1,000+ PostsLeo

Posted by R1g0rM0rT1s
surely the question should be is HE a good match for YOU?!?!?!?!

i don't get this competitive business at all. to actually do a chart on someone else in the running indicates you have some insecurities going on here.

+1000000000 Sigh

Your next question is going to be how do I get him to stop working at his job so he won't be near the co-worker. Heaven help us all.

this is exactly what I was trying to say with the "help me steal the Leo thread" the other day. The thread now has 121 replies. Really?

Rig is absolutely right. If you are worried about this co-worker enough to post her chart here in the hopes that someone will tell you that your chart beats out hers then I implore you to step back and look at this .

What exactly would you need to hear from a group of E-buddies? It sounds and is ridiculous and futhermore, you do not have the confidence that you will need to sustain a realationship with a Leo man. He will run right over and through you, Aries placements and all. If you want the truth, her chart is more compatiable with his. So what? Now what? Who gives a what?

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@Heartsss
13 Years

Posted by R1g0rM0rT1s
surely the question should be is HE a good match for YOU?!?!?!?!

i don't get this competitive business at all. to actually do a chart on someone else in the running indicates you have some insecurities going on here.

Before you cast judgement, you should have asked the circumstances on the question. My co-worker has been friends with this guy for a long time and I think they have a great relationship that could be more. BUT she insists on trying to hook me up with him. No insecurities, just wanted evidence that she should be the one trying to pursue a relationship with him and not me. THANK YOU

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@Heartsss
13 Years

AND if you notice My co-worker volunteered her birth date and her exact time of birth. She knows that I did this.

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@Heartsss
13 Years

Posted by Nala13

Posted by R1g0rM0rT1s
surely the question should be is HE a good match for YOU?!?!?!?!

i don't get this competitive business at all. to actually do a chart on someone else in the running indicates you have some insecurities going on here.

+1000000000 Sigh

Your next question is going to be how do I get him to stop working at his job so he won't be near the co-worker. Heaven help us all.

this is exactly what I was trying to say with the "help me steal the Leo thread" the other day. The thread now has 121 replies. Really?

Rig is absolutely right. If you are worried about this co-worker enough to post her chart here in the hopes that someone will tell you that your chart beats out hers then I implore you to step back and look at this .

What exactly would you need to hear from a group of E-buddies? It sounds and is ridiculous and futhermore, you do not have the confidence that you will need to sustain a realationship with a Leo man. He will run right over and through you, Aries placements and all. If you want the truth, her chart is more compatiable with his. So what? Now what? Who gives a what?

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Before you cast judgement, you should have asked the circumstances on the question. My co-worker has been friends with this guy for a long time and I think they have a great relationship that could be more. BUT she insists on trying to hook me up with him. No insecurities, just wanted evidence that she should be the one trying to pursue a relationship with him and not me. THANK YOU

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@Nala13
14 Years1,000+ PostsLeo

You are right

I should have asked how long has your co-worker known this Leo man? What do you think about their relationship? Does she think you should date him? OK I will remember to ask those questions the very next time someone asks a question about his and her and her chart compatibility.

You came here and posted. I don't have to ask anything. You provided the details whether full or not. You asked which chart was compatible. We answered. So again, what is it you want to hear?

So this said evidence you seek is a bunch of E-OPINIONS? My darling, you have the definition of evidence confused. Evidence; verb- that which tends to prove or disprove something.

If she doesn't like him what could WE possibly say that YOU will relay to HER that makes any difference?

This even sounded strange typing it letting alone doing it.

"Hey friend, the Leo people on DXP said your chart is more compatible with the Leo therefore, you should pursue him and not me."

You really wanted to hear that your chart was THE chart. Otherwise, you would have simply posted your friends chart and the Leo chart and asked about compatiblity. If you are not interested in him , as you claim why would you insert your chart into the equation?

So you get mad at us because your motives are transparent.

Ok, I'm going all Virgo...back away from the computer slowly.

Just to put the final nail in the proverbial coffin and because I have a Scorpio Moon and sometimes I feel like whipping it out.

What exactly, would you have said to this co-woker/friend had we said your chart was more compatible? Because you don't want him remember.

Girl Bye

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@celticlioness
16 Years1,000+ Posts

Posted by Nala13
Right back at you babe.

I try no to unsheath too often but homegirl was asking for it.

+1, doesn't it piss you off when people just don't get that we see the entire big picture for exactly what it is, before the eyelid has even completed the entirety of the blink

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@Nala13
14 Years1,000+ PostsLeo

Yea that mess was so see through. Just keep it real we don't care. You come in here with this looped story that doesn't make a lick of sense and want some advice.

Sometimes, I wish we had a guard at the Leo gate.

I really would like to know what these Leo men are out here doing to drive these women nuts.

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@R1g0rM0rT1s
14 Years1,000+ Posts

there's something about leo men that sucks you in so deeply that you are never truly free of them again. they have a certain je ne said quoi which is very appealing. they're usually full of themselves too which drives the women nuts in particular. not for the faint hearted...but then neither is scorpio 😛