Why would he do that if he cared so much?

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tokyodiamond21
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Well my leo broke up with me but I found out through our friend that he's sleeping with some chick. Make it so bad, he broke up with me thursday and slept with her friday and still is sleeping with her. Also from wat others tell me and for wat I saw myself she's not even his type, she's ugly. Its crazy b/c for the whole week after we broke up we still talked to each other and I figured maybe he just need space. But when I found out about the gurl, I told him I was disgusted with wat he did and that he's embrassing me in front of the whole base by flaunting some ugly skank around. He didnt get mad he tried to say that its not that serious between them. I told him to stay away from me, dont talk to me, dont even look at me. And I hung up. My homegurl called me the next day talkin about he went up to her mad talkin about he need to stay out of business. I guess I wasn't supposed to know about that chick. But it hurts alot b/c I thought we was so good for each other, he even told me he loved me before. So why would we do that if he cared so much? He didnt waste anytime at all? Now 3-4 days later, he emailed me asking how me and the baby doing, I didnt email him back.
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tiki33
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Typical immature leo (:

Focus on your health and on your baby...please

He more than likely felt smothered, leos love there freedom, he fell in love with the idea of love and when things became real he bailed. What do you expect men to do with a woman with a child that isn't his 98% of them will not be around for you, please please please remember that...its time to be mature for yourself and for your child, use better discretion when picking a man because now its not just about you, its about you and the little one,so all your decisions should be in the interest of that.

Your leo made a choice to move on, yeah he could have done it in a better way but he didn't. He clearly cares for your well being or he wouldn't have even tried to contact you, I hear when a leo disappears, they disappear, so him making the initiative to stay in contact means he isn't a total ass.

Forgive him at some point and move on with your life, for gods sake be happy!! You have a wonderful little life inside of you that is about to be born.

Forget analyzing his behavior, you will be doing that all day long, make peace with his decision to not be in your life and move on.

fyi...kill him with kindness...stop reacting to his BS, he might jus have a change of heart when he realizes he left a beautiful woman, don't give him the satisfaction of seeing you stressed over his BS.

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krobe03
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yes, i agree w/tiki33: as you are young (20s), i imagine he is as well. in general, the boys take a while to mature. astrologically speaking, it's no different, and the fire boys will be immature. he definitely is craving his freedom, and perhaps he was not ready to be a father. it's better that he came to terms with that now than be a major figure in a child's life and then want to walk away.

and then you have the child's emotions to explain that to.

Yeah, krobe, I agree with both of them...U R young and oh beauty is only skin deep... Remember, that a woman can be the ugliest thing on this earth....It is not about how see looks.....It is about how she acts....Stop judging.U will be OK
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tokyodiamond21
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As for the remark about judging, anywoman is ugly to me when you know a man is taken and you end up sleeping with him anyway. So.......yea. But for the rest of the advice thank you, your right. I need to focus on me and mine right now. I guess Im just hurt b/c I was fallin in love with him and he just up and left. And its not like I didnt tell him about me being pregnant so I felt he knew heads first wat he was gettin himself into. But I do understand that he just might not be ready. So shit happens.