Will a Leo man come back after the break up?

My Leo man and I were really head over heels in loge with each other. He said he had a crush on me since high school. He was very sure that I am the girl for him he even told his parents, friends, colleagues and everyone in our hometown knows about us. He was the sweetest, most loving, generous, kind hearted man ever. We already had a plan on when we will get married. He introduced me as his other half one time he brought me to his church- he's a Christian. So things we're really perfect. Even on monthsaries he will surprise me with gifts, flowers and cake. He's the man that every woman would want I never demanded anything because he will give it even before I asked. Things turned sour and he changed so we started to fight. Then the unexpected news came- I was pregnant. We both weren't ready so we argued and I said hurtful things I insulted him and I broke up with him. He was hurt I know. I was so hurt too I felt he abandoned me. He said he won't but he blamed me. We didn't contact each other for a week and then I was bleeding so I found out I had an ectopic pregnancy. I called him and he came to me he was there throughout my operation. I was thankful for him that he didn't leave me during those times but he was distant and cold. I told him I want us to work out our relationship. I told him I was sorry for breaking up with him it was Just because I was really hurt and depressed. But he said he loves me still but didn't want a relationship as of now. He has a lot of problems soon he will become jobless coz their company will close. So I agreed. We still communicate but I was a mess coz I miss the way we were especially the way he cares and loves me so I sent him a long email. He did not respond and it's almost a month now. I called him I asked how he was and he sounded okay. He said he can't be in a relationship with me because he was hurt and humiliated. He did not expect I told my friends and his family about what happened to us and he hates that. I know it is over. But I just can't get him out of my mind. Our relationship was once perfect even we have a little fight before. He was my true love. I don't know if I could get over him. I can feel he's moved on and here I am, depressed about the loss of my baby and the love of my life. Should I hold on to his words that may be someday when the time is right and everything is okay we will be back at each other's arms? If I call he would still answer but I stopped calling him. Our family especially on his side were very sad they are expecting we will get married. I am really depressed and sad.

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If he had a crush on you for a long time, then there is hope. Try to find the weak spot in him. As a Leo man, i can get pulled in easily based on the circumstances. Do not play games but try to find the stop to get him to lower the big walls he built. The losing of his job must be on his mind as well. I am sure he is down in the dumps. You can pull him back...

ofcourse the loss of his job is a hard thing but he should be thankful that you lived through your operation! This is life or death matter .. losing a job is stressful okay but losing your life is an end. How come he does not see this? I'm sorry you had to go through this and I hope you recover well.

Just let me tell you people could be perfect when things are going smooth, but their true colors will only show during "hard times" this is the true test. And really I would be glad I found out his true character before it is too late. You will miss him though, but you will love yourself more.

P.S. you did not get pregnant on your own

@Empathetic_bull I just noticed we are both taurus.. we do hold on bec. we are that loyal. I've been with a leo for over a year knowing we are not right for eachother.. we are that stubborn