I know these two signs are compatible, but not without its challenges.
Leo = natural leader (fixed) Libra = leadership (cardinal)
QUESTION: Will he return? What are the chances he'll change his mind? Will he make a move, and if not, shall I?
We met online Jan 29, 2014. Common interests, age, goals, etc. compatible. He: looking for woman who is financially okay and not needy (I said, I was stable, but not rich). I: looking for man same age, fit, stable, goals etc. (he said he thought we were a good match). We: Texted, face-timed and spoke on phone (everyday) for 3 weeks before meeting. Friended each other on FB. Our first meet was a 5 day window of time Feb. 19-23, 2014. We had Instant chemistry upon meeting.
Day 1-3, we had fun,.. wined, dined, movies, music etc., no sex, only petting. At end of day 3, I shared more about my *financial situation (stable, but a few things to clear up).
Day 4, he was more distant, less affectionate, not as happy. It FELT like a bit of a struggle to get his agreement on things to do,.. but we managed to get through the day with some enjoyment. As the day progressed (and not knowing what was up?) I slowly felt frustrated. He was picking up on this, but we never talked about it.
Resolved to make the evening a good time, I made dinner and included him in the prep,.. we had a great meal! It flowed. Later,.. all the pent up frustration, oddly enough, burst out of me upon a simple criticism he made, (while we we getting intimate). I said, "This will never work, it's not going to work between us!"
.. things cooled relatively quickly, I apologized and we talked,.. He explained he was processing (*) from previous night, hence distance throughout day.
Later (we made out) but I think was a big mistake! It was great, but way too soon (possibly the demise of the relationship?)
Day 5, things flowed nicely, lots of talking, small affections. He asked a lot of questions about me, my house, needed repairs, etc. We had a nice brunch together. I drove him to the airport. He gave me a small kiss, hug goodbye (no other words). Texted me from the plane and thanked me for everything. I responded but very briefly. He inquired, "Whats up?" I told him, "I feel a little disappointed,.. no planned next meets?" He said, "It was good, but I just doesn't know why it didn't quite flow."
Next day, I sent a brief text as to why I think it did not 'quite flow'. I also briefly apologized for my part
I agree with JBG and NickyNoo... he said it himself things didn't flow... no point in forcing it. Making out was not the bad thing... from everything you wrote you seem a bit needy to me and if I can see it I'm sure he did too. Guys don't like clingy. Move on. You pursuing it further will only solidify that "clingy" aspect of you in his mind.
There are plenty of fishes in the sea.
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Leo = natural leader (fixed)
Libra = leadership (cardinal)
QUESTION: Will he return? What are the chances he'll change his mind? Will he make a move, and if not, shall I?
We met online Jan 29, 2014.
Common interests, age, goals, etc. compatible.
He: looking for woman who is financially okay and not needy (I said, I was stable, but not rich).
I: looking for man same age, fit, stable, goals etc. (he said he thought we were a good match).
We: Texted, face-timed and spoke on phone (everyday) for 3 weeks before meeting.
Friended each other on FB.
Our first meet was a 5 day window of time Feb. 19-23, 2014.
We had Instant chemistry upon meeting.
Day 1-3, we had fun,.. wined, dined, movies, music etc., no sex, only petting.
At end of day 3, I shared more about my *financial situation (stable, but a few things to clear up).
Day 4, he was more distant, less affectionate, not as happy.
It FELT like a bit of a struggle to get his agreement on things to do,.. but we managed to get through the day with some enjoyment.
As the day progressed (and not knowing what was up?) I slowly felt frustrated. He was picking up on this, but we never talked about it.
Resolved to make the evening a good time, I made dinner and included him in the prep,.. we had a great meal! It flowed.
Later,.. all the pent up frustration, oddly enough, burst out of me upon a simple criticism he made, (while we we getting intimate).
I said, "This will never work, it's not going to work between us!"
.. things cooled relatively quickly, I apologized and we talked,..
He explained he was processing (*) from previous night, hence distance throughout day.
Later (we made out) but I think was a big mistake! It was great, but way too soon (possibly the demise of the relationship?)
Day 5, things flowed nicely, lots of talking, small affections.
He asked a lot of questions about me, my house, needed repairs, etc.
We had a nice brunch together.
I drove him to the airport.
He gave me a small kiss, hug goodbye (no other words).
Texted me from the plane and thanked me for everything.
I responded but very briefly.
He inquired, "Whats up?"
I told him, "I feel a little disappointed,.. no planned next meets?"
He said, "It was good, but I just doesn't know why it didn't quite flow."
Next day, I sent a brief text as to why I think it did not 'quite flow'.
I also briefly apologized for my part