Will Leo woman be jealous of me?

I have a long distance Aquarius guy friend, he is going to visit me soon with his Leo gf and a couple of other friends. I've never met his gf before, they are in a long distance relationship for almost a year. Last time, this guy friend visited me and stayed at my place for 2 days, his gf posted some random comment in his social media account, where she rarely comments on his page. My friend wrote a group email about the visiting schedule and introduced me in the email, she never responded anything. I'm a bit worried there might be possible tension between me and her. I've experienced jealous gf of other guy friends, and it's ugly. Are Leo women super jealous? Are they very territorial, or double faced, like she will pretend to like me in front of her bf and secret bad mouth me behind to other people? I'd rather not be hated by people I don't even know. I'm a Sag.

Leos are very territorial, but she may be silent because she doesn't know you yet. If there's no rapport, then it's safe to say she's holding back at the moment.

Also try to see her point of view. She's meeting you (the Aqua's long time female friend) for the first time through her boyfriend who she's in a long distance relationship with at the moment. She may or may not personally feel secure in her current relationship, which clearly has nothing to do with you. So meeting her boyfriend's long time female friend may be tricky if she doesn't feel like she's getting the right attention in her current relationship.

Also did you ever hook up or have something more with this Aqua guy? If not, it could just be the Leo woman is either being observant or possibly a bit insecure. Again this has nothing to do with you really.

Doubtful.

If he's staying with you, while on vacation with

her... then she won't stick around.

Because that would be stupid.



But he's dating her, not you-- soo...

She'll probably assume you've been in love with

him the whole time (as I also assume), and you

may get some extra pity/love from her since it

clearly hasn't been reciprocated (poor thing).

Makes us all warm and fuzzy to be generous

like that.. 🙂

Posted by Chuckcem
Leos are very territorial, but she may be silent because she doesn't know you yet. If there's no rapport, then it's safe to say she's holding back at the moment.

Also try to see her point of view. She's meeting you (the Aqua's long time female friend) for the first time through her boyfriend who she's in a long distance relationship with at the moment. She may or may not personally feel secure in her current relationship, which clearly has nothing to do with you. So meeting her boyfriend's long time female friend may be tricky if she doesn't feel like she's getting the right attention in her current relationship.

Also did you ever hook up or have something more with this Aqua guy? If not, it could just be the Leo woman is either being observant or possibly a bit insecure. Again this has nothing to do with you really.

That makes sense, but I did ask my friend when he visited if she knew he came. He said yes, and saying she is not the jealousy type. But they only dated for no more than a year, I doubt he would know for sure. I don't know, I don't know her, just asking here for different perspective, so I can be prepared for good or bad.

To answer your question, we are platonic friends, he stayed overnight in my living room, nothing cross friend zone. We live in different cities, so it's natural to stay over when visiting each other.

Honestly, I don't really care about what she thinks about me, I just care my friendship enough to avoid any conflicts.

Posted by Astrology101
I wouldn't date someone who is hung up on a friend... when he has a gf. I mean if he is friends it's cool but I don't do the whole he's friends with her so he'll give her priority over me.

If there is too much confusion... I don't get into it.

Yes, it's a friend thing. I know him before this gf. Confusion or not, it's all up to each person's interpretation, I don't know what she thinks yet.

Posted by Montgomery
Doubtful.

If he's staying with you, while on vacation with

her... then she won't stick around.

Because that would be stupid.



But he's dating her, not you-- soo...

She'll probably assume you've been in love with

him the whole time (as I also assume), and you

may get some extra pity/love from her since it

clearly hasn't been reciprocated (poor thing).

Makes us all warm and fuzzy to be generous

like that.. 🙂

No, he visited me alone before and stayed at my place. This vacation together, they definitely will stay together in a hotel as I don't have large guest bed for them.

That second part sounds super condescending, lol. But I'm a Sag, I don't live by anyone's pity 😉.

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I wouldn't date someone who is hung up on a friend... when he has a gf. I mean if he is friends it's cool but I don't do the whole he's friends with her so he'll give her priority over me.

If there is too much confusion... I don't get into it.

Yes, it's a friend thing. I know him before this gf. Confusion or not, it's all up to each person's interpretation, I don't know what she thinks yet.

If it's just a friend thing... no need to get worried.

It depends on the type of relationship you share with him... that will decide how she interprets it.

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Well, it certainly is a just friend thing. But I actually have only known this guy friend a bit longer than her, almost 1.5 years, and it's long distance, so I'm in the process to get to know the guy too. That's why I'm worried about this meeting up.

We often have intellectual discussions, and he likes texting me a lot. I gradually tune down my part of communication after his relationship gets stable, so it's him initiating most contacts. If I know him longer, I wouldn't tune down anything because it's my friendship, I don't care what others think. But this friendship doesn't have the foundation yet for me to defend it with all my honor.

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I wouldn't date someone who is hung up on a friend... when he has a gf. I mean if he is friends it's cool but I don't do the whole he's friends with her so he'll give her priority over me.

If there is too much confusion... I don't get into it.

Yes, it's a friend thing. I know him before this gf. Confusion or not, it's all up to each person's interpretation, I don't know what she thinks yet.

If it's just a friend thing... no need to get worried.

It depends on the type of relationship you share with him... that will decide how she interprets it.

Well, it certainly is a just friend thing. But I actually have only known this guy friend a bit longer than her, almost 1.5 years, and it's long distance, so I'm in the process to get to know the guy too. That's why I'm worried about this meeting up.

We often have intellectual discussions, and he likes texting me a lot. I gradually tune down my part of communication after his relationship gets stable, so it's him initiating most contacts. If I know him longer, I wouldn't tune down anything because it's my friendship, I don't care what others think. But this friendship doesn't have the foundation yet for me to defend it with all my honor.

So he's just an online friend... who shacked up at your place once.. while visiting. So you don't meet often. However you two share a good bond online?

Is that correct?

So you don't know how he feels for you.. in a way. Also you don't know him well enough or his girlfriend??

Are you sure he has a gf?

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We first met online, then we became friends and discuss our work together often. We are both busy and live in different cities, so yes, we don't meet often. You could say we share a good bond online.

As far as I know, he made it clear there is no romantic things between us before we met in person, so I assume he has no romantic feelings for me.I certainly wouldn't have romantic feeling with someone online when we hadn't met.Now we meet and he is starting to see this girl, I definitely don't want to get involved in that.

Yes, he has a gf, I saw pics of her and he did emailed all of us. I do know him long enough to know he has basic integrity and wouldn't lie about these things, lol. I'm just not sure how much he knows his gf to not get me into trouble. You know, people tend to blame the outsider for their own relationship problems. I don't want to be the scapegoat if the gf feels she doesn't get enough attention. I discussed this with him, he said we shouldn't limit the friendship to the same gender, and I agree, but I'm not sure his gf would be OK with him constantly contacting me. I have been having this struggle for a while, that's why I told him I should meet the girl as soon as possible when he asked me if I want to go out with them when they visit my city.

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Posted by Chuckcem
Leos are very territorial, but she may be silent because she doesn't know you yet. If there's no rapport, then it's safe to say she's holding back at the moment.

Also try to see her point of view. She's meeting you (the Aqua's long time female friend) for the first time through her boyfriend who she's in a long distance relationship with at the moment. She may or may not personally feel secure in her current relationship, which clearly has nothing to do with you. So meeting her boyfriend's long time female friend may be tricky if she doesn't feel like she's getting the right attention in her current relationship.

Also did you ever hook up or have something more with this Aqua guy? If not, it could just be the Leo woman is either being observant or possibly a bit insecure. Again this has nothing to do with you really.

That makes sense, but I did ask my friend when he visited if she knew he came. He said yes, and saying she is not the jealousy type. But they only dated for no more than a year, I doubt he would know for sure. I don't know, I don't know her, just asking here for different perspective, so I can be prepared for good or bad.

To answer your question, we are platonic friends, he stayed overnight in my living room, nothing cross friend zone. We live in different cities, so it's natural to stay over when visiting each other.

Honestly, I don't really care about what she thinks about me, I just care my friendship enough to avoid any conflicts.

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It's probably fine in that case.

I smell chaos bound to happen.

Well if you want to meet up with her.. do so. I'd feel weird if my boyfriend's online friend wanted to meet me. I'd think you want to spill some secrets about him or trying to act territorial considering... you aren't even close. Or that you barely know him.

*shrugs*

I'd expect this sort of behavior from someone who has been his friend from childhood.

Why would an online friend have to meet me... when the said two people don't even know each other that well?

Sounds mighty confrontational. I'd prolly back off from meeting the person.

Hmm, your point sound valid. I never thought about that, I was just thinking involving his gf in our friendship will make her not feeling left out or suspicious, that's how my friendship with other couples goes, I always reach out to the girls even though I have more common to talk with their guys. For the friendship that I built up with guys when they don't introduce me to their gfs/wifes, it never goes well. I might think too much, he is more persistence with our friendship, while I'm on the fence, ready to give up if anything gets complicated.

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I smell chaos bound to happen.

I hope not...I'll hold you countable if any chaos happens, lol

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I smell chaos bound to happen.

I hope not...I'll hold you countable if any chaos happens, lol

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Haha let's hope so.

But aquas aren't really bright with these kind of things plus he got lioness on his side ?

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I smell chaos bound to happen.

I hope not...I'll hold you countable if any chaos happens, lol

Haha let's hope so.

But aquas aren't really bright with these kind of things plus he got lioness on his side ?

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Well, I'm not sure he is not bright or just play dumb to get the attention he wants 😉

Elaborate your plus point that he got lioness on his side, what does that mean?

Posted by Astrology101

I'm not sure. If he seems hesitant to let his gf meet up with you... that is a red flag. But if he is okay about it... I guess it should be okay to meet up in a casual surrounding.

Thank you! I think he didn't hesitant, he just asked me if I want to meet his friends. And I took the chance to set the boundaries, lol. It seems he is sensitive about it at one moment, and callous the next.

I'll see how the meeting up go!

Did you smash this guy... Because honestly why are you even concerned as to what she think... She is his queen ...Queen don't come off their throne IJS... I'm a Leo... And my bews female friends aren't a factor ... This seems odd as hell ... I'm a Leo sun and rising ... And I can tell you right now... This meet up wouldn't even happen in my book... Nerp and the scheming or fishing behind the scenes about how she feels... Suspect ... Your leaving something out of this story... And to answer your question ... No... Long as respect is given it shouldn't be a problem between you guys... Just know your place and understand she is his girlfriend wife or whatever...