happykitsune
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Will this hurt my leo's feelings?
Confused are you asking how to tell your boyfriend you wanna stop fucking him?
Posted by ArticleL
Confused are you asking how to tell your boyfriend you wanna stop fucking him?
yes
Talk to him and tell him you really want to stop because of your religious belief's and bla bla. Tell him it's nothing to do with him but it's something for you and can you slow it down a bit. Rather he listens or not is a whole nother story also on your end stop getting so wet. -.-
Posted by ArticleL
Talk to him and tell him you really want to stop because of your religious belief's and bla bla. Tell him it's nothing to do with him but it's something for you and can you slow it down a bit. Rather he listens or not is a whole nother story also on your end stop getting so wet. -.-
Can't help it, I'm a sag with a mars in scorpio *Sigh*
I kinda figured this is what I'd have to do. I'm not worried about his listening, just worried he'll feel like he's a bad lay and it will affect the way he thinks about me. I really don't want him to associate me with him feeling inadequate. I know how leos get and I know how guys get in general. Something like that will really put him down...so I need a buffer to make it okay or at least soften the blow.
Hmmmm bruised feelings tell him he's not and he made you cum 20,000 times and you love him. Really go in depth on that religion thing don't soften shit. You'll be all right *Grins*
Posted by ArticleL
Hmmmm bruised feelings tell him he's not and he made you cum 20,000 times and you love him. Really go in depth on that religion thing don't soften shit. You'll be all right *Grins*
The religion thing will be easy to explain. He respects that. Hoping his ego wont be too badly hurt tho
Yep was going to say ego decided to use bruised feelings, also what is your religion 0-0
Posted by ArticleL
Yep was going to say ego decided to use bruised feelings, also what is your religion 0-0
Christianity.
Sorry guys, I'm looking for ways to help buffer the blow not going to get into specifics as to why I'm doing this. This is my decision and it's something I need to do, whether he decides to stick with me or not.
If you can help me with that I'd appreciate it otherwise I'm not going to entertain other posts
Posted by happykitsunePosted by ArticleL
Yep was going to say ego decided to use bruised feelings, also what is your religion 0-0
Christianity.
Sorry guys, I'm looking for ways to help buffer the blow not going to get into specifics as to why I'm doing this. This is my decision and it's something I need to do, whether he decides to stick with me or not.
If you can help me with that I'd appreciate it otherwise I'm not going to entertain other postsclick to expand
Oh I see well you know what ya need to do good luck and no sugar coating. -wiggles finger at you-
Oh you're a Sag. Figures. You guys are always out chasing new ideas and "broadening your horizons" when in fact you are just being pretentious. Stop this religion nonsense, there's enough of it in the world as it is! Do you really think some God wants to come between you and your boyfriend's "happy time" — Jesus says sex is A-Ok! Sorry but religious motives -esepcially the ones of sexual nature - annoy the hell out of me.
Posted by Nights22Posted by FireDragonScorpio
anyhow, as far as the OP goes, you should just dump him. that would be kindest.
I agree. Mostly tho because if I recall right she was dating and/or fucking two dramatic scorps earlier this year but now with a leo who she is supposedly happy with she wants to stop fucking for "religious reasons". Quite the bitch move.click to expand
Really? And then there's the 'friend' who's trying to take her away yet she doesn't see it like that.
Get a principle and stick with it from beginning to end or else you will have no credit to those who matter to you. Personally, I think you're really not into the Leo and that's the reason for your religious revelation. Let him go and start anew with someone else.
Not wanting to copulate is perhaps something you should decide before and not during the act. That's how blue balling occurs after all. xD
In regards to being torn between your religion and natural urges, I don't know what to tell you. It's completely okay to have these feelings and to act on them responsibility. If something you also believe in conflicts with ego drives then perhaps you should consider what you believe and what's more important to you. Sex is usually important to Leos, but if he is also as religious as you he could understand your plight and back off.
In regards to being torn between your religion and natural urges, I don't know what to tell you. It's completely okay to have these feelings and to act on them responsibility. If something you also believe in conflicts with ego drives then perhaps you should consider what you believe and what's more important to you. Sex is usually important to Leos, but if he is also as religious as you he could understand your plight and back off.
Posted by happykitsunePosted by ArticleL
Yep was going to say ego decided to use bruised feelings, also what is your religion 0-0
Christianity.
Sorry guys, I'm looking for ways to help buffer the blow not going to get into specifics as to why I'm doing this. This is my decision and it's something I need to do, whether he decides to stick with me or not.
If you can help me with that I'd appreciate it otherwise I'm not going to entertain other postsclick to expand
Christianity?
I think I know exactly what is bothering you.
Posted by MrFirebirdPosted by happykitsunePosted by ArticleL
Yep was going to say ego decided to use bruised feelings, also what is your religion 0-0
Christianity.
Sorry guys, I'm looking for ways to help buffer the blow not going to get into specifics as to why I'm doing this. This is my decision and it's something I need to do, whether he decides to stick with me or not.
If you can help me with that I'd appreciate it otherwise I'm not going to entertain other posts
Christianity?
I think I know exactly what is bothering you.
Buddy,please abstain from entertaining such thoughts .I beg of you 😄
Posted by hiplove79
Seriously?
Look there is no way to tell him this without hurting his feelings. Just tell him and be direct about it.
Don't worry about him, he's a Leo. Once he nurses his wounds and restores his pride, he'll bounce back...with a new girl on his arm. 😉
I give you 3 months, at the most, before you're back to fucking again. Jesus who?click to expand
Contents in the thread below (in the first page) has the potential to "nullify" yours and all other posters confusion regarding whats really going on ...if the leo reads this,i reckon he'll be over this real quick..Can you roar? 😉
https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/astrology/sagittarean-women-bad-news-2099606/
Posted by hiplove79
I give you 3 months, at the most, before you're back to fucking again. Jesus who?
LOL
sorry, that caught me off guard. it's not like i don't see why you don't want to hurt your guy...however, by mixing desire with faith you've done just that and spun yourself a web...
only you know what your reasons are (for taking your faith more seriously), but if i were him i'd feel a bit like a used condom. of course it will hurt his feelings, pride, ego, the whole shebang.
Posted by everevolvingepithetPosted by Pecheresse
lol eee!
Seriously, it's like....What the hell has he added to his utility belt — 🙂click to expand
The button that launches the rockets 🙂
Wow. Taking the sex away now is just cruel. If no sex was something I knew in the beginning then that's one thing but after we've already started there's no going back. I would leave. I'm not about to commit to someone who is going to withhold sex from me. However, i'm not religious. So if my partner chooses that over me, that sucks, but so be it. It means we don't share the same values and it would be good to cut my losses and move on.
Posted by everevolvingepithetPosted by nimbuePosted by hiplove79
I give you 3 months, at the most, before you're back to fucking again. Jesus who?
LOL
sorry, that caught me off guard. it's not like i don't see why you don't want to hurt your guy...however, by mixing desire with faith you've done just that and spun yourself a web...
only you know what your reasons are (for taking your faith more seriously), but if i were him i'd feel a bit like a used condom. of course it will hurt his feelings, pride, ego, the whole shebang.
If they're in school most people move on quick anyways so I doubt the cat would have too much long lasting damage. The guys just go get the attention etc elsewhere if a girl is willing to hear their tale of sorrow, probably including lazers and rockets like the ones batman just mentioned lolclick to expand
true, i might be getting too 'feminine' with this, lol
Posted by happykitsune
Ok so I'm going to take the risk and stick my neck out to ask something that's been on my mind today.
I really do care about my leo and I love making him happy, sexy time included. But last night I kept thinking about how I shouldn't be doing this. I have conflicting feelings because of my religion. I think he could sense something was wrong because he kept holding me really close while we were at it, while I was there going as fast as I could, making the whole act just animalistic :/
My problem is I'm not sure how to tell him I can't do this anymore. He's a gentleman, but I know if I tell him I don't want to anymore it will severely hurt him and he'll probably think I don't like doing it with him.
Another thing is I get horny a lot so its hard for ME to just stop.
But if I'm going to do this I'm going to do it when I'm ready to stop and when I can think of a nice way to tell him.
Soooo any suggestions on how to tell him?
Why now? 😐
@ ellybd: Blah blah blah, she's a Sag. This month she's a born-again-Christian, next month she'll join the Amish and the month after that she'll decide she wants to live in a hippie commune... Sags are obsessed with ideas; they are the first ones to enter a cult but also the first ones to leave, looking for something else. I could never take a Sag seriousely, they have too many goals in life yet they lack any real direction because they constantly change their minds.
Posted by ellybd
@enfant, it's hard for me to take leo's seriously, mostly because theiir ego plus my ego don't fit in the same room. 😛 whatever the sag chooses to do is up to her.
Nobody was discussing her right to choose. She asked for our opinions, she got it. Seriousely, why do people always pull the choice-card when they disagree on a forum?
Actually my Leo is mellowed down due to many water placements, so I think you'd really love me if you got to know me. I know I do 😉
Posted by delishhhPosted by happykitsune
Ok so I'm going to take the risk and stick my neck out to ask something that's been on my mind today.
I really do care about my leo and I love making him happy, sexy time included. But last night I kept thinking about how I shouldn't be doing this. I have conflicting feelings because of my religion. I think he could sense something was wrong because he kept holding me really close while we were at it, while I was there going as fast as I could, making the whole act just animalistic :/
My problem is I'm not sure how to tell him I can't do this anymore. He's a gentleman, but I know if I tell him I don't want to anymore it will severely hurt him and he'll probably think I don't like doing it with him.
Another thing is I get horny a lot so its hard for ME to just stop.
But if I'm going to do this I'm going to do it when I'm ready to stop and when I can think of a nice way to tell him.
Soooo any suggestions on how to tell him?
Why now? 😐click to expand
Hey there. Figured I'd make one last post to seal off this thread.
I know, it was wrong of me to end it now. I couldn't take the contradiction anymore tho. I had told myself I wouldn't from the start and broke a promise to myself.
I talked to him about it last weekend and he said he understood and respected my decision. He says he even agrees with it to an extent. He says he's trying to change too (drinking/sex). Whether he will is his deal. I almost dropped talking to him all together. There were rumors going around and perceptions were skewed. Long story short there was a long 3 hr talk. I didn't want to even talk to him anymore, but he kept messaging me 3 days later so I finally responded and I let him know what was up and let him defend himself. I couldn't believe the worry on his voice. I felt like I was in so much control that it just wasn't right. It made him look helpless. He plead with me he just wanted to talk about happy things..I haven't seen him act that way in a long time. It's weird seeing a leo plea for something..
So in the end we are still friends and I'm able to feel better about myself again.
^ Good.
Posted by FireDragonScorpio
you 'let him defend himself'? i don't understand that. what did he do?
Not going to get much into it, but he was suspected of lying. I don't tolerate liars. I gave him a chance to defend his side. Like I said perceptions were skewed and people assume things. He knows I have a right to think he was lying because he lied to me about something similar a few years back. I explained this to him but I also reminded him I understand it's been years since he's lied and that I understand he's grown since then. I allowed him to state his case and based on that I determined he was not lying to me. If he had been defensive in any way there would have been no doubt in my mind he was lying, but he was clear and answered all my questions. I told him I'd contact him when I decided to talk to him again. I'm not mad anymore, but I am very busy and just need to chill away from all this till all my test/projects are out of the way.
Posted by happykitsunePosted by FireDragonScorpio
you 'let him defend himself'? i don't understand that. what did he do?
Not going to get much into it, but he was suspected of lying. I don't tolerate liars. I gave him a chance to defend his side. Like I said perceptions were skewed and people assume things. He knows I have a right to think he was lying because he lied to me about something similar a few years back. I explained this to him but I also reminded him I understand it's been years since he's lied and that I understand he's grown since then. I allowed him to state his case and based on that I determined he was not lying to me. If he had been defensive in any way there would have been no doubt in my mind he was lying, but he was clear and answered all my questions. I told him I'd contact him when I decided to talk to him again. I'm not mad anymore, but I am very busy and just need to chill away from all this till all my test/projects are out of the way.click to expand
I'm curious to know what he lied about? If u don't mind telling me...and I know im the same way with liars, trust is completely broken til the other person proves themselves trustworthy. I just really hope u find ur happiness again happykitsune. no judging u here 🙂
happy, you checked out a long time ago. The friend and now the religion thing was just a front. Sags are all over the place and need a strong hand to lead them. This Leo wasn't up to it.
Quote:
"I determined he was not lying to me. If he had been defensive in any way there would have been no doubt in my mind he was lying, but he was clear and answered all my questions. "
Soooo, the point of bringing up suspecting him lying when it turned out he wasn't is......?
Quote:
"I determined he was not lying to me. If he had been defensive in any way there would have been no doubt in my mind he was lying, but he was clear and answered all my questions. "
Soooo, the point of bringing up suspecting him lying when it turned out he wasn't is......?
Posted by Mistery
happy, you checked out a long time ago. The friend and now the religion thing was just a front. Sags are all over the place and need a strong hand to lead them. This Leo wasn't up to it.
Quote:
"I determined he was not lying to me. If he had been defensive in any way there would have been no doubt in my mind he was lying, but he was clear and answered all my questions. "
Soooo, the point of bringing up suspecting him lying when it turned out he wasn't is......?
If I had checked out a long time ago I wouldn't have gotten into this in the first place and I wouldn't have responded to his messages. The "religion thing" was a slip on my part. Slip on his too as he knows he's not suppose to be doing it either. I will agree with you that sags are all over the place, but when I get into it with him I cut off flirting with other guys. I don't do that for guys unless I really like them.
The point of bring up that he was lying is because evidence was brought to me. Normally I would take something like it with a grain of salt and figure out who is telling the truth, but because of past experiences I decided I wasn't going to just let this slide. I can't go into what it was, but I had a right to suspect and he knows it.
Posted by FireDragonScorpio
i am so confused but i get the impression that this leo can't do right for doing wrong! it's almost like you're looking for a reason to dump him so why not just be honest and get it done so the guy can move on? i don't think you love him cos if you did, you wouldn't have questions that are so fundamental to your relationship, like the religion thing, which i also don't really get.
i'm not sure you know what you want and usually that signals that you don't want what you got.
You need to date a person to dump him. We're not official, we were just spending intimate and sexual time together on a more exclusive level. He's been a friend to me for 6 years and we have a past. When I heard about the lie I was going to not talk to him. Heck, when I told him about not having sex anymore I told him straight up if he doesn't want to talk to me that that's fine, that I needed to respect who I was first and God.
I do love him. I respect him enough to let him have his space, but insisted on knowing what was up. I was even going to give him a while to have space after this discussion, but he texted me today just casually. He really wants to stick by me. You don't know it, but I have been one of his best friends and done all I can for him. This whole thing that happened was me putting my foot down and getting to the bottom of something that mattered. You can say what you want, but in the end he respected me for it and he's stuck by my side.
What I want? I want to be respected and respect him in return. I can't do this unless I respect myself fully and that is what I am doing.
but he insisted*
Posted by FireDragonScorpio
respect, blah!!! how can you respect a wishy washy christian??
he may stick by you now and even in the future but he is a maaaaaaaan and they need sex. fact.
perhaps he'll do what other "religious" people do and have a santimoniuos relationship on public view while they trawl sex sites and use women for sex on the sly.
i dunno. you meet him. have a sexual relationship with him and then suddenly out yourself as a committed christian—?
go the whole hog and be a nun or perhaps you can have an op to restore your hymen. i'm sure god will never know.
If he chooses to stick by me that's his choice. He seems to value our friendship which I didn't think he did because he told me he didn't care to chase me down if I stopped talking to him (this is what he said when I told him maybe we shouldn't talk anymore because of the whole sex thing). But apparently he does want to stick around. Proves you can't trust words cus people's behaviors reflect how they really feel. I'm glad he did decide to get a hold of me because if he had been serious about not caring I would have just stopped talking to him because that's not a true friend.
If he decides he needs sex then that's his deal. He will run his life how he wants and I will run mine how I want. Like I said, we're just friends at this point.
Posted by FireDragonScorpio
you know what happykitsune? i owe you an apology big time. i was in the foulest mood yesterday and full of my own opinion and i regret some of the things i said to you. i am honest about how i feel but it comes over as rude when i've got a cob on and i'm sorry.
it sounds like your situation has reached a good resolution and you can move forward as friends from this point.
please don't let yourself down by entering into another sexual relationship though. you've chosen to put your god first now and you have to stay true to that choice all the time your faith is strong 🙂
Thanks, I don't take too much personal on here. I do appreciate everyones side, but in the end I guess everyone makes their own choice. I'm hoping I will stick with this choice. So far so good and I feel better about myself. I've been to therapy for this sort of thing...I swear I have too much testosterone or something cus I get horny all the time which doesn't help my cause. At this point being busy with school and my future career should keep me out of sexual predicaments tho.
Anywho appreciate the apology. We need more mature people like you on these boards.
^ That fox is fucking nice.
Tell him,
"It's not you, it's me."
That usually works.
"It's not you, it's me."
That usually works.
Posted by hiplove79Posted by ArticleL
^ That fox is fucking nice.
Thank you for your compliment on MY avatar. I, ME, choose that avatar because, it's how I, see MYSELF. A cute and fluffy terror. I'm very glad you like MY choice of an avatar.
The fennec fox is pretty cool animal from what I read. I'm seriously considering getting one as pet. If I do, I'll be sure to upload pictures. They are soooo adorable.
How is it possible that so much cuteness can exist in this world?click to expand
Fuck!!! I want one I swear.
I wanted one of those once. They didn't seem very friendly in all the videos I watched tho. Very skittish. But I guess if you're training it to be a killer that works lol
Posted by hiplove79Posted by ArticleLPosted by hiplove79Posted by ArticleL
^ That fox is fucking nice.
Thank you for your compliment on MY avatar. I, ME, choose that avatar because, it's how I, see MYSELF. A cute and fluffy terror. I'm very glad you like MY choice of an avatar.
The fennec fox is pretty cool animal from what I read. I'm seriously considering getting one as pet. If I do, I'll be sure to upload pictures. They are soooo adorable.
How is it possible that so much cuteness can exist in this world?
Fuck!!! I want one I swear.
😄
I think every home should have a fennec fox. It's said they are very dog like in behavior. They can be trained to walk on leashes, play fetch and be litter box trained. Dude! An ridiculously adorable pet who can play fetch and use a litter box? Yes, I sign me up.click to expand
Yeah I've watched Youtube vids of Foxes for ages never seen this one though. It's funny how different they act very wild like it's neat. It's like there dogs but not and I like that I seen a man with a Cougar was that thing was gorgeous some stuff I think I don't want as a pet though 😛
Posted by everevolvingepithetPosted by happykitsune
I wanted one of those once. They didn't seem very friendly in all the videos I watched tho. Very skittish. But I guess if you're training it to be a killer that works lol
I disagree. The youtube videos just add to their awesome.🙂
I bet if you wind them up they charge around really really fast too.click to expand
Muhahahahahahh they look like little energy balls just flying around the livining room.
@Kitsune, What pets do you have so far?
Posted by ArticleLPosted by everevolvingepithetPosted by happykitsune
I wanted one of those once. They didn't seem very friendly in all the videos I watched tho. Very skittish. But I guess if you're training it to be a killer that works lol
I disagree. The youtube videos just add to their awesome.🙂
I bet if you wind them up they charge around really really fast too.
Muhahahahahahh they look like little energy balls just flying around the livining room.
@Kitsune, What pets do you have so far?click to expand
I just have a few dogs, some cats, birds, rats and fish. Used to have more, but we stopped getting so many over the years. What I really want is a belgian or fjord horse. Such sweet, big animals 🙂 I plan on using them for horse therapy
Posted by hiplove79
Yeah I agree. I love exotic pets, but I have my limits. My favorite animal is...the lion. *gasps✨ There's this guy named Kevin Richardson, who owns a bunch of lions and hyenas is South Africa. The videos are so heartwarming. You can clearly see the love and respect these magnificent animals have for him. Though as much as I love lions, I this thing called life and I would like to hang on to it. But 3-4 pounds of high-energy fluff? I can handle that. 😄
But you have to see the love!
click to expand
Nice I like Lions to IMA pass on the fox though I'f I go that route I'd get a Wolf. 😛
Posted by happykitsunePosted by ArticleLPosted by everevolvingepithetPosted by happykitsune
I wanted one of those once. They didn't seem very friendly in all the videos I watched tho. Very skittish. But I guess if you're training it to be a killer that works lol
I disagree. The youtube videos just add to their awesome.🙂
I bet if you wind them up they charge around really really fast too.
Muhahahahahahh they look like little energy balls just flying around the livining room.
@Kitsune, What pets do you have so far?
What I really want is a Belgian or fjord horseclick to expand
Both of them look weird as fuck I want nothing to do with them. -.-
@hiplove, beautiful...
This is one of my favs!!!
This is one of my favs!!!
here is a fuller version...
OMG!!!!!!!!! Foxes! i've wanted a red fox forfuckingever!!!!!
However, they're illegal in Texas. El suck face.
However, they're illegal in Texas. El suck face.
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I really do care about my leo and I love making him happy, sexy time included. But last night I kept thinking about how I shouldn't be doing this. I have conflicting feelings because of my religion. I think he could sense something was wrong because he kept holding me really close while we were at it, while I was there going as fast as I could, making the whole act just animalistic :/
My problem is I'm not sure how to tell him I can't do this anymore. He's a gentleman, but I know if I tell him I don't want to anymore it will severely hurt him and he'll probably think I don't like doing it with him.
Another thing is I get horny a lot so its hard for ME to just stop.
But if I'm going to do this I'm going to do it when I'm ready to stop and when I can think of a nice way to tell him.
Soooo any suggestions on how to tell him?