Mark David
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Wondering what's on her mind... join in all Leo's
You can't really win a Leo. We kinda just choose you and latch on.
I'd be looking elsewhere because she's definitely not into you
I'd be looking elsewhere because she's definitely not into you
Posted by SweetLily_89
Honestly, I think it's best that you start moving forward. 2 1/2 years is a long to be chasing someone who's unresponsive. Even if she had given you bread crumbs here and there, 2 1/2 years would still be an awfully long time for getting very little back in return.
Invest in you. Forget about this Leo for a hot minute, and start focusing on yourself. Focus on growing as an individual. From the sounds of it you need to work on loving yourself a lot more. Let her be. There is no telling what the future holds or whether your "going cold" tactic is actually going to work or not. Even by some off chance it did, you may have to wonder about the motives behind her reappearance.
Get to a place where you are comfortable with yourself, confident in what you have to contribute and forget about the rest. You get to that place and you will have too much self worth to waste your time on something or someone that you will never give back half of what you invest in it.
As of now that's exactly what I'm doing.. school and work and concentrating on myself. I've learned that I must concentrate on myself and that is exactly what I'm doing.
I'm just trying to get advice from you guys to also win her over while I continue to heal and work on myself.
Posted by SsupermanI think I CAN pick and choose as well. Why don't you read our chart... look at it and depending of how good of an astrologer you are; you will see why I am perfect for her. I just feel the stars aren't in our favor at the moment.
You can't really win a Leo. We kinda just choose you and latch on.
I'd be looking elsewhere because she's definitely not into you
Posted by SweetLily_89Yes that's exactly what I've done is given her space it's been 9 days so far and doing my own thing. I just need y'all support in this... it's not easy because we both wanted marriage and kids and a home. But life isn't a straight line... it's a mess.Posted by Mark-23Posted by SweetLily_89
Honestly, I think it's best that you start moving forward. 2 1/2 years is a long to be chasing someone who's unresponsive. Even if she had given you bread crumbs here and there, 2 1/2 years would still be an awfully long time for getting very little back in return.
Invest in you. Forget about this Leo for a hot minute, and start focusing on yourself. Focus on growing as an individual. From the sounds of it you need to work on loving yourself a lot more. Let her be. There is no telling what the future holds or whether your "going cold" tactic is actually going to work or not. Even by some off chance it did, you may have to wonder about the motives behind her reappearance.
Get to a place where you are comfortable with yourself, confident in what you have to contribute and forget about the rest. You get to that place and you will have too much self worth to waste your time on something or someone that you will never give back half of what you invest in it.
As of now that's exactly what I'm doing.. school and work and concentrating on myself. I've learned that I must concentrate on myself and that is exactly what I'm doing.
I'm just trying to get advice from you guys to also win her over while I continue to heal and work on myself.
My advice is to stop trying to win her back. Right now, she doesn't want to be won and she may never want to rekindle things with you. That's her decision to make and something you must accept as a very real possibility. You do you and IF she wants to consider having you back in her life then she will come to you when SHE is ready. You can't force this sort of thing. The more pressure you put on her the more she isn't going to keep distance. As I said before, focus on yourself. It's out of your hands, my friend. The best thing you can do is give her the space that she obviously wants and allow the chips to fall where they may.
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The last thing I need is negativity and trolls...
Posted by SweetLily_89Mark... this is what I have told you before!!
Honestly, I think it's best that you start moving forward. 2 1/2 years is a long to be chasing someone who's unresponsive. Even if she had given you bread crumbs here and there, 2 1/2 years would still be an awfully long time for getting very little back in return.
Invest in you. Forget about this Leo for a hot minute, and start focusing on yourself. Focus on growing as an individual. From the sounds of it you need to work on loving yourself a lot more. Let her be. There is no telling what the future holds or whether your "going cold" tactic is actually going to work or not. Even by some off chance it did, you may have to wonder about the motives behind her reappearance.
Get to a place where you are comfortable with yourself, confident in what you have to contribute and forget about the rest. You get to that place and you will have too much self worth to waste your time on something or someone that you will never give back half of what you invest in it.
I agree 100%
Posted by SweetLily_89Posted by Mark-23You need to let go of the dream. Trust me I've been there and anyone who's seriously been in love knows how devastating it can be to lose someone you saw having it all with, so clearly. This is life. It's got plenty of twist and turns and bumps in the road. You both can still have marriage, a family and a happy ending... It just may not be with each other and that's ok. Understand that. Look at it this way, you've spent 2 1/2 years trying to get her to come back to you to no avail. Time wasted. Leo or not, I hate wasting time. Life's to short for the crap. There is someone out there waiting for you and you're still fixated on a dead end. The past is a nice place to visit, but you can't live there, and I feel it's time that you let her stay where she belongs. In your past. Honor and cherish the memories, take the lessons that can be learned from that relationship and move forward.Posted by SweetLily_89Yes that's exactly what I've done is given her space and doing my own thing. I just need y'all support in this... it's not easy because we both wanted marriage and kids and a home. But life isn't a straight line... it's a mess.Posted by Mark-23Posted by SweetLily_89
Honestly, I think it's best that you start moving forward. 2 1/2 years is a long to be chasing someone who's unresponsive. Even if she had given you bread crumbs here and there, 2 1/2 years would still be an awfully long time for getting very little back in return.
Invest in you. Forget about this Leo for a hot minute, and start focusing on yourself. Focus on growing as an individual. From the sounds of it you need to work on loving yourself a lot more. Let her be. There is no telling what the future holds or whether your "going cold" tactic is actually going to work or not. Even by some off chance it did, you may have to wonder about the motives behind her reappearance.
Get to a place where you are comfortable with yourself, confident in what you have to contribute and forget about the rest. You get to that place and you will have too much self worth to waste your time on something or someone that you will never give back half of what you invest in it.
As of now that's exactly what I'm doing.. school and work and concentrating on myself. I've learned that I must concentrate on myself and that is exactly what I'm doing.
I'm just trying to get advice from you guys to also win her over while I continue to heal and work on myself.
My advice is to stop trying to win her back. Right now, she doesn't want to be won and she may never want to rekindle things with you. That's her decision to make and something you must accept as a very real possibility. You do you and IF she wants to consider having you back in her life then she will come to you when SHE is ready. You can't force this sort of thing. The more pressure you put on her the more she isn't going to keep distance. As I said before, focus on yourself. It's out of your hands, my friend. The best thing you can do is give her the space that she obviously wants and allow the chips to fall where they may.
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Hahahaha no no I haven't been chasing her for 2 1/2 years I think I worded it wrong. We've been together for 1 1/2 years and the past year has been me simply chasing her after shit hit the fan. Not two years that's why I think there is still hope but I need advice because I just stopped chasing her and I started to concentrate and work on myself but the problem is I have like a little to no patience so even while I'm working on myself it's like I want to give her attention but I can't because it will ruin my progress
Posted by indiwomanI think the Leo of the year reward goes to you... thank you indiwoman for being their for me and you too my Gemini dear. I'll keep you both in my hearts for ever because slowly I am gaining my strength and it feels so good I'm not as anxious as I used to be... gonna party my ass off on my birthday tomorrow and I wish you two lasses were there with me. I'll be the Easter bunny with horns!! —?Posted by SweetLily_89Mark... this is what I have told you before!!
Honestly, I think it's best that you start moving forward. 2 1/2 years is a long to be chasing someone who's unresponsive. Even if she had given you bread crumbs here and there, 2 1/2 years would still be an awfully long time for getting very little back in return.
Invest in you. Forget about this Leo for a hot minute, and start focusing on yourself. Focus on growing as an individual. From the sounds of it you need to work on loving yourself a lot more. Let her be. There is no telling what the future holds or whether your "going cold" tactic is actually going to work or not. Even by some off chance it did, you may have to wonder about the motives behind her reappearance.
Get to a place where you are comfortable with yourself, confident in what you have to contribute and forget about the rest. You get to that place and you will have too much self worth to waste your time on something or someone that you will never give back half of what you invest in it.
I agree 100%
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Posted by SweetLily_89There ya go that's the attitude I'm looking for.. hahaha imagine how many marriages and lives we could've saved if we had that kinda attitude.Posted by Mark-23A year is still quite a while to be trying to win someone over that simply isn't giving you the time. As was previously said, give her the space she wants, continue to work on you. I'm not sure what you mean by shit hitting the fan, but if you are displaying the same behaviors that had caused problems before, you will likely be met with silence. If you screwed up, then fine, but no one is going to want to get back with anyone when there is no sign that the problems can or have been resolved. Que in Einstein's definition of Insanity.Posted by SweetLily_89Posted by Mark-23You need to let go of the dream. Trust me I've been there and anyone who's seriously been in love knows how devastating it can be to lose someone you saw having it all with, so clearly. This is life. It's got plenty of twist and turns and bumps in the road. You both can still have marriage, a family and a happy ending... It just may not be with each other and that's ok. Understand that. Look at it this way, you've spent 2 1/2 years trying to get her to come back to you to no avail. Time wasted. Leo or not, I hate wasting time. Life's to short for the crap. There is someone out there waiting for you and you're still fixated on a dead end. The past is a nice place to visit, but you can't live there, and I feel it's time that you let her stay where she belongs. In your past. Honor and cherish the memories, take the lessons that can be learned from that relationship and move forward.Posted by SweetLily_89Yes that's exactly what I've done is given her space and doing my own thing. I just need y'all support in this... it's not easy because we both wanted marriage and kids and a home. But life isn't a straight line... it's a mess.Posted by Mark-23Posted by SweetLily_89
Honestly, I think it's best that you start moving forward. 2 1/2 years is a long to be chasing someone who's unresponsive. Even if she had given you bread crumbs here and there, 2 1/2 years would still be an awfully long time for getting very little back in return.
Invest in you. Forget about this Leo for a hot minute, and start focusing on yourself. Focus on growing as an individual. From the sounds of it you need to work on loving yourself a lot more. Let her be. There is no telling what the future holds or whether your "going cold" tactic is actually going to work or not. Even by some off chance it did, you may have to wonder about the motives behind her reappearance.
Get to a place where you are comfortable with yourself, confident in what you have to contribute and forget about the rest. You get to that place and you will have too much self worth to waste your time on something or someone that you will never give back half of what you invest in it.
As of now that's exactly what I'm doing.. school and work and concentrating on myself. I've learned that I must concentrate on myself and that is exactly what I'm doing.
I'm just trying to get advice from you guys to also win her over while I continue to heal and work on myself.
My advice is to stop trying to win her back. Right now, she doesn't want to be won and she may never want to rekindle things with you. That's her decision to make and something you must accept as a very real possibility. You do you and IF she wants to consider having you back in her life then she will come to you when SHE is ready. You can't force this sort of thing. The more pressure you put on her the more she isn't going to keep distance. As I said before, focus on yourself. It's out of your hands, my friend. The best thing you can do is give her the space that she obviously wants and allow the chips to fall where they may.
Hahahaha no no I haven't been chasing her for 2 1/2 years I think I worded it wrong. We've been together for 1 1/2 years and the past year has been me simply chasing her after shit hit the fan. Not two years that's why I think there is still hope but I need advice because I just stopped chasing her and I started to concentrate and work on myself but the problem is I have like a little to no patience so even while I'm working on myself it's like I want to give her attention but I can't because it will ruin my progress
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Posted by Mark-23I hope you have a wonderful birthday and enjoy yourself seriously !! I mean it.Posted by indiwomanI think the Leo of the year reward goes to you... thank you indiwoman for being their for me and you too my Gemini dear. I'll keep you both in my hearts for ever because slowly I am gaining my strength and it feels so good I'm not as anxious as I used to be... gonna party my ass off on my birthday tomorrow and I wish you two lasses were there with me. I'll be the Easter bunny with horns!! —?Posted by SweetLily_89Mark... this is what I have told you before!!
Honestly, I think it's best that you start moving forward. 2 1/2 years is a long to be chasing someone who's unresponsive. Even if she had given you bread crumbs here and there, 2 1/2 years would still be an awfully long time for getting very little back in return.
Invest in you. Forget about this Leo for a hot minute, and start focusing on yourself. Focus on growing as an individual. From the sounds of it you need to work on loving yourself a lot more. Let her be. There is no telling what the future holds or whether your "going cold" tactic is actually going to work or not. Even by some off chance it did, you may have to wonder about the motives behind her reappearance.
Get to a place where you are comfortable with yourself, confident in what you have to contribute and forget about the rest. You get to that place and you will have too much self worth to waste your time on something or someone that you will never give back half of what you invest in it.
I agree 100%
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Posted by blackmoon^This.
I think you need to find someone else, leos are stubborn..i don't think chasing her will work out in the long-term..wouldn't it be better to have found someone else in that 2 1/2 years time
Posted by indiwomanPosted by Mark-23I hope you have a wonderful birthday and enjoy yourself seriously !! I mean it.Posted by indiwomanI think the Leo of the year reward goes to you... thank you indiwoman for being their for me and you too my Gemini dear. I'll keep you both in my hearts for ever because slowly I am gaining my strength and it feels so good I'm not as anxious as I used to be... gonna party my ass off on my birthday tomorrow and I wish you two lasses were there with me. I'll be the Easter bunny with horns!! —?Posted by SweetLily_89Mark... this is what I have told you before!!
Honestly, I think it's best that you start moving forward. 2 1/2 years is a long to be chasing someone who's unresponsive. Even if she had given you bread crumbs here and there, 2 1/2 years would still be an awfully long time for getting very little back in return.
Invest in you. Forget about this Leo for a hot minute, and start focusing on yourself. Focus on growing as an individual. From the sounds of it you need to work on loving yourself a lot more. Let her be. There is no telling what the future holds or whether your "going cold" tactic is actually going to work or not. Even by some off chance it did, you may have to wonder about the motives behind her reappearance.
Get to a place where you are comfortable with yourself, confident in what you have to contribute and forget about the rest. You get to that place and you will have too much self worth to waste your time on something or someone that you will never give back half of what you invest in it.
I agree 100%
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I will babe!!! ❤️❤️❤️ It's unfortunate I'm not up there or else we would've partied
Posted by Mark-23I don't need to read your chart. Like I said, she's not into you. You can't force a Leo to do a damn thing. She probably senses you're borderline psychotic and is keeping an arms lengthPosted by SsupermanI think I CAN pick and choose as well. Why don't you read our chart... look at it and depending of how good of an astrologer you are; you will see why I am perfect for her. I just feel the stars aren't in our favor at the moment.
You can't really win a Leo. We kinda just choose you and latch on.
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Definitely not for a Leo .... Move on... Leo sun Leo rising here... You show a weakness in you... Leo's love a strong man... But not in this kind of way... You chasing around like a lap dog is not a potential candidate ... We need a king... Not a servant ... Yes we like admiration but do like for you to have some balls about our regal antics and man up... As in showing self respect ... Move on... She is not into you
Posted by Mark-23Posted by SweetLily_89Yes that's exactly what I've done is given her space it's been 9 days so far and doing my own thing. I just need y'all support in this... it's not easy because we both wanted marriage and kids and a home. But life isn't a straight line... it's a mess.Posted by Mark-23Posted by SweetLily_89
Honestly, I think it's best that you start moving forward. 2 1/2 years is a long to be chasing someone who's unresponsive. Even if she had given you bread crumbs here and there, 2 1/2 years would still be an awfully long time for getting very little back in return.
Invest in you. Forget about this Leo for a hot minute, and start focusing on yourself. Focus on growing as an individual. From the sounds of it you need to work on loving yourself a lot more. Let her be. There is no telling what the future holds or whether your "going cold" tactic is actually going to work or not. Even by some off chance it did, you may have to wonder about the motives behind her reappearance.
Get to a place where you are comfortable with yourself, confident in what you have to contribute and forget about the rest. You get to that place and you will have too much self worth to waste your time on something or someone that you will never give back half of what you invest in it.
As of now that's exactly what I'm doing.. school and work and concentrating on myself. I've learned that I must concentrate on myself and that is exactly what I'm doing.
I'm just trying to get advice from you guys to also win her over while I continue to heal and work on myself.
My advice is to stop trying to win her back. Right now, she doesn't want to be won and she may never want to rekindle things with you. That's her decision to make and something you must accept as a very real possibility. You do you and IF she wants to consider having you back in her life then she will come to you when SHE is ready. You can't force this sort of thing. The more pressure you put on her the more she isn't going to keep distance. As I said before, focus on yourself. It's out of your hands, my friend. The best thing you can do is give her the space that she obviously wants and allow the chips to fall where they may.
The last thing I need is negativity and trolls...
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Were you two ever in an actual relationship?
Sorry I'm a little confused here.
I have..questions. Before I jump to anything.
1. What is the reason you are giving the cold shoulder? Is it to purposefully ignore her? Or do you just want to feel more relaxed?
2. Do you want your relationship to end?
3. How did you tell her?
"Hey..I need a break for about 9 days. I'm doing this for me babe, I feel like I need to breathe."
OR
"Hey, I can't talk to you. I'm going to have to ignore you for about 2 weeks. Goodbye."
Everyone's here saying she's not into you...when she's in a relationship with you. lol
Plus I doubt she was the one saying "I want you to chase me 24/7."
I noticed guys chasing people then blaming the woman when they get burnt out.
She may have gotten tired of "door matt" behavior,
but that doesn't mean she doesn't love you.
Also, giving her the cold shoulder may have thrown her off, but that's no reason to manipulate someone either. (I'm not saying you're doing that, but I've seen it before.)
And, just a tip:
you don't have to grovel at someone's feet or tear yourself apart to show someone you love them.
I understand doing that on occasions, but if it's a habit, then..
you'll resent treating yourself badly and most likely blame the partner.
(Again, I only know what I've read. I don't know her or how she acted.)
1. What is the reason you are giving the cold shoulder? Is it to purposefully ignore her? Or do you just want to feel more relaxed?
2. Do you want your relationship to end?
3. How did you tell her?
"Hey..I need a break for about 9 days. I'm doing this for me babe, I feel like I need to breathe."
OR
"Hey, I can't talk to you. I'm going to have to ignore you for about 2 weeks. Goodbye."
Everyone's here saying she's not into you...when she's in a relationship with you. lol
Plus I doubt she was the one saying "I want you to chase me 24/7."
I noticed guys chasing people then blaming the woman when they get burnt out.
She may have gotten tired of "door matt" behavior,
but that doesn't mean she doesn't love you.
Also, giving her the cold shoulder may have thrown her off, but that's no reason to manipulate someone either. (I'm not saying you're doing that, but I've seen it before.)
And, just a tip:
you don't have to grovel at someone's feet or tear yourself apart to show someone you love them.
I understand doing that on occasions, but if it's a habit, then..
you'll resent treating yourself badly and most likely blame the partner.
(Again, I only know what I've read. I don't know her or how she acted.)
Also, I support time to yourself 100% . But I don't support using anything to hurt and manipulate someone.
If you don't mean to hurt her,
and just wanted a break,
then it's all cool.
And if you ever feel like you have to break up, for you have a better life, then don't beat yourself up too much.
If you don't mean to hurt her,
and just wanted a break,
then it's all cool.
And if you ever feel like you have to break up, for you have a better life, then don't beat yourself up too much.
If I'm reading it all correctly I would be done..I think she was done about a year ago.
If I want someone or want to be with someone, believe me, he would know.
If I want someone or want to be with someone, believe me, he would know.
Posted by Mark-23
For the first time ever in 2 1/2 years since I've been here I've gone completely cold at first she started to ignore me and I was calling her and texting her constantly and constantly and they didn't give me anywhere except for making my anxiety worse. Approximately nine days ago last Thursday I told her that I'm done I'm over it I want my way out and for nine days for the first time in my entire life I've completely ignored her and not send her a single text or phone call. I went from chasing her to completely 180•
All you Leo's that I have been following up on my situation what's your take on it and I'd like your insight. I'd like to know what you all think put yourself in a position where a man has been chasing you for 2 1/2 years even when you're ignoring him out right and then all of the sudden he says he wants out and stops calling you and texting you ...
For those of you who do not know I am determined to win her back it's just my anxiety and my impulsiveness has ruined what was left between us because I didn't know how to handle the issues in our relationship neither did I have anybody to talk to.
Leos are complicated. Being a Leo, I can truly say how complicated we can be. On one hand... We want to be chased. We want to be praised and adored and admired and yet all that effort will make you putty in our hands. Someone we feel will always be there will become someone we will never have to rush to commit to.
On the other hand, a Leo hates to be ignored and never wants to feel like we lost anything or anyone who was once ours (in our minds). So we will reach out once we realized you have stopped (can't guareentee when a Leo will realize since there's always 5 more admirers dancing around)
The hard truth is....... A Leo is not shy about who they want. Even when playing hard to get, they still show major interaction, interest and attention. If she has given you no form of this as of late....... It may be a lost cause and you just might have to move on.
I'm torn because if a guy chases me and I'm not interested it REALLY puts me off. I've people who get obsessed for some reason despite my complete lack of interest and in a case like that I'd attempt to avoid them almost at all costs. I wouldn't exchange contact details for the life of me. I'm quite picky with my affection which to be honest, makes my own life difficult
That said.. if I had slight interest in said person - it'd upset me if he suddenly pulled away. But only if I liked him. Those who obsess and I'm completely not into them - I'm happy when they move on. I don't enjoy people being in my way.. unless I have something, anything positive towards them (it doesn't mean romantic though. Could be but not necessarily)
That said.. if I had slight interest in said person - it'd upset me if he suddenly pulled away. But only if I liked him. Those who obsess and I'm completely not into them - I'm happy when they move on. I don't enjoy people being in my way.. unless I have something, anything positive towards them (it doesn't mean romantic though. Could be but not necessarily)
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