My leo is encouraging me to see other people?

This topic was created in the Leo forum by ananthema9018 on Monday, March 27, 2017 and has 7 replies.

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@ananthema9018
9 Years

My leo, who apparently loves me and wanted a future with me till like 15 days ago is now encouraging me to go out with anyone who asks me out.

How do I know if he means it or if this is another one of those "tests"

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@rockyroadicecream
14 Years10,000+ Posts

How is he "yours" if he wants you to see other people?

There are no "tests" you stupid child. Just red flags and bullshit behavior. Desperate hoes use "test" as a way to justify and tolerate such shitty behavior.

Strike that bullshit from your vocabulary immediately.

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@sultrykitty
11 Years5,000+ Posts

Yeah, we don't test.

If Leo is telling you to see other people then their heart's no longer in it. Either you've given enough signals that you aren't worth the effort or the Leo has found someone more interesting who DOES appear more interested.

That doesn't mean you can't change the outcome but we would need much more background to give any advice.

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@Gemitati
11 Years25,000+ Posts

Posted by ananthema9018
My leo, who apparently loves me and wanted a future with me till like 15 days ago is now encouraging me to go out with anyone who asks me out.

How do I know if he means it or if this is another one of those "tests"

That's THE post of the week!!!

And it's just Monday! Isn't it?

People! Stop smoking like its free pot!!!

Oh...it is free isn't it? Well...

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@Chuckcem
15 Years5,000+ Posts

Another Leo here to say it's a huge red flag. We Leos are actually kind souls and we don't like to admit failure. So this may be his way of breaking up with you. If he can make you step out of the relationship first, he won't feel bad about ending things. It's a cowardly thing to do, but that would be my guess without any background information.

Either way, it's not a good sign. Leos are fairly territorial and don't share our significant others. Also if a Leo is "testing" you he either has placements that are prone to paranoia, or he doesn't trust you and is preparing to leave anyway.