Is it hard for Leos to move on?

This topic was created in the Leo forum by Ninnz91 on Wednesday, February 8, 2017 and has 7 replies.

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If we truly care / are in love, yes. We are sensitive down deep and don't like to lose. It's not always a good thing though. At the end of a relationship, an immature Leo will be more upset that they lost you than because they loved you.

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Posted by TerramineLightvoid
Posted by Chuckcem
If we truly care / are in love, yes. We are sensitive down deep and don't like to lose. It's not always a good thing though. At the end of a relationship, an immature Leo will be more upset that they lost you than because they loved you.

I think mature Leo heartbreak has a lot of potential to be really quite tragic actually and that is probably why they can have such a hard time maturing because they intuitively sense how badly they could be fucked over in the grand scheme.

Cause like on the good side of things they love so genuinely and purely. To the point where breaking their heart is like stomping on dandelions and kicking puppies.

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Very true, I guess I should say a not "emotionally responsible" Leo instead of emotionally immature. Young Leos are probably some of the most passionate lovers there are and our heartache can last a long time after a break up.

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Well traditionally fixed signs are slower at moving on so yes I'd agree to an extent..

I have sag moon and gemini venus and I move on very quick.

But I know double fixed people who take years to get over someone.. I feel horrible for them

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Posted by Noni05
They move on eventually like all signs

Also know that just because we appear to have moved on, that pain still stings. You'll know you definitely stung a Leo if we go cold. Sure we move on and we can move on REALLY fast, but it's a coping mechanism.

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For some it is hard especially if they've been in it for a while. You have some that move on physically but not emotionally. They will date new ppl and on the inside be suffering from the lost relationship.

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The answers here surprise me because my answer is "No, it's too easy for me to move on."

If I were the one who left him in a serious relationship - then I definitely have a Strong reason. I give all those people in my life a lot many chances. If they continue to do what they know would upset me, then I Must leave them, right? It's Not selfishness. Remember I said I give a lot many chances in serious relationships?

If he were the one who left me, lol, throwing him out of my mind would be super easy. Self respect first. Call it pride, ego, whatever! If they don't value me, why would I be so foolish to stay with them, or worse, whine over them? Sounds ridiculous!

Not that I have a heart made of steel. Yes, I'd feel such intense pain because when I love, I love deeply. But the intense pain would last for less than a week because I value the present.

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For me yes. I don't like feeling like I had something, but now suddenly I don't anymore. I can easily pretend to get over it and pretend I'm fine, but I'd likely take them back in a second because deep down I still want control over the situation again.