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Advice for affair with libra male
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Hello everyone,
I simply don't know what to do and that's why I write here. I met a libra male online and at some point later we realised that he had been dating a friend of mine at some point before we met. This friend had told me about him (before we met) that he was such a nice, sweet man etc. It was not the case that I asked about him because at this point I didn't expect to meet him at all.
As a cancer lady I usually find it difficult to trust somebody but based on the information I had from my friend I trusted him. He was also extremely sweet in the beginning and reassured me he was looking for something serious. Somehow he managed it to make me feel special. Anyway, we met and there was instant physical attraction between us so I just let it happen for a change (this is normally not what I do as I want a true relationship and don't believe that affairs can lead to that + I really need to have trust in the person I make love with ). Anyway, it happened and I have to admit that I enjoyed it. In fact, we seem to harmonise in this department and I have to say the few affairs that I've had in my life were never enjoyable for me.
After that, he contacted me less but still and we met twice and I enjoyed it too. However, I've noticed that he has two faces, he can ve incredibly sweet and charming but as soon as he gets what he wants he's distant. Well, then he promised to organise and pay for a trip on my birthday (he himself came up with the idea without me pressuring him!). I thought it was a great idea. OK so my birthday approached and I texted him to send me the details for the trip and he pulled off the disappearing act. Needless to say that I was disappointed but I did some reading and obviously this is typical for libra males. I thought well ok it had been nice what we had but time to move on. Then he texted me one day after my birthday this message 'hey, sorry for texting so late but I don't want to miss the chance to send you my birthday wishes. I'd love to kiss you now.' I just replied 'Thank you, but my birthday was yesterday', then he just texted 'then my belated birthday wishes'.
I just don't know how to proceed I enjoyed the little thing we had and I wouldn't mind if it took a bit longer. At the same time this whole incident makes me feel unappreciated and I need the trust somehow. By the way, I also think that there might be some other women present.
Anyway, do you have any thoughts or advice for me? Would you ignore him so that he might be more interested? Would you tell him 'You really disappointed me by doing that...', I really don't have a clue and appreciate all your answers.