So I started out witty & funny with this Scorpio guy now because I realised how much I actually do like him I avoid him at all costs, avoid eye contact etc.
If his behaviour is consistent with me, then no I will be friendly and agreeable. However, if something happens to make me wonder if I can trust him or whether he has true feelings towards me then I can go a bit 'off' and be less friendly. Last time this happened and he walked, I later found out he was married, though he didn't mention it at the time. It may be my Scorpio moon or venus, but I think I sometimes sense when something is not right and react accordingly.
That's me too. Loose all confidence and end up sitting and not saying much at all. My norm is me chattering and holding the conversations and also coming up with a few funnies.
It's disturbing because I think I make them think I don't like them at all because I'm worried about saying the wrong thing or I DO in fact say the wrong thing lol
I use to be that way. I think when I don't really like anybody I just do and say whatever because i have nothing to lose. If he doesn't like me then who cares. Once i start to catch feelings then I'm extra self conscious. I triple think my actions, words, outfit, etc. All of a sudden I turn into this shy little girl. Maybe we're waiting to see a sign from them that they like us too. until then we don't want to show how much we like them i.e. carefully planned out moves. I don't know.
Because I'm aware that I do this I keep it in check and remind myself to be myself but have definitely been a victim of this before.
Just wondering if anyone else gets this way?