Libra rising. Libra sun. Gemini moon. Scorpio venus.
@Libralogic
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Posted by GoldigoldYep I can see the attraction in that sense but even so I still feel like aquas fear of commitment and being "tied" down is strong enough to make me wonder how that could be a good match for libra.
Libras like freedom and adventure too, as long as the commitment is there.

Posted by justagirlI guess I saw those things as one in the same...but thanks for the clarification.
i think you are confussing Sag and Aquarius. Being selective in whom we get close to and have attachment with is not the same as fear of commitment.
Aquas are the detached sign. If we are going to label with a fear, it's of true intimacy and letting people get close.
Sag is known for fear of commitment, has to be free, won't be tied down... etc.

Posted by LibralogicTo some they may be. but ya i see Sags more in your discription tbh.Posted by justagirlI guess I saw those things as one in the same...but thanks for the clarification.
i think you are confussing Sag and Aquarius. Being selective in whom we get close to and have attachment with is not the same as fear of commitment.
Aquas are the detached sign. If we are going to label with a fear, it's of true intimacy and letting people get close.
Sag is known for fear of commitment, has to be free, won't be tied down... etc.
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Posted by GoldigoldWhen do Aquarius ever commit? Lol even if they do some not all but most always have a side piece.Posted by LibralogicYes if an Aquarius is not ready...Posted by GoldigoldYep I can see the attraction in that sense but even so I still feel like aquas fear of commitment and being "tied" down is strong enough to make me wonder how that could be a good match for libra.
Libras like freedom and adventure too, as long as the commitment is there.
But, once the timing is right and all of their needs are met then they do commit.
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Posted by GoldigoldPosted by lovely77Yes every Aquarius I have been sexually involved with there was a side peice! I don't know why.. One of my girlfriends and mom are very loyal and romantic. I think for Aquarius they have certain needs to be met, the perfect mate but not the perfect lover then yes they are inclined to cheat. They want the picture perfect life yet a lot of naughty fantasies. It's a difficult balance for them.Posted by GoldigoldWhen do Aquarius ever commit? Lol even if they do some not all but most always have a side piece.Posted by LibralogicYes if an Aquarius is not ready...Posted by GoldigoldYep I can see the attraction in that sense but even so I still feel like aquas fear of commitment and being "tied" down is strong enough to make me wonder how that could be a good match for libra.
Libras like freedom and adventure too, as long as the commitment is there.
But, once the timing is right and all of their needs are met then they do commit.
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Posted by Libralogic
So it seems a bit confusing to me why aquas and libras are supposed to be a good match when fundamentally aqua loves freedom and fears commitment yet libra loves love and represents relationships...
So for you libras out there who have been involved with aquarius what was your experience like? How fast did things move along and did you have to basically steer the wheel in that direction or did you wait for the aqua to come around?
Posted by TiranoI never claimed to be an expert and clearly I'm not. It's just a username.Posted by Libralogic
So it seems a bit confusing to me why aquas and libras are supposed to be a good match when fundamentally aqua loves freedom and fears commitment yet libra loves love and represents relationships...
So for you libras out there who have been involved with aquarius what was your experience like? How fast did things move along and did you have to basically steer the wheel in that direction or did you wait for the aqua to come around?
You call yourself "libralogic" yet I am not seeing any logical thinking here. So you are only taking into account the Sun sign of these individuals, no? It's evident that your assumptions are wrong, but let's see if you know why.
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Posted by LibralogicUnless you're a practical Libra, you can't help an Aquarius who's head is so far in the clouds that they don't know what they want to do with their life. They need grounding. For a fixed sign, they come off mutable as fuck with no direction. Just my personal opinion though.Posted by TiranoI never claimed to be an expert and clearly I'm not. It's just a username.Posted by Libralogic
So it seems a bit confusing to me why aquas and libras are supposed to be a good match when fundamentally aqua loves freedom and fears commitment yet libra loves love and represents relationships...
So for you libras out there who have been involved with aquarius what was your experience like? How fast did things move along and did you have to basically steer the wheel in that direction or did you wait for the aqua to come around?
You call yourself "libralogic" yet I am not seeing any logical thinking here. So you are only taking into account the Sun sign of these individuals, no? It's evident that your assumptions are wrong, but let's see if you know why.
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Posted by LoserDoing stuff together. Talking or not talking in the meantime. Remember this, if a Libra doesn't feel like talking it's not because they are plotting something or dreaming about being somewhere else doing something else with someone else. They feel OK, that's why they shut up. And don't feel useless. But I know why that is, because Libras can be very self-sufficient and Aqua's like to help and save and take care and you may feel that if she doesn't need help she doesn't need you but that's not true. She needs your company. Just spend time with her, do little things, talk to her, ASK her about stuff. If she involves you in anything at all then she likes you. Trust me you'd know if she didn't want you bc then she wouldn't let you have false expectations. And if she's demure it doesn't mean she doesn't fancy you. I don't know if this is true about you but I have discovered something that can lead to problems between an Aqua guy and a Libra girl. A Libra girl is usually the one who is seduced, not the one who seduces. And so is a shy Aqua guy. If you see what I mean.. Either she will have to seduce you (and maybe she will!) or you will have to assert yourself. Trust her. Libra's like Aqua guys very much, from what I have seen. : ) Maybe start by choosing another username instead of loser....! : )
Aquarius here.
What do Libra women look for? Currently interested in a Libra but I feel incompetent around her. I feel really useless around her, and usually feel like I'm not good enough. She tries to involve me in what she does, but in a friendly manner (not out of romantic interest). What can I do to attract her? What should I not do?

Posted by LibralogicGirl, ain't it the truth!! I agree with 101% But Libras have commitment issues too; it can take one forever to make their minds up. But if you find an Aquarius with the marriage-minded placements like Capricorn moon or Venus, etc it's not as bad. But yes I was dating an Aquarius and he started his own business and he was a damn workaholic who I only saw during booty call hours. LOL, LMAO. I initiated the booty call hours situation.
So it seems a bit confusing to me why aquas and libras are supposed to be a good match when fundamentally aqua loves freedom and fears commitment yet libra loves love and represents relationships...
So for you libras out there who have been involved with aquarius what was your experience like? How fast did things move along and did you have to basically steer the wheel in that direction or did you wait for the aqua to come around?

Posted by LibralogicBased on this site, I thought Libra's...especially the men were notorious for being noncommittal...lol.
So it seems a bit confusing to me why aquas and libras are supposed to be a good match when fundamentally aqua loves freedom and fears commitment yet libra loves love and represents relationships...
So for you libras out there who have been involved with aquarius what was your experience like? How fast did things move along and did you have to basically steer the wheel in that direction or did you wait for the aqua to come around?
Posted by jane84Yeah my aqua kisses me like no one ever has before lol. Super deep passionate kisses that make you wonder where you and they end and begin haha. Sigh he's still confusing as ever...we went out to dinner a couple days ago because I was feeling confused about my career so he wanted to help me discuss my options...I thought that was sweet of him. We had a great time and then had amazing sex. Well at least I'm having fun for now!
I dated one for a short time. I loved kissing him. He was the BEST kisser ever. Such good memories.. Lol
But it wasn't meant to be. We sort of drifted apart. Both detached, nothing held us together really.
My best friend is an Aquarius and so is sister.
We had a discussion about this. I told her how Libras and Aquas are supposed to be compatible. She told me no.. I should never get with an Aqua man. Lol Said he'd break my heart. Thought that was funny.
I know one married Aqua and Libra couple. They are doing well. Have two beautiful children together. It could happen.
Posted by LibralogicYeah that's how it felt. Lol Didn't go as far as sex though. I can't even imagine. Sounds like an Aqua to want to help (problem solvers for sure) but also very confusing. (Reason my sis said he would break my heart.. Lol)Posted by jane84Yeah my aqua kisses me like no one ever has before lol. Super deep passionate kisses that make you wonder where you and they end and begin haha. Sigh he's still confusing as ever...we went out to dinner a couple days ago because I was feeling confused about my career so he wanted to help me discuss my options...I thought that was sweet of him. We had a great time and then had amazing sex. Well at least I'm having fun for now!
I dated one for a short time. I loved kissing him. He was the BEST kisser ever. Such good memories.. Lol
But it wasn't meant to be. We sort of drifted apart. Both detached, nothing held us together really.
My best friend is an Aquarius and so is sister.
We had a discussion about this. I told her how Libras and Aquas are supposed to be compatible. She told me no.. I should never get with an Aqua man. Lol Said he'd break my heart. Thought that was funny.
I know one married Aqua and Libra couple. They are doing well. Have two beautiful children together. It could happen.click to expand
Posted by jane84The sex is seriously out of this world. He fucked me in an empty parking lot that night, my body half hanging outside of the car haha. He always gets a huge smile on his face and licks his lips right before he's about to kiss me and when I'm going crazy he has a big grin on his face...I know he's loving every minute of it. The level of passion is ridiculous...there's just this insane amount of intensity like we're just trying to melt and rip into one another...Okay I'm done lol.Posted by LibralogicYeah that's how it felt. Lol Didn't go as far as sex though. I can't even imagine. Sounds like an Aqua to want to help (problem solvers for sure) but also very confusing. (Reason my sis said he would break my heart.. Lol)Posted by jane84Yeah my aqua kisses me like no one ever has before lol. Super deep passionate kisses that make you wonder where you and they end and begin haha. Sigh he's still confusing as ever...we went out to dinner a couple days ago because I was feeling confused about my career so he wanted to help me discuss my options...I thought that was sweet of him. We had a great time and then had amazing sex. Well at least I'm having fun for now!
I dated one for a short time. I loved kissing him. He was the BEST kisser ever. Such good memories.. Lol
But it wasn't meant to be. We sort of drifted apart. Both detached, nothing held us together really.
My best friend is an Aquarius and so is sister.
We had a discussion about this. I told her how Libras and Aquas are supposed to be compatible. She told me no.. I should never get with an Aqua man. Lol Said he'd break my heart. Thought that was funny.
I know one married Aqua and Libra couple. They are doing well. Have two beautiful children together. It could happen.
Well good luck! Way to keep a positive attitude about it. Keep an open mind, you never know. 😉click to expand
Posted by LibralogicPosted by jane84The sex is seriously out of this world. He fucked me in an empty parking lot that night, my body half hanging outside of the car haha. He always gets a huge smile on his face and licks his lips right before he's about to kiss me and when I'm going crazy he has a big grin on his face...I know he's loving every minute of it. The level of passion is ridiculous...there's just this insane amount of intensity like we're just trying to melt and rip into one another...Okay I'm done lol.Posted by LibralogicYeah that's how it felt. Lol Didn't go as far as sex though. I can't even imagine. Sounds like an Aqua to want to help (problem solvers for sure) but also very confusing. (Reason my sis said he would break my heart.. Lol)Posted by jane84Yeah my aqua kisses me like no one ever has before lol. Super deep passionate kisses that make you wonder where you and they end and begin haha. Sigh he's still confusing as ever...we went out to dinner a couple days ago because I was feeling confused about my career so he wanted to help me discuss my options...I thought that was sweet of him. We had a great time and then had amazing sex. Well at least I'm having fun for now!
I dated one for a short time. I loved kissing him. He was the BEST kisser ever. Such good memories.. Lol
But it wasn't meant to be. We sort of drifted apart. Both detached, nothing held us together really.
My best friend is an Aquarius and so is sister.
We had a discussion about this. I told her how Libras and Aquas are supposed to be compatible. She told me no.. I should never get with an Aqua man. Lol Said he'd break my heart. Thought that was funny.
I know one married Aqua and Libra couple. They are doing well. Have two beautiful children together. It could happen.
Well good luck! Way to keep a positive attitude about it. Keep an open mind, you never know. 😉click to expand

Posted by sultrykittyI wouldn't quite specify the age as 30, but you're spot on with what you said. We are averse to commitment, but when the right person shows up who we connect mentally with, then we have no problem whatsoever committing to them exclusively. Aqua's mind is their heart. Appeal to our mind and you will appeal to our heart and body.
They're like that until they get older.
My Aqua was like that until he hit 30, and then he committed, and I have never doubted his loyalty since then.
Before that, yes he was with other girls (and I went out with other guys) and he never admitted it but I knew.
Not even the impression of stepping out in the 16 years since he committed to me.

Posted by LIb4LifePosted by LibralogicI have 3 very close Aquarius female associates and they are consume with finding the right man. They are not happy being alone, but one good thing about them is they will not settle, and I love that about them. The guy has to either come correct or don't come at all.
So it seems a bit confusing to me why aquas and libras are supposed to be a good match when fundamentally aqua loves freedom and fears commitment yet libra loves love and represents relationships...
So for you libras out there who have been involved with aquarius what was your experience like? How fast did things move along and did you have to basically steer the wheel in that direction or did you wait for the aqua to come around?
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So for you libras out there who have been involved with aquarius what was your experience like? How fast did things move along and did you have to basically steer the wheel in that direction or did you wait for the aqua to come around?